# Behind Greatness: Rebbetzin Tobi Kaplan’s Role + Wally Klatch on Living with Dementia | Rabbi Yisrael Motzen

From **Jewish Action The Podcast** by R Gil Student.

- **Published:** Thu, 11 Sep 2025 10:45:00 GMT
- **Duration:** 00:44:43
- **Audio:** https://anchor.fm/s/10857c700/podcast/play/108070418/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-8-9%2Facf480b8-6edc-89b4-35f9-ddba27fa022e.m4a
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<p>Host <strong>Rabbi Gil Student</strong> is joined by <strong>Rabbi Yisrael Motzen</strong> (Ne’er Tamid; Assistant to the OU EVPs; Director, <em>Kol Echad</em>) to unpack two standout pieces from the Summer 2025 issue of <em>Jewish Action</em>.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Part 1 — Rebbetzin Tobi Kaplan:</strong></p><p>Beyond the legend of Rabbi Aryeh Kaplan zt”l is the remarkable story of his wife, <strong>Rebbetzin Tobi Kaplan</strong>—from the Mississippi Delta to Boro Park—whose hospitality, editing help, and unwavering partnership powered his prolific impact.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Part 2 — “Living with Dementia”:</strong></p><p>Through <strong>Wally Klatch’s</strong> first-person reflection, we explore humility, identity, and gratitude in the face of cognitive decline—what’s lost, what opens up, and how Jewish sources help us honor and support loved ones with dignity.</p><p><br></p><p><strong>Themes we cover</strong></p><p><br></p><ul><li><p>What makes a rebbetzin’s partnership essential—and viable—today</p></li><li><p>Production vs. charisma: why clear Torah thinking wins</p></li><li><p>Memory, identity, and kavod: shattered luchos and respecting a talmid chacham who forgot his learning</p></li><li><p>Gratitude (Modim) as a daily practice—and a path through hard times</p></li><li><p>Why support groups matter, Jewish and general</p></li></ul><p><br></p><p><br></p><p><strong>Also mentioned:</strong> A teaser of the Fall 2025 issue: <em>Building a Community</em>—profiles of people who moved in and made an outsized impact.</p><p><br></p><p>Listen &amp; subscribe on <strong>Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and YouTube</strong>.</p><p>Read the Summer 2025 issue at <strong>jewishaction.com</strong>.</p>