# 6369 – Indirect Influence in Marital Disputes and the Power of Pleasantness – השפעה בעקיפין במחלוקות נישואין וכוח הנעימות

From **The Rebbe’s advice - Rabbi Chaim Wolosow** by R Chaim Wolosow.

- **Published:** Wed, 01 Jul 2026 14:21:17 +0000
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The Rebbe advises not to intervene directly in marital disputes, especially when both parties are G-d-fearing and observant. He emphasizes that indirect, pleasant, and peaceful influence is more effective than confrontation, leading to true Jewish and chassidic satisfaction.

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