# 4936 – Shidduch Advice When Prospective Groom Avoids Commitment to Jewish Practice – עצה לשידוך כאשר החתן המיועד מתחמק מהתחייבות לקיום יהדות

From **The Rebbe’s advice - Rabbi Chaim Wolosow** by R Chaim Wolosow.

- **Published:** Sat, 24 Oct 2026 14:10:00 +0000
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The Rebbe addresses a shidduch proposal where the prospective groom avoids committing to Jewish observance. He advises caution, suggesting that if the groom refuses to promise even privately, there is significant risk he will not change after marriage.

https://www.torahrecordings.com/rebbe/igroskodesh/014/003/4936