# 10/17/26 – Shiur 579 – What’s the right age to date and get married?

From **Halacha Headlines** by Halacha Headlines;Dovid Lichtenstein.

- **Published:** Thu, 15 Oct 2026 22:31:46 -0400
- **Duration:** 1:46:54
- **Audio:** https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/5cz5ac5rt9zp67wx/Headlines_10-17-26.mp3
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<p class="m_-797044777206005882w6asjqtextbase">Why does the Mishnah say בן שמונה עשרה לחופה? Is 18 an ideal age or a requirement?
How do we reconcile the different ages for marriage mentioned by Chazal and the Poskim?
What should a young man have in place before getting married - Torah learning, parnassah, and emotional maturity?
Are the considerations for girls different from those for boys?</p>
<p class="m_-797044777206005882w6asjqtextbase">Host: Ari Wasserman</p>
<p class="m_-797044777206005882w6asjqtextbase">with Rabbi Yitzchok Silber – Posek, Rav at the Mir Yeshiva, author, and expert on shidduchim and Shalom Bayis – 5:20
with Yehuda Geberer – historian specializing in Jewish history and the history of Jewish communities – 38:57
with Mrs. Chana Levitan – couples’ therapist, lecturer, and author with over 30 years of experience – 1:00:58
with Dr. Yaakov Freedman – psychiatrist specializing in mental health and the Orthodox Jewish community – 1:29:26</p>
<p>Conclusions and Takeaways – 1:40:15</p>

<p style="font-weight: 400;"><a href='https://mcdn.podbean.com/mf/web/cm7d5evqgnzjcf68/shiur_579_Marriage.pdf'>מראי מקומות </a></p>
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