Or HaChaim on Exodus Chapter 18
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וַיִּשְׁמַע וְגוֹ׳. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת לְאֵיזֶה עִנְיָן יִחֲסוֹ בְּיִחוּס ״כֹהֵן מִדְיָן״, שֶׁאֵין זוֹ מַעֲלָה אֶלָּא יְרִידָה, וּמִן הָרָאוּי רִאשׁוֹנוֹת לֹא תִזָּכַרְנָה.
וישמע יחרו כהן מדין, Yitro the priest of Midian heard, etc. Why did the Torah tell us that Yitro was a priest? Being a priest in a pagan society is hardly to someone's credit, why did the Torah then tell us about this? [the author bases himself on the rule that one does not remind a בעל תשובה of his past. Ed.]
וְאוּלַי כִּי יְכַוֵּן שֶׁבַח הָאִישׁ בְּאָמְרוֹ כֹהֵן מִדְיָן, לוֹמַר שֶׁהֲגַם שֶׁהָיוּ לוֹ שְׁתֵּי בְּחִינוֹת הָרְמוּזוֹת בְּכֹהֵן מִדְיָן, שֶׁהֵם הֱיוֹתוֹ רֹאשׁ לְמִדְיָן וְאָדוּק לַעֲבוֹדָה זָרָה, אַף עַל פִּי כֵן עָשָׂה שְׁנֵי דְּבָרִים נֶגְדִּיִּים וְהַפְכִּיִּים לִשְׁנֵי הַפְּרָטִים. כְּנֶגֶד הֱיוֹתוֹ גָּדוֹל אָמַר חֹתֵן מֹשֶׁה, שֶׁנִּתְחַתֵּן לְאָדָם שֶׁלֹּא נוֹדְעָה לוֹ גְּדֻלָּה עֲדַיִן, וְדָבָר זֶה יַקְפִּידוּ עָלָיו נוֹהֲגֵי שְׂרָרָה, וְאֵין צָרִיךְ לוֹמַר אֶחָד הַמְיֻחָד לְאֻמָּתוֹ שֶׁיַּקְפִּיד לָתֵת בִּתּוֹ לְאָדָם בְּלֹא שֵׁם. וּכְנֶגֶד הֱיוֹתוֹ אָדוּק לַעֲבוֹדָה זָרָה כַּמַּשְׁמָעוּת הַמּוּבָן מִתֵּבַת כֹּהֵן, אָמַר הַכָּתוּב (שמות יח:יא) מַה שֶׁאָמַר בְּסוֹף הָעִנְיָן: ״עַתָּה יָדַעְתִּי כִּי גָדוֹל ה׳ מִכָּל הָאֱלֹהִים״. וְדָבָר זֶה אֵין בּוֹ חִדּוּשׁ וּמַעֲלָה גְּדוֹלָה בֶּאֱמוֹר כֵּן גּוֹי אֶחָד לְקָבְעוֹ בַּתּוֹרָה, אֶלָּא בְּאֶמְצָעוּת מַה שֶׁקָּדַם לְיַחֲסוֹ בְּשֵׁם ״כֹּהֵן מִדְיָן״, דָּבָר גָּדוֹל הוּא שֶׁכֹּהֵן אֻמָּה אַחַת מֵהֶם וּבָהֶם יָעִיד עַל כִּי הֶבֶל יִפְצֶה פִּיהֶם.
Perhaps in this case the Torah wanted us to know the greatness of Yitro who converted to Judaism although he occupied an exalted position in his country at the cost of his prominence and probably even his wealth. Actually, the Torah describes Yitro in a contradictory role. Although he was leader in his country and as such could have chosen prominent sons-in-law for his daughters, he chose an unknown (to him), i.e. Moses as his son-in-law. The Torah therefore describes him both as a leader in Midian and as Moses' father-in-law. At the time, the other aspirants for Tzipporah's hand in marriage resented Yitro's choosing an itinerant foreigner over them. Concerning Yitro's position as an ardent idol worshiper, something that is implied in his title "priest," the Torah compliments him in verse 11 when he declared that he had found that the Lord was superior to any other kind of deity. The fact that a Gentile who occupied an exalted position in his own country and who was a religious dignitary to boot made a 180 degree turn becomes remarkable for the Jewish people only after the Torah tells us who this Gentile was prior to his conversion.
עוֹד טַעַם אָמְרוֹ כֹהֵן מִדְיָן, לוֹמַר בְּאֶמְצָעוּת כֵּן הִשִּׂיג לָדַעַת כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה ה׳, כִּי לָאֲנָשִׁים הַגְּדוֹלִים יִתְגַּלֶּה וְיִוָּדַע הַכֹּל בְּצֶדֶק בְּלֹא תוֹסֶפֶת וְגֵרָעוֹן, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן לְשֶׁאֵינָם רָשׁוּת, הֲגַם שֶׁיִּוָּדַע לָהֶם הַחֲדָשׁוֹת לֹא יֵדְעוּ כָּל הַדְּבָרִים הַנַּעֲשִׂים:
An additional reason why the Torah may have chosen to tell us something about Yitro's former career is that G'd had revealed all He had done to Yitro. He had not added nor subtracted anything which had occurred. Only people who occupy prominent positions of authority are granted such a comprehensive insight by G'd. We have described how Joshua was singled out by G'd to be privy to information not granted to the rest of the people.
אֵת כָּל אֲשֶׁר וְגוֹ׳ – גַּם זֶה יַגִּיד שֶׁבַח הָאִישׁ שֶׁהִשְׁתַּדֵּל לָדַעַת כָּל פְּרָטֵי הַמַּעֲשִׂים, וְזֶה יַגִּיד כִּי אָהַב אֶת יַעֲקֹב, שֶׁהֲלֹא תִרְאֶה אִישׁ שׂוֹנֵא לְרֵעֵהוּ יָקוּץ בְּהַגָּדַת שְׁבָחָיו וְטוּבוֹ וְיֶחְדַּל מִדַּעַת מַצָּבוֹ הַטּוֹב, אֲשֶׁר לֹא כֵן אָהוּב לַאֲהוּבוֹ, וְרָשַׁם ה׳ בְּדָתוֹ כִּי זֶה הָאִישׁ אָהַב אֶת יִשְׂרָאֵל. עוֹד יִרְצֶה בְּדִקְדּוּק עוֹד לָמָּה הוֹצִיא הַכָּתוּב פְּרָט זֶה שֶׁל הוֹצָאַת יִשְׂרָאֵל מִמִּצְרַיִם מִכְּלַל כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה. וְעוֹד כִּי הוּא עִקַּר כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה וְלֹא הָיָה צָרִיךְ לְפָרְשָׁהּ.
את כל אשר עשה אלוקים, all that the Lord had done, etc. This is also a compliment to Yitro. He endeavoured to know all the details of what had taken place. It proves that Yitro was what we term a philo-semite, a genuine friend of the Jewish people. When one hates someone, though one is aware of that person's superiority, one minimises the complimentary remarks one makes about such a person. The reverse is true if one loves someone; one is liable to be very lavish in one's praise of such a person. The Torah's description of Yitro is such that we realise that he was a true friend of the Israelites. Seeing that the Torah told us that Yitro heard "everything G'd had done for Israel," why did the Torah repeat "that G'd had taken the Israelites out of Egypt?" Surely this was part of what Yitro had heard!
אָכֵן לְצַד כִּי יִתְרוֹ מִן הַסְּתָם יָדַע תּוֹקֶף שְׁבִיַּת מִצְרַיִם, כָּאָמוּר בְּדִבְרֵיהֶם (מכילתא) כִּי אֲסִירֵי מִצְרַיִם לֹא פֻּתְּחוּ מֵעוֹלָם, וּמַה גַּם לְדִבְרֵיהֶם (סנהדרין קו,א; שמות רבה א,א) שֶׁאָמְרוּ כִּי יִתְרוֹ הָיָה מִיּוֹעֲצֵי פַּרְעֹה וּבָקִי בְּמִצְרַיִם וַאֲסִירֶיהָ. וְלָזֶה הֲגַם שֶׁיִּשְׁמַע כִּי הוֹצִיא וְגוֹ׳ לֹא יַצְדִּיק הַיְּצִיאָה בְּלִבּוֹ, לָזֶה הִקְדִּים הַכָּתוּב דָּבָר שֶׁמִּמֶּנּוּ הִצְדִּיק ״כִּי הוֹצִיא״, וְאָמַר וַיִּשְׁמַע יִתְרוֹ אֵת כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה, פֵּרוּשׁ כָּל הַנִּפְלָאוֹת וְהַנּוֹרָאוֹת אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה ה׳ בְּהַצְדָּקַת נָבִיא, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה לְמֹשֶׁה וְהַנִּפְלָאוֹת שֶׁעָשָׂה לְהַצָּלַת יִשְׂרָאֵל, בֵּין בִּרְדִיַּת מַחֲזִיק בָּם בֵּין בְּהַפְלָאָתָם מֵהַמַּכּוֹת בֵּין בְּנֵס הַיָּם וְכוּ׳, וּבָזֶה יָדַע כִּי הוֹצִיא וְגוֹ׳, וְלָזֶה לֹא אָמַר ״וְכִי הוֹצִיא״, וְזוּלַת שְׁמִיעַת כָּל הַנַּעֲשֶׂה מֵהַפְּלָאִים לֹא הָיָה מַצְדִּיק הֲגַם שֶׁיִּשְׁמַע שֶׁשִּׁלְּחָם, כִּי לֹא יַאֲמִין, וְאִם יַאֲמִין לֹא יִבְטַח כִּי יֹאמַר שׁוּב יִרְדְּפוּ אַחֲרֵיהֶם, וְאִם רָדְפוּ וְלֹא יָכְלוּ יָכִינוּ עוֹד מַחֲנֶה וְיִרְדְּפוּ.
We may assume that Yitro had been well aware that no slave had ever escaped from Egypt (Mechilta on verse 11). According to Sanhedrin 106 Yitro had been one of Pharaoh's advisers, and as such had been thoroughly familiar with the system by which Egypt made sure its prisoners could not escape. When he heard about the Israelites having left Egypt he simply could not believe this. The Torah therefore had to repeat this aspect of G'd's achievements as one that Yitro had heard about. Once he found what he had heard to be true, he became convinced of the greatness of his son-in-law Moses. This is why the Torah linked the names of G'd and Moses. It was Yitro's understanding that G'd had gone out of His way to enhance the reputation of His prophet Moses. When the Torah describes what Yitro heard and the order in which it impressed him, it does not link the Exodus to the other miracles and achievements by G'd otherwise it would have described Yitro hearing וכי הוציא, "and that He took out, etc." The Exodus is presented as a separate achievement by G'd in Yitro's understanding, i.e. the one that made all the other miracles he heard about believable.
אָכֵן בְּמַה שֶׁשָּׁמַע כָּל אֲשֶׁר וְגוֹ׳ הִצְדִּיק ״כִּי הוֹצִיא״. וְתִמְצָא כִּי רַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה נֶחְלְקוּ (זבחים קטז,א) בְּאֵיזֶה מֵהַשְּׁמוּעוֹת נִרְגַּשׁ, מֵהֶם אָמְרוּ קְרִיעַת יַם סוּף וּמֵהֶם אָמְרוּ מִלְחֶמֶת עֲמָלֵק, וְזֶה מַתְאִים לִדְבָרֵינוּ. וּלְדִבְרֵי הָאוֹמֵר מִלְחֶמֶת עֲמָלֵק מִמַּה שֶׁסָּמַךְ לוֹ ״וַיִּשְׁמַע״, זֶה יַגִּיד כִּי לֹא הִסְפִּיק לוֹ כָּל מַה שֶׁשָּׁמַע מֵהַנִּפְלָאוֹת, כִּי יִתְלֶה שֶׁהַסּוֹבֵב הוּא פַּחֲזוּתוֹ שֶׁל פַּרְעֹה שֶׁהִתְרִיס כְּנֶגֶד שְׁלוּחוֹ שֶׁל מָקוֹם, לֹא לְצֹרֶךְ הַצָּלַת יִשְׂרָאֵל, כִּי לֹא הָיָה ה׳ טוֹרֵחַ כָּל כָּךְ בִּשְׁבִילָם. וּכְפִי זֶה אֵין בִּטָּחוֹן לְיִשְׂרָאֵל מֵעַמִּים אֲשֶׁר יָקוּמוּ עֲלֵיהֶם, לָזֶה אָמַר הַכָּתוּב שֶׁשָּׁמַע מִלְחֶמֶת עֲמָלֵק, וּכְבָר הִפְלִיאוּ רַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (מכילתא) לוֹמַר מַה עָצְמָה הַמִּלְחָמָה הָאֲרוּרָה. וְנִרְאֶה לְפָרֵשׁ לְדֶרֶךְ זֶה אָמְרוֹ ״כִּי הוֹצִיא״, פֵּרוּשׁ, לְצַד שֶׁשָּׁמַע כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה וּבִכְלַל זֶה מִלְחֶמֶת עֲמָלֵק, בָּזֶה הִצְדִּיק כִּי כָל הַמּוֹפְתִים לֹא הָיוּ אֶלָּא לְמַעֲלָה וּלְחִבַּת יִשְׂרָאֵל לְהוֹצִיאָם, וּבִשְׁבִילָם עָשָׂה כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה, וּשְׁמִיעַת עֲמָלֵק יַגִּיד.
Hearing about "all that G'd had done" enabled Yitro to believe the rumours he had heard. Our sages in Zevachim 116 disagree as to which of the various miracles Yitro heard about had impressed him the most. Some felt that it was the splitting of the Sea of Reeds; others said it was the defeat of Amalek. This whole argument is parallel to our own perception. According to the rabbis who hold that Yitro was most impressed by the fact that the Israelites defeated Amalek it makes sense that Yitro and his pilgrimage is related in the Torah immediately after the story of how the Israelites defeated Amalek. Yitro had reasoned that though G'd had exacted retribution from Pharaoh who had proved inordinately disobedient to G'd, this did not prove that what G'd had done was for the sake of the Israelites. The Israelites had simply become the beneficiaries of Pharaoh and the Egyptians being punished. Yitro thought that if he had been correct in his assessment the Exodus of the Israelites did not mean that they would be able to maintain themselves as a nation in competition with all the other nations. When G'd saved the Israelites from the attack by Amalek, Yitro realised that they were indeed G'd's chosen people, that what had occurred was the beginning of a new world order.
עוֹד יִרְצֶה בְּאָמְרוֹ כִּי הוֹצִיא לִסְמֹךְ אַחֲרֶיהָ הַגָּדַת קִיחַת יִתְרוֹ אֶת צִפּוֹרָה וְגוֹ׳, עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (שמות רבה ד,ד) כִּי אָמַר יִתְרוֹ לְמֹשֶׁה: לָמָּה אַתָּה מוֹלִיךְ אִשְׁתְּךָ וְכוּ׳? אָמַר לוֹ: עֲתִידִין יִשְׂרָאֵל לְקַבֵּל הַתּוֹרָה עַל הַר סִינַי וְלֹא יִהְיוּ בָּנַי בַּכְּלָל. אָמַר לוֹ: לֵךְ לְשָׁלוֹם וְכוּ׳, עַד כָּאן, וְלָזֶה אָמַר הַכָּתוּב כִּי הוֹצִיא וַיִּקַּח וְגוֹ׳ לְקַיֵּם דְּבָרוֹ.
The Torah mentions the fact that Yitro heard about the Exodus immediately before reporting that he brought Tzipporah and her children to Moses. We can understand this in connection with Shemot Rabbah 4,4 where Moses wanted to take his family to Egypt with him. At the time Yitro wanted to know why Moses wanted to subject his family to the strain of travel and the suffering in Egypt. Moses told him that when the Israelites would leave Egypt and receive the Torah at Mount Sinai he would be keenly aware of the absence of his family at that event. Hearing this Yitro allowed Moses to take his family along. Having heard about the imminence of the Israelites' arrival at Mount Sinai, Yitro felt obliged to bring Tzipporah and her children to Moses without delay.
וַיִּקַּח יִתְרוֹ חוֹתֵן מֹשֶׁה. פֵּרוּשׁ, לְצַד שֶׁהָיָה חוֹתֵן מֹשֶׁה מָצָא עֲשׂוֹת כָּכָה שֶׁהָלַךְ לְהַר הָאֱלֹהִים וְגוֹ׳, שֶׁהִנִּיחוּהוּ מִיִּרְאָתוֹ שֶׁל מֹשֶׁה כִּי נָפְלָה אֵימָתוֹ עַל כָּל הָעַמִּים, אֲבָל זוּלַת זֶה הָיוּ מוֹנְעִין אוֹתוֹ מִלֶּכֶת לִכְפּוֹר בֶּאֱמוּנָתָם, וּמַה גַּם שֶׁחָשׁוּד הָיָה בְּעֵינֵיהֶם, וְתִמְצָא שֶׁכָּל אוּמָּה תְּחַיֵּב מִיתָה לַכּוֹפֵר בֶּאֱמוּנָתָם, וּלְצַד הֱיוֹת יִתְרוֹ לְחוֹתֵן מֹשֶׁה הִיא שֶׁעָמְדָה לוֹ. וְאוּלַי שֶׁיִּרְמֹז עוֹד כִּי הֲגַם שֶׁהָיָה לְיִתְרוֹ כִּנּוּי שֶׁל גְּדֻלָּה לִקָּרוֹת ״כֹּהֵן מִדְיָן״, מָאַס בְּכִנּוּי זֶה וְלָקַח לוֹ כִּנּוּי ״חוֹתֵן מֹשֶׁה״, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וַיִּקַּח יִתְרוֹ, וּמַה לָקַח מֵהַשְּׁנֵי יִחוּסִין שֶׁיִּחֲסוֹ הַכָּתוּב בִּתְחִלָּה, חוֹתֵן מֹשֶׁה לֹא כֹּהֵן מִדְיָן.
ויקח יתרו חתן משה, Yitro, Moses' father-in-law took, etc. The reason Yitro is again described as Moses' father-in-law is that it was only due to his status as the father-in-law of such a great man that his peers did not prevent him from travelling to Mount Sinai and becoming Jewish. It was customary in those days to put heretics to death, seeing that the religions were all national in character and defection was equivalent to treason. Perhaps the Torah also hints here that though Yitro was known by an entirely different title, i.e. The Priest of Midian, he now spurned that title and wished to be known simply as Moses' father-in-law.
אַחַר שִׁלּוּחֶיהָ – טַעַם שֶׁהֻצְרַךְ לוֹמַר ״אַחַר שִׁלּוּחֶיהָ״, גַּם דִּקְדֵּק לוֹמַר לְשׁוֹן שִׁלּוּחִין, וְזוּלַת דִּבְרֵי רַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (שמות רבה ד,ד) שֶׁכָּתַבְתִּי בְּפָסוּק ״אֵת כָּל אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה״ וְגוֹ׳, נִרְאֶה לוֹמַר כִּי מֹשֶׁה גֵּרְשָׁהּ כְּשֶׁרָאָה שֶׁהָיָה עוֹסֵק בְּמִצְוַת שְׁלִיחוּתוֹ יִתְבָּרַךְ, לֹא יָדַע שִׁעוּר הַזְּמַן וְשִׁלְּחָהּ מִבֵּיתוֹ. וְהַבָּנִים – אֱלִיעֶזֶר קָטָן הָיָה וְצָרִיךְ לְאִמּוֹ שֶׁנּוֹלַד בַּדֶּרֶךְ בַּמָּלוֹן, וְגֵרְשֹׁם מִן הַסְּתָם קָטָן הָיָה סָמוּךְ לֶאֱלִיעֶזֶר מִלְּפָנָיו, אוֹ לְדִבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה שֶׁאָמְרוּ (מכילתא) שֶׁהִתְנָה עִם יִתְרוֹ בֵּן אֶחָד לַבַּת וּבֵן שֵׁנִי לָאָב, לְטַעַם זֶה נִמְצְאוּ שְׁנֵיהֶם בְּיָדָהּ. וְכַוָּנַת הוֹדָעַת ה׳ הַדָּבָר כָּאן לוֹמַר שֶׁבַח יִתְרוֹ וּמַעֲלַת מֹשֶׁה בְּעֵינָיו, שֶׁהֲגַם שֶׁשִּׁלְּחָהּ לְקָחָהּ וְטָרַח בִּכְבוֹדוֹ וּבְעַצְמוֹ לְהוֹלִיכָהּ לוֹ אֲפִלּוּ אַחַר שִׁלּוּחֶיהָ. אֶלָּא לְדִבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (שמות רבה) שֶׁאָמְרוּ שֶׁלֹּא שִׁלְּחָהּ אֶלָּא סָמַךְ עַל הַבְטָחַת יִתְרוֹ כִּי יָדָיו תְּבִיאֶנָּהּ, נִרְאֶה לוֹמַר כִּי טַעַם אָמְרוֹ אַחַר שִׁלּוּחֶיהָ פֵּרוּשׁ שֶׁלֹּא הָיָה הַדָּבָר אֶלָּא עַד שֶׁקָּדְמָה וְשָׁלְחָה לוֹ לְמֹשֶׁה שְׁלוּחִים וְיָדְעָה מְקוֹם תַּחֲנוֹתוֹ וְהִסְכִּים עַל יָדָהּ, אָז הוּא שֶׁלָּקַח יִתְרוֹ וְגוֹ׳ וַיָּבֹא אֶל הַמִּדְבָּר וְגוֹ׳.
אחר שלוחיה, after he had sent her away. The reason that the Torah is careful to describe Tzipporah's remaining in her father's home in Midian as: "after Moses had sent her away," needs to be analysed. Were it not for the Midrash we have quoted I would have to assume that Moses actually divorced his wife when he found that he was a full time messenger of G'd and could not devote time to his family. It was reasonable for Eliezer to remain with his mother seeing he had only just been born. Gershom too was presumably still a minor and as such an encumbrance to Moses in his mission. Moreover, according to the Mechilta on our verse Moses and Yitro had agreed at the time of his marriage to Tzipporah that the first born son would belong to the mother (to be raised as a pagan) whereas the other would belong to the father. At any rate, there was a good reason why both children had remained with their mother. When the Torah reports Yitro as bringing both his wife and his children to Moses personally, this is a tremendous compliment for Yitro. He did not need to expose himself to possible rejection by his erstwhile son-in-law. According to the interpretation in Shemot Rabbah 4,4 that Moses had not divorced Tzipporah but had relied on his father-in-law to see to it that the family would be reunited at the appropriate time, we may understand the words אחר שלוחיה, as referring to messages sent by Tzipporah in order to find out exactly where the Israelites were encamped. Yitro did not undertake the journey until after Moses had made it plain that he would welcome both him and his family.
שֵׁם הָאֶחָד גֵּרְשֹׁם וְגוֹ׳. הֻצְרַךְ לִכְתֹּב טַעַם הַשֵּׁם פַּעַם שְׁנִיָּה אַחַר שֶׁכְּתָבוֹ בְּפָרָשַׁת שְׁמוֹת (שמות ב:כב), כְּדֵי שֶׁתֵּדַע כִּי הוּא זֶה הָאָמוּר בְּפָרָשַׁת שְׁמוֹת וְלֹא אַחֵר שֶׁנִּקְרָא עַל שְׁמוֹ.
שם האחד גרשם, the name of the one was Gershom, etc. Although the reason Moses named this son Gershom has already been mentioned in Exodus 2,22, it had to be repeated here in order to inform us that we are talking about the same son already mentioned in chapter 2 (though this may have been 60 years earlier) and not another son (by the same name but born of a different mother).
עוֹד אוּלַי כִּי חָשׁ הַכָּתוּב שֶׁיֹּאמַר הָאוֹמֵר כִּי טַעַם שֶׁקָּרָא לוֹ שֵׁם גֵּרְשׁוֹם הוּא לְצַד שֶׁגֵּרְשׁוֹ יִתְרוֹ מֵעַל שֻׁלְחָנוֹ אוֹ מִבֵּיתוֹ, וַהֲגַם שֶׁאָמַר הַטַּעַם ״גֵּר הָיִיתִי״ וְגוֹ׳, אוּלַי כִּי לְצַד שֶׁלֹּא יַרְגִּישׁ יִתְרוֹ אָמַר כֵּן, לָזֶה חָזַר הַכָּתוּב וְהִצְדִּיק הַדְּבָרִים אֲפִלּוּ בִּזְמַן שֶׁלֹּא יָחוּשׁ לְהַרְגָּשַׁת יִתְרוֹ כִּי טַעַם שֵׁם וְגוֹ׳ כִּי אָמַר וְגוֹ׳. וּפֵרוּשׁ מַשְׁמָעוּת ״כִּי אָמַר גֵּר״ וְגוֹ׳ פֵּרַשְׁתִּיו בְּפָרָשַׁת שְׁמוֹת (שמות ב:כב).
Furthermore, the Torah may have had to mention that the reason was not that Yitro had expelled Moses from his home. While it is true that Moses said: "I used to be a stranger in a strange country" (obviously not referring to his being expelled by Yitro), he may have phrased it thus so that Yitro should not hear that he had referred to expulsion by him. The Torah repeats here once more that the reason for Gershom's name was Moses' grateful acknowledgement of having prospered as a fugitive in a strange land.
וְשֵׁם הָאֶחָד אֱלִיעֶזֶר וְגוֹ׳. טַעַם אָמְרוֹ הָאֶחָד, כִּי לְצַד טַעַם קְרִיאַת הַשֵּׁמוֹת טַעְמוֹ שֶׁל זֶה קָדַם לְטַעְמוֹ שֶׁל שֵׁם גֵּרְשֹׁם, שֶׁבַּתְּחִלָּה הִצִּילוֹ מֵחֶרֶב פַּרְעֹה וְאַחַר בָּא לְמִדְיָן וְגָר שָׁם.
ושם האחד אליעזר, and the name of the one was Eliezer, etc. The reason that Eliezer, Moses' second son is referred to as האחד, "the one," instead of the "second one," is that the reason for Eliezer being named as he was refers to an event which occurred even before Gershom was born. G'd had first saved Moses' life from the sword of Pharaoh before he had enabled him to settle down in Midian.
וְטַעַם שֶׁלֹּא הִקְדִּים קְרִיאַת שֵׁם אֱלִיעֶזֶר הוּא, כִּי קָרָא לַמְּאוֹרָע שֶׁהָיָה בּוֹ אָז בְּאֶרֶץ נָכְרִיָּה, וְאַחַר כָּךְ הָלַךְ לְחַפֵּשׂ מְאוֹרָעוֹת קוֹדְמוֹת. אוֹ לְפִי מַה שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁנוּ בְּפָסוּק ״גֵּר הָיִיתִי״ (שמות ב:כב), שֶׁיְּכַוֵּן עַל גֵּרוּתוֹ בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, בְּחִינָה זוֹ קָדְמָה לְהַצָּלָתוֹ מֵחֶרֶב פַּרְעֹה וְלָזֶה הִקְדִּימוֹ. וּלְצַד בְּחִינַת גֵּרוּת שְׁנִיָּה בְּאֶרֶץ נָכְרִיָּה קָדַם לוֹ כַּוָּנָה הָרְמוּזָה בִּקְרִיאַת שֵׁם אֱלִיעֶזֶר, וּכְנֶגֶד זֶה אָמַר ״הָאֶחָד״, וְלָזֶה הֻצְרַךְ לְפָרֵשׁ מַה הוּא הָעֵזֶר שֶׁכְּנֶגְדּוֹ קָרָא לוֹ שֵׁם, וְאָמַר וַיַּצִּלֵנִי וְגוֹ׳. וּבָזֶה יֻצְדַּק לוֹמַר עָלָיו שֵׁם הָאֶחָד. וְזוּלַת אָמְרוֹ ״וַיַּצִּלֵנִי מֵחֶרֶב פַּרְעֹה״ הָיִיתִי מְפָרֵשׁ שֶׁהָעֵזֶר הוּא אַחַר הַגֵּרוּת, וְהַהַקְדָּמָה שֶׁהִקְדִּים לוֹמַר ״גֵּר הָיִיתִי״ וְגוֹ׳ תְּחַיְּבֵנִי לְפָרֵשׁ כֵּן, וְיִסָּתֵם בְּפָנַי יְדִיעַת טַעַם אָמְרוֹ ״הָאֶחָד״.
The reason the Torah does not mention Eliezer's name first is that it first wanted to stress that Moses was in a strange land at the time the children were born. The Torah retraces events only after the main point that Moses was in a strange land has been established. An alternative explanation, one which I have mentioned on Exodus 2,22, is that when Moses spoke about a "strange land," he referred to our globe, this present life. He did not feel at home in this life, ever. This feeling of being a stranger in a strange land preceded even the time when G'd saved him from the sword of Pharaoh. Moses' whole attitude to life on earth has to be evaluated in that light. This throws a different light on the fact that his life on earth was saved by G'd after he had killed the Egyptian. The Torah had to spell out what precisely G'd saved Moses from or I would have thought that G'd saved Moses from some danger after he had settled in Midian. At any rate, there was something unique about the time when G'd saved Moses' life miraculously.
אֶל הַמִּדְבָּר וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ, וְאִם תֹּאמַר מִנַּיִן יָדְעוּ מְקוֹם חֲנוֹתוֹ בַּמִּדְבָּר הַגָּדוֹל? לָזֶה אָמַר אֲשֶׁר הוּא חוֹנֶה שָׁם וְגוֹ׳, פֵּרוּשׁ, וּכְבָר הוֹדִיעוֹ מֹשֶׁה מָקוֹם אֲשֶׁר דִּבֶּר אִתּוֹ שָׁם הָאֱלֹהִים, וְאָמַר אֵלָיו (שמות ג:יב) ״תַּעַבְדוּן אֶת הָאֱלֹהִים עַל הָהָר הַזֶּה״, וְהוֹדִיעוֹ הָהָר שֶׁעָלָיו יְקַבְּלוּ הַתּוֹרָה. וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ ״אֲשֶׁר הוּא חוֹנֶה שָׁם הַר״ וְגוֹ׳ הַיָּדוּעַ אֶצְלוֹ. וְתִמְצָא שֶׁאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (שמות רבה פ״ד) שֶׁאָמַר מֹשֶׁה לְיִתְרוֹ עִנְיַן קַבָּלַת הַתּוֹרָה, וּכְתַבְתִּיו בִּתְחִלַּת הַפָּרָשָׁה, וְתִהְיֶה הוֹדָעַת הַר הָאֱלֹהִים מִכְּלַל מַה שֶׁהוֹדִיעוֹ.
אל המדבר, to the desert, etc. The reason the Torah adds: "to the place where Israel was encamped" is in order to explain how it was they knew where to locate the Israelites in the great desert. Moses had previously informed his family of the location of his encounter with the burning bush and that G'd had told him in 3,12: "you shall serve the Lord upon this mountain." This explains why the Torah was able to describe the mountain as "the mountain of G'd where they were encamped" already at this juncture.
אֲנִי חֹתֶנְךָ וְגוֹ׳ וְאִשְׁתְּךָ וְגוֹ׳. טַעַם שֶׁשִּׁנָּה הַכָּתוּב סִדְרָם כָּאן מִסֵּדֶר שֶׁכָּתַב בְּפָסוּק שֶׁלִּפְנֵי זֶה שֶׁהִקְדִּים הַבָּנִים לָאִשָּׁה, יִתְבָּאֵר עַל פִּי דִּבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (מכילתא; שמות רבה כז,ב) שֶׁאָמְרוּ אִם אֵין אַתָּה יוֹצֵא בְּגִינִי וְכוּ׳, אִם כֵּן מִמַּטָּה לְמַעְלָה סִדְּרָם הַכָּתוּב, לָזֶה הִקְדִּים הָאִשָּׁה לַבָּנִים, שֶׁאִם לֹא יַעֲשֶׂה בִּשְׁבִילָהּ יַעֲשֶׂה בִּשְׁבִיל הַבָּנִים, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן כְּשֶׁהוֹדִיעַ הַכָּתוּב בִּיאָתָם לַמִּדְבָּר וְסִדְּרָם סֵדֶר הֶחָשׁוּב חָשׁוּב קוֹדֵם הִקְדִּים הַבָּנִים. וַהֲגַם שֶׁהִקְדִּים שָׁם יִתְרוֹ לַבָּנִים וְכָאן סִדְּרוֹ קוֹדֵם לָאִשָּׁה שֶׁיּוֹרֶה שֶׁהוּא לְמַטָּה מִמֶּנָּה, הוּא יִתְרוֹ דִּבֵּר בַּעֲנָוָה וְשִׁפְלוּת אֲבָל הַכָּתוּב כִּבְּדוֹ וְהִקְדִּימוֹ לְצַד הֱיוֹתוֹ חוֹתְנוֹ שֶׁל מֹשֶׁה וְצָרִיךְ לְכַבְּדוֹ אֲפִלּוּ מֹשֶׁה, דִּכְתִיב (שמואל א כד:יא) ״וְאָבִי רְאֵה גַּם רְאֵה״.
אני חתנך…ואשתך ושני בניה, "I, your father-in-law as well as your wife and her two sons, etc." Why did the Torah change the order in which Moses' wife and children are mentioned from the order in which they were mentioned in verse five? In verse five the sons are described as belonging to Moses and are mentioned first, whereas here Tzipporah is mentioned first and the sons are described as being hers! Mechilta on our verse explains that Yitro sent word to Moses that if he would not come out to meet him because he was his father-in-law, at least he should come out to meet and to welcome his wife and children. We may therefore assume that the Torah used the same approach in once mentioning Tzipporah before the children and once after the children. If Moses would not come out to welcome Tzipporah as his wife, at least he should welcome her as the mother of his children. When the arrival of these persons in the desert is mentioned, however, they are mentioned in order of their respective importance. This is why the sons are mentioned ahead of Tzipporah. Even though in this instance Yitro mentioned the fact that he was Moses' father-in-law before mentioning his own name, whereas in verse five his name is mentioned before his status as Moses' father-in-law, in verse five the Torah speaks objectively, whereas in our verse the Torah quotes Yitro. Seeing that Yitro was a modest individual he would not mention his name first. Moses would go out to honour Yitro because he was his father-in-law even if he had no other claim to honour. You will find something similar in Samuel I 24,11 where David honoured Saul even though the latter tried to kill him.
וּשְׁנֵי בָנֶיהָ עִמָּהּ. טַעַם אָמְרוֹ עִמָּהּ, נִתְכַּוֵּן לוֹמַר חֲלוּקָּה רְבִיעִית, שֶׁאִם אֵין אַתָּה עוֹשֶׂה בְּגִינָהּ לְבַד וְלֹא בְּגִין בָּנֶיהָ לְבַד, צָרֵף כְּבוֹד שְׁנֵיהֶם וְצֵא.
ושני בניה עמה, and her two sons with her. The reason the Torah wrote the word עמה, with her, is to continue the trend of thought mentioned earlier. Yitro said: "if you do not come out on account of her or your children, at least come out to meet her and the children together."
וַיֵּצֵא וְגוֹ׳ לִקְרַאת חֹתְנוֹ. פֵּרוּשׁ, לְצַד שֶׁאָמַר לוֹ יִתְרוֹ אִם אֵין אַתָּה יוֹצֵא בְּגִינִי וְכוּ׳, לָזֶה אָמַר הַכָּתוּב וַיֵּצֵא מֹשֶׁה לִקְרַאת חֹתְנוֹ, כִּי כְּבוֹדוֹ שֶׁל חוֹתְנוֹ הִסְפִּיק לוֹ לָצֵאת לִקְרָאתוֹ. וְאוּלַי שֶׁעָשָׂה הֶכֵּר לַדָּבָר שֶׁיָּצָא בְּיִחוּד לִקְרָאתוֹ וְלֹא פָּנָה בִּיצִיאָתוֹ לִמְקוֹם אֹהֶל הָאִשָּׁה וִילָדֶיהָ, אוֹ שֶׁהָיָה אוֹמֵר בְּפֵרוּשׁ שֶׁיְּצִיאָתוֹ הוּא לִקְרַאת חוֹתְנוֹ. גַּם לְדִבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (מכילתא) שֶׁמֹּשֶׁה הוּא שֶׁהִשְׁתַּחֲוָה לְיִתְרוֹ, זֶה לְךָ הָאוֹת כִּי לִכְבוֹדוֹ יָצָא, וְלָזֶה אָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (שם): כָּבוֹד גָּדוֹל נִתְכַּבֵּד יִתְרוֹ וְכוּ׳, וְזוּלַת דְּבָרֵינוּ מִנַּיִן לוֹ כָּבוֹד מִיְּצִיאָה זוֹ, דִּלְמָא לִכְבוֹד בָּנָיו וְאִשְׁתּוֹ יָצָא מֹשֶׁה?
ויצא משה לקראת חתנו, Moses went out to meet his father-in-law, etc. Seeing that Yitro had pleaded that Moses welcome either his wife or his sons or both, the Torah is at pains to tell us that Moses considered Yitro as deserving to be welcomed by him in his own right, hence the emphasis on לקראת חתנו. Perhaps Moses even went so far as to demonstrate this point by going only to Yitro's tent at this point, ignoring his wife and children till somewhat later. Mechilta makes the additional point that seeing that Moses prostrated himself in front of Yitro this is proof that he went out in order to honour Yitro. Our sages say that Moses honoured Yitro greatly. If the Torah had not stressed that Moses went to meet his father-in-law, how would I have known that he did not go out in order to welcome his wife and sons specifically?
וַיִּשְׁתַּחוּ וְגוֹ׳. רַבּוֹתֵינוּ ז״ל (מכילתא יתרו א) אָמְרוּ: אֵינִי יוֹדֵעַ מִי הִשְׁתַּחֲוָה לְמִי, כְּשֶׁהוּא אוֹמֵר ״אִישׁ״ – מִי הוּא שֶׁקָּרוּי אִישׁ? זֶה מֹשֶׁה, עַד כָּאן. הִנֵּה טַעַם שֶׁלֹּא אָמְרוּ כִּי שְׁנֵיהֶם הִשְׁתַּחֲווּ זֶה לָזֶה, לְצַד שֶׁאָמַר לְשׁוֹן יָחִיד ״וַיִּשְׁתַּחוּ וַיִּשַּׁק לוֹ״, זֶה יַגִּיד כִּי אֶחָד לְבַד הִשְׁתַּחֲוָה. וְאִם תֹּאמַר לְדִבְרֵיהֶם ז״ל וַהֲלֹא מָצִינוּ שֶׁגַּם יִתְרוֹ נִקְרָא אִישׁ, דִּכְתִיב (שמות ב:כא) ״וַיּוֹאֶל מֹשֶׁה לָשֶׁבֶת אֶת הָאִישׁ״, יֵשׁ לְחַלֵּק בֵּין קְרִיאַת אִישׁ שֶׁל יִתְרוֹ לִקְרִיאַת אִישׁ שֶׁל מֹשֶׁה. וְקֹדֶם אָעִירָה שַׁחַר מַה מַעֲלָה יֵשׁ בְּשֵׁם זֶה שֶׁל אִישׁ, וַהֲלֹא כָּל אָדָם יִקָּרֵא אִישׁ וּנְקֵבָתוֹ אִשָּׁה, וְגַם בַּבְּהֵמוֹת מָצִינוּ שֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב בְּפָרָשַׁת נֹחַ (בראשית ז:ב) ״שִׁבְעָה אִישׁ וְאִשְׁתּוֹ״. אֶלָּא שֶׁיִּשְׁתַּנֶּה שֵׁם אִישׁ כְּשֶׁיִּהְיֶה בִּמְקוֹם זִכְרוֹן הָאָדָם וְיוּסַף לוֹ לִוּוּי קְרִיאַת אִישׁ, זֶה יַגִּיד שֶׁהוּא לְשׁוֹן מַעֲלָה. וּבִמְקוֹם שֶׁיֹּאמַר אִישׁ בְּלֹא זִכְרוֹן שְׁמוֹ, זֶה יִמָּצֵא בִּמְקוֹם הַשֵּׁם וְלֹא יַגִּיד מַעֲלָה, כְּמוֹ שֶׁתֹּאמַר (בראשית כד:כא) ״וְהָאִישׁ מִשְׁתָּאֵה לָהּ״, ״וַיִּמְצָאֵהוּ אִישׁ״ (בראשית לז:טו). וְגַם זִכְרוֹן אֲנָשִׁים שֶׁאָמְרוּ ז״ל (במדבר רבה טז) שֶׁהוּא לְשׁוֹן חֲשִׁיבוּת, דַּוְקָא בְּצֵרוּף זִכְרוֹן שְׁמָם, דִּכְתִיב (במדבר יג:ג) ״כֻּלָּם אֲנָשִׁים״, שֶׁאַחַר שֶׁזָּכַר שְׁמָם חָזַר לוֹמַר ״כֻּלָּם אֲנָשִׁים״, זֶה יַגִּיד לְשׁוֹן חֲשִׁיבוּת. מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן כְּשֶׁיִּהְיֶה בִּמְקוֹם הַזְכָּרַת שְׁמָם כִּנּוּי זֶה, אֵין זוֹ מַעֲלָה, כְּאָמְרוֹ (במדבר כב:ט) ״מִי הָאֲנָשִׁים הָאֵלֶּה עִמָּךְ״. וְהִנֵּה מָצִינוּ שֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב (שמות יא:ג) ״גַּם הָאִישׁ מֹשֶׁה״, ״כִּי זֶה מֹשֶׁה הָאִישׁ״ (שמות לב:כג), הֲרֵי הִזְכִּיר שְׁמוֹ וְהוֹסִיף לוֹמַר ״הָאִישׁ״, זֶה יַגִּיד כִּי לְמַעֲלָה וְאַדְנוּת יְכַוֵּן. וְזֶה הוּא אָמְרָם: מִי הוּא שֶׁקָּרוּי אִישׁ? זֶה מֹשֶׁה, פֵּרוּשׁ אִישׁ, לְשׁוֹן שְׂרָרוּת וּמְשִׁילוּת. אֲבָל יִתְרוֹ, הֲגַם שֶׁמָּצִינוּ לוֹ שֶׁנִּקְרָא אִישׁ, לֹא מָצִינוּ אוֹתוֹ בְּלִוּוּי אֶלָּא בִּמְקוֹם זִכְרוֹן שְׁמוֹ אָמַר ״הָאִישׁ״, וְהוּא שֵׁם הַצּוֹדֵק עַל כָּל נִבְרָא זָכָר.
וישתחו וישק לו, He prostrated himself and kissed him, etc. Our rabbis in the Mechilta say that it was not clear who prostrated himself before whom and who kissed whom. When the Torah wrote איש in "they asked each other how they were," it became clear that Moses prostrated himself as he qualified for the description איש. The fact that the Torah does not mention that two people prostrated themselves makes it plain that only one of the two prostrated himself before the other. Should you argue that Yitro too has been referred to as איש in Exodus 2,21 where Moses is reported as agreeing to stay with Yitro, there is a subtle difference when Moses is called איש and when Yitro is called איש. Let me first explain the precise nature of the title איש, seeing that every male adult is called איש, if only to distinguish him from his female mate. We even find the term איש applied to animals such as in Genesis 7,2 where the Torah speaks of the pure animals which Noach is to take into the ark with him. The meaning of the word איש undergoes a change when it is used together with the name of the person concerned. In such instances it describes that person as someone of breeding and nobility. We find an example of the word איש or אנשים being used as a complimentary description in Numbers 13,3 where the people whom Moses had selected as spies were described as all being אנשים after we had already been told their names. On the other hand, when the word איש is used in lieu of a name it does not denote exceptional qualities such as Genesis 37,15 the man who found Joseph unable to locate his brothers in Shechem. The same applies in Genesis 24,21 where Eliezer is referred to as האיש. We are told in Bamidbar Rabbah 16, that the use of the word אנשים is complimentary only when the actual names of these people are recorded also. When G'd asked Bileam who the אנשים were who had come to him that night, (Numbers 22,9), clearly no compliment was intended. On the other hand, in Exodus 11,3, when Moses is described as האיש משה גדול מאד the word האיש is clearly highly complimentary. The same is true even of Exodus 32,23 when the mixed multitude refer to the fact that Moses had not returned from the Mountain. These people described Moses as the most perfect human being they had ever encountered. In the case of Yitro we do not find that the word איש is applied to him by the Torah in conjunction with his name, only in lieu of his name. When he is referred to in that context, the word האיש, (i.e. a pronoun) has neither a complimentary nor a derogatary meaning. The word is simply one used to describe a male.
וּמֵעַתָּה כְּשֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב כָּאן אִישׁ, הַדָּבָר שָׁקוּל אִם הוּא כִּנּוּי הָרָגִיל בִּבְחִינַת הַזְּכָרִים, אוֹ פֵּרוּשׁוֹ הוּא אִישׁ הָרָשׁוּם לְמַעֲלָה וַחֲשִׁיבוּת. וְתֵבָה זוֹ מוּנַחַת בֵּין יִתְרוֹ וּבֵין מֹשֶׁה, אִם נֹאמַר שֶׁפֵּרוּשׁוֹ הוּא כִּנּוּי לְזָכָר יִכָּנֵס בַּמַּשְׁמָעוּת גַּם יִתְרוֹ וּשְׁנֵיהֶם שְׁקוּלִים בַּמַּשְׁמָעוּת, וְאֵין אֲנִי יָכוֹל לַעֲשׂוֹת שְׁנֵיהֶם שֶׁהֲרֵי הַכָּתוּב לֹא אָמַר אֶלָּא אֶחָד כְּמוֹ שֶׁדִּיַּקְנוּ מֵאָמְרוֹ ״וַיִּשְׁתַּחוּ״, וְאֶחָד זֶה אֵין אֲנִי יוֹדֵעַ מִי הוּא, וְלֹא בָּא הַכָּתוּב לִסְתּוֹם אֶלָּא לְפָרֵשׁ. וּבְהֶכְרֵחַ לוֹמַר כִּי פֵּרוּשׁ אִישׁ הָאָמוּר כָּאן הוּא לְשׁוֹן חֲשִׁיבוּת, וּבְאָמְרוֹ כֵן נִתְחַיֵּב לוֹמַר כִּי זֶה הוּא מֹשֶׁה הָאִישׁ שֶׁאֵלָיו נִתְיַחֵד חֲשִׁיבוּת זֶה וְלֹא לְיִתְרוֹ, וּבָזֶה לֹא סָתַם הַכָּתוּב כַּוָּנָתוֹ וַהֲרֵי פֵּרֵשׁ שֶׁעַל מֹשֶׁה הוּא אוֹמֵר.
In our verse it is a toss-up if the word איש is used in lieu of a pronoun or if it is a compliment for someone previously mentioned by name and therefore complimentary. The word is positioned between Yitro (actually חתנו) and Moses so that it is extremely difficult to know its meaning. If we are to assume that it is used as a pronoun for a male, both Moses and Yitro could be the subject referred to. It cannot refer to both Moses and Yitro seeing the Torah described only one of the two persons as prostrating himself. At the same time the Torah does not aim to confuse us but to inform us. I believe there is no choice but to understand that the subject is Moses, that the Torah wishes to point out that in spite of Moses being such a highly placed person he prostrated himself before his father-in-law to show him respect and honour.
וַיְסַפֵּר מֹשֶׁה. הֲגַם שֶׁאָמַר הַכָּתוּב ״וַיִּשְׁמַע וְגוֹ׳ אֵת כָּל אֲשֶׁר״ וְגוֹ׳, אוּלַי שֶׁהָיוּ פְּרָטִים שֶׁלֹּא שְׁמַעְתָּן אָזְנוֹ. אוֹ אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁלֹּא הִצְדִּיק הַפְּלָאוֹת לְצַד הַגְזָמַת הָעִנְיָנִים, אוֹ שֶׁהֲגַם שֶׁקָּדַם לוֹ מֵהַיְּדִיעוֹת עֲדַיִן הָיָה מִסְתַּפֵּק שֶׁלֹּא נִרְתַּק חֶבֶל מִצְרִי שֶׁעַל צַוָּארֵיהֶם, וְסִפֵּר לוֹ מֹשֶׁה עִנְיָן שֶׁלֹּא הָיָה יָכוֹל לָדַעַת מִזּוּלָתוֹ, וְהוּא הֲרִיגַת שַׂר מִצְרַיִם שֶׁאָמְרוּ רַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (זהר ח״ב נב:) שֶׁרָאוּהוּ יִשְׂרָאֵל מֵת, וּבָזֶה הֶחְלִיט יִתְרוֹ כִּי פָּקַע נִירָם מֵעֲלֵיהֶם.
ויספר משה לחתנו, Moses told his father-in-law, etc. Although the Torah told us that Yitro had heard all that G'd had done, there may have been some details which he had not heard about. Alternatively, Yitro had assumed that what he had heard previously was grossly exaggerated; Moses now explained to him that what he heard was true to the last detail. It is also possible that until Moses told him otherwise Yitro had been under the impression that the Israelites were still vassals of the Egyptians, not totally free. Moses told him of the slaying of the guardian angel of the Egyptians, something that Yitro could not have heard about from any other source as only the Israelites had seen the "dead" guardian angel (Zohar second volume page 52). Once Yitro heard about this he knew that the Egyptians did no longer have any hold over the Israelites.
וְאוּלַי כִּי זֶה הוּא שֶׁרָמַז הַכָּתוּב בְּאָמְרוֹ אֵת כָּל הַתְּלָאָה אֲשֶׁר מְצָאָתַם בַּדֶּרֶךְ וַיַּצִּלֵם וְגוֹ׳, שֶׁהוֹדִיעוֹ מֵרְדִיפַת הַשַּׂר, כִּי יִתְרוֹ כֹּהֵן מִדְיָן הָיָה, וּמִן הַסְּתָם הֵם יַבְחִינוּ וְיֵדְעוּ כִּי יֵשׁ שָׂרֵי מַעְלָה עַל כָּל אֻמָּה, וְסִפֵּר לוֹ כִּי רָדַף אוֹתָם הוּא בְּעַצְמוֹ, דִּכְתִיב (שמות י״ד:י׳) ״וְהִנֵּה מִצְרַיִם נֹסֵעַ אַחֲרֵיהֶם״, וּמִזֶּה רָעֲשׁוּ וּפָחֲדוּ יִשְׂרָאֵל, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁנוּ שָׁם. וּכְשֶׁשָּׁמַע יִתְרוֹ כֵּן אָמַר בָּרוּךְ וְגוֹ׳ מִתַּחַת יַד מִצְרָיִם, שֶׁהוּא הַשַּׂר שֶׁמִּצְרַיִם שְׁמוֹ, וְנָכוֹן.
Perhaps the Torah itself alludes to this with the words את כל התלאה אשר מצאתם בדרך ויצילם השם, "all the travail that had come upon them on the way from which G'd had saved them." Seeing Yitro had been a religious leader he would be familiar with the fact that different nations had guardian angels in the celestial regions; Moses told Yitro about the personal pursuit by that guardian angel and how the Israelites had been very frightened of that guardian angel. When Yitro heard about all this he exclaimed: "blessed be the Lord who has delivered this nation from the hand of Mitzrayim (the guardian angel)."
וַיִּחַדְּ יִתְרוֹ. תַּרְגּוּם אוּנְקְלוֹס ״וַחְדִּי״. וְצָרִיךְ לָדַעַת לָמָּה יְדַבֵּר הַכָּתוּב כָּאן אֲרָמִית וְלֹא אָמַר לָשׁוֹן בָּרוּר שֶׁהוּא לְשׁוֹן הַקֹּדֶשׁ. וַהֲגַם שֶׁאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (סוטה לב,א) בְּשִׁבְעִים לָשׁוֹן, אַף עַל פִּי כֵן דָּבָר יַגִּיד בְּשַׁנּוֹתוֹ אֶת טַעְמוֹ.
ויחד יתרו על כל הטובה, Yitro rejoiced over all the goodness, etc." Onkelos translates the word ויחד as וחדי, the aramaic word for "he was glad." Why did the Torah have to use an aramaic word in this instance instead of using a Hebrew word familiar to all of us? Although we learned in Sotah 32 that certain sections of the Torah may be read publicly in any language, we still need to know why the Torah chose an aramaic expression here in the original.
וְנִרְאֶה כִּי יוֹדִיעַ הַכָּתוּב כִּי מֵרוֹב הַשִּׂמְחָה נִתְחַדֵּד בְּשָׂרוֹ, כִּי תִמְצָא כְּשֶׁתִּהְיֶה לְאָדָם שִׂמְחָה וְהוּא דָּבָר שֶׁלֹּא כְּפִי הַמְשׁוֹעָר בַּמּוּשָּׂג הָרָגִיל תִּוָּלֵד בּוֹ הַרְגָּשָׁה בְּהַרְכָּבַת מִזְגוֹ, וְלִפְעָמִים יִתְעַלֵּף וְלִפְעָמִים יִסְתַּכֵּן מַמָּשׁ. וְעַיֵּן מַה שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁתִּי בְּוַיִּגַּשׁ בְּפָסוּק (בראשית מה:כו) ״לֵאמֹר עוֹד יוֹסֵף חַי״. וְהִנֵּה יִתְרוֹ הֲגַם שֶׁקָּדַם אֶצְלוֹ יְדִיעָה מִבְּשׂוֹרוֹת הַטּוֹבוֹת, אַף עַל פִּי כֵן כְּשֶׁשָּׁמַע תּוֹכֶן הַנֵּס, וּמַה גַּם בִּרְדִיפַת הַמַּלְאָךְ אוֹתָם כְּמוֹ שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁתִּי בְּפָסוּק (ח׳) ״וַיְסַפֵּר מֹשֶׁה״ וְהִצִּילָם ה׳, נִתְחַדֵּד בְּשָׂרוֹ. וְדָבָר זֶה מוּרְגָּשׁ הוּא אֵצֶל כָּל בַּעַל חַי מַרְגִּישׁ.
It appears that Yitro was so overjoyed when he heard about the total liberation of the Jewish people that his skin broke out in goose-pimples. It is a well known fact that when a person experiences an unexpected overpowering feeling of joy he develops a physical reaction; sometimes he may pass out or even die from shock. Read what I have written on Genesis 45,26 about Jacob's reaction when told that Joseph was still alive. Although Yitro had previously heard part of the good news, the story Moses told him about the death of the guardian angel of Egypt made his skin crawl.
עַתָּה יָדַעְתִּי וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ, כִּי הֲגַם שֶׁיֵּשׁ לָאֻמּוֹת שָׂרִים גְּדוֹלִים וַעֲצוּמִים לְהִלָּחֵם בַּעֲדָם וּלְהָרַע לְאוֹיְבֵיהֶם, וְכָל מֵרִים יָד כְּנֶגְדָּם, אַף עַל פִּי כֵן לֹא יְכַוְּנוּ לְהִנָּקֵם מֵהָאֻמָּה הַנֶּגְדִּיִּית בְּדִמְיוֹן הַמֶּרֶד, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן אֱלֹהֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל שֶׁיְּכַוֵּן לִמְדֹּד בַּמִּדָּה עַצְמָהּ שֶׁל הַמּוֹרֵד וְעוֹשֶׂה רִשְׁעָה, שִׁקַּע שׁוֹקְעֵיהֶם וְכוּ׳. גַּם יֵשׁ לִתְלוֹת בַּמְּאֹרָע הָרָע כִּי לֹא מִצַּד שֶׁכְּנֶגְדּוֹ הֻכָּה, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן אֱלֹהֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל שֶׁכָּל הַמַּכּוֹת וְהַיִּסּוּרִין אֲשֶׁר יִסֵּר פַּרְעֹה הֵם מְכֻוָּנִים לְמַה שֶׁזָּדוּ עֲלֵיהֶם. וְצֵא וּלְמַד מַה שֶׁאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (תנחומא) בְּכִוּוּן הַמַּכּוֹת שֶׁכָּל אַחַת כְּנֶגֶד מִדָּה אַחַת רָעָה שֶׁזָּדוּ הַמִּצְרִיִּים וְכוּ׳:
עתה ידעתי כי גדול ה׳ מכל האלוקים, "Now I know that the Lord is greater than all gods;" Yitro acknowledged that although all other nations have spiritual representatives in the celestial regions, some of whom are very powerful and both protect their protegees and assist them in their wars, they do not exact retribution from the adversaries of their protegees as does G'd. Only G'd operates on the principle of the punishment fitting the crime. Only the G'd of Israel would drown people who themselves had drowned others, etc. When the celestial representatives of other nations act in defense of their protegees one cannot recognise this as what happens to their adversaries seems totally unrelated to what these people had perpetrated. In the case of the G'd of Israel, every one of the plagues He brought upon Egypt was retribution for a specific wrong committed by that people and their king.
וַיִּקַּח יִתְרוֹ וְגוֹ׳ עֹלָה וְגוֹ׳. הִנֵּה נִתְחַכֵּם יִתְרוֹ לִזְבֹּחַ שְׁלָמִים רַבִּים, וְזֶה הָיָה לוֹ לְאוֹת כִּי מַזְמִין הוּא גְּדוֹלֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל עַל שֻׁלְחָנוֹ, וְלָזֶה לֹא אָמַר הַכָּתוּב ״וַיִּקְרָא לְאַהֲרֹן וּלְזִקְנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לֶאֱכֹל״ וְגוֹ׳ אֶלָּא וַיָּבֹא אַהֲרֹן וְגוֹ׳, פֵּרוּשׁ, מֵעַצְמָן בָּאוּ, כִּי מַעֲשָׂיו מוֹכִיחִים הַהַזְמָנָה כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא יָבוֹאוּ קָדָשִׁים לִידֵי נוֹתָר, וְכִבְּדוּהוּ וּבָאוּ מֵעַצְמָן אַהֲרֹן וְהַזְּקֵנִים וְלֹא הִטְרִיחוּהוּ לְהַזְמִינָם עַל הַזֶּבַח.
ויקח יתרו… עולה וזבחים, Yitro took total offerings and meat offerings, etc. Yitro was clever in offering numerous peace offerings. He did this in order to be able to play host to many Jewish dignitaries. This is the reason it does not say: "he invited Aaron and the elders," but "Aaron and the elders came to eat with Moses' father-in-law before the Lord." They did not need to await an invitation because the quantity of Yitro's offerings spoke for itself. He certainly would not have allowed all this meat to go to waste as it would have been forbidden to do so. The elders honoured Yitro by joining him without a personal invitation being extended to them.
כִּי יָבֹא אֵלַי הָעָם וְגוֹ׳. קָשֶׁה, מַה תְּשׁוּבָה זוֹ עוֹשָׂה, וַהֲלֹא רָאָה יִתְרוֹ כִּי בָא אֵלָיו הָעָם לִדְרֹשׁ, וְכַוָּנַת קֻשְׁיָתוֹ הוּא לָמָּה יִתְנַהֵג בְּמִנְהָג זֶה כִּי יֵשׁ טֹרַח לָעָם. וּדְבָרָיו בָּרוּר מִלֵּלוּ ״אַתָּה יוֹשֵׁב לְבַדֶּךָ״, פֵּרוּשׁ, וְאֵין שׁוֹפְטִים אֲחֵרִים לָדוּן הָעָם, וְלוּ יִהְיֶה שֶׁלֹּא הֵבִין מֹשֶׁה דְּבָרָיו, הָיָה לוֹ לִשְׁאֹל גְּזֵרַת הַדִּבּוּר, לֹא שֶׁיֹּאמַר לוֹ דְּבָרִים שֶׁעֲלֵיהֶם הוּא מַקְשֶׁה.
כי יבא אלי העם לדרוש אלוקים "for the people come to me to seek out G'd." What did Moses want to accomplish with this reply? Did Yitro not see for himself that the people came to Moses to seek out G'd (judgment approved by G'd)? Yitro's question had been why Moses followed a particular procedure, one which was inconvenient for the people. He did not ask what Moses was doing.
וְנִרְאֶה כִּי מֹשֶׁה הֵבִין בְּדִבְרֵי יִתְרוֹ בְּמַה שֶׁאָמַר אֲשֶׁר אַתָּה עוֹשֶׂה וְגוֹ׳, מַשְׁמָע כִּי מֹשֶׁה מַכְרִיחָם וּמְחַיְּבָם שֶׁלֹּא לַעֲמוֹד לִפְנֵי דַיָּן זוּלָתוֹ, וְזֶה סִבָּה שֶׁסּוֹבְלִים הָעָם הַטּוֹרַח, וְאִם יַחְפּוֹץ יְמַנֶּה עֲלֵיהֶם דַּיָּנִים וְיֵלְכוּ לָדוּן לִפְנֵיהֶם. לָזֶה הֱשִׁיבוֹ כִּי לֹא מִמֶּנּוּ אֶלָּא מֵהָעָם, כִּי יָבֹא מֵעַצְמוֹ אֵלַי וְלֹא לְזוּלָתִי חָפֵץ לָלֶכֶת. וּלְצַד שֶׁיִּקְשֶׁה לְךָ לָמָּה יַחְפְּצוּ בְּטוֹרַח זֶה, הַטַּעַם הוּא כִּי יִהְיֶה לָהֶם דָּבָר בָּא אֵלַי, וְאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (זהר חלק ב עח.) בָּא אֵלַי הַדָּבָר עַצְמוֹ וְיִצְטַדֵּק הַדִּין לַאֲמִתּוֹ, וְדָבָר זֶה לֹא יִמָּצֵא בְּזוּלָתִי.
I believe that Moses referred to the emphasis Yitro had placed on the words אשר אתה עשה לעם, "which you are doing to the people." Moses understood that Yitro implied that Moses forced the people to appear before him, that he was not willing to let other people function as judges, and that as a result the people suffered inconvenience. If only Moses were willing to delegate he could save the people all this inconvenience. Moses replied to this accusation by saying that the matter was not of his choosing but that the people insisted on bringing their problems to him personally. He also explained to Yitro who could not understand why the people were willing to put up with this inconvenience that "anyone who has some matter comes to me." The Zohar second volume page 78 explains the words דבר בא אלי to mean that "a Divine ruling comes to me," i.e. Moses' decision would be divinely inspired. Since no other judge had been so favoured by G'd, the people are willing to put up with the inconvenience.
וּמֵעַתָּה אֵין מְצִיאוּת לְמַנּוֹת דַּיָּנִים וְיֵלְכוּ הָעָם לִפְנֵיהֶם, וְגָמַר אוֹמֶר וְהוֹדַעְתִּי וְגוֹ׳, פֵּרוּשׁ גַּם דָּבָר זֶה אִי אֶפְשָׁר בְּזוּלָתִי.
As a result of these considerations there was no point in appointing other judges for the people to go to. Moses concluded by saying: "I make them know the statutes of G'd;" this too was something no one else was able to do.
וְיִתְרוֹ נִסְתַּפֵּק בְּמַשְׁמָעוּת דִּבְרֵי מֹשֶׁה שֶׁסּוֹבֵל שְׁתֵּי דְּרָכִים. הָאַחַת, כִּי לְצַד שֶׁבָּאִים אֶצְלוֹ הָעָם הוּא חָשׁ עַל הַמִּצְוָה לָדוּן בֵּין אִישׁ וְגוֹ׳ לַעֲשׂוֹתָהּ הוּא וְלֹא אֲחֵרִים, וְהַשְּׁנִיָּה, כִּי הָעָם לֹא יַחְפְּצוּ לְזוּלָתוֹ לְצַד מַה שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁנוּ בִּדְבָרָיו. לָזֶה הֱשִׁיבוֹ כְּנֶגֶד הַמּוּבָן מִדְּבָרָיו כִּי יִבְחַר עֲשׂוֹת הַמִּצְוָה בְּעַצְמוֹ וְלֹא יִמְנַע עֲשׂוֹת טוֹב אָמַר לֹא טוֹב הַדָּבָר אֲשֶׁר אַתָּה וְגוֹ׳, כַּאֲשֶׁר יְבָאֵר הַטַּעַם. וּכְנֶגֶד מַה שֶׁמּוּבָן מִדְּבָרָיו כִּי הָעָם לֹא יִתְרַצּוּ לָלֶכֶת לְזוּלָתוֹ, אָמַר אִיעָצְךָ וְגוֹ׳ הֱיֵה אַתָּה לָעָם וְגוֹ׳ וְאַתָּה תֶחֱזֶה וְגוֹ׳ וְשָׁפְטוּ אֶת הָעָם בְּכָל עֵת, פֵּרוּשׁ, בְּכָל דִּין שֶׁיִּהְיֶה הַמִּשְׁפָּט רָצוּי לִשְׁנֵי בַּעֲלֵי דִּינִים, וּמִן הַסְּתָם כְּשֶׁיָּדוּנוּ לָהֶם מִשְׁפָּט רָצוּי לָמָּה יִבְחֲרוּ בַּטּוֹרַח הַגָּדוֹל, וְהָיָה וְגוֹ׳, פֵּרוּשׁ וּכְשֶׁיִּהְיֶה דָּבָר גָּדוֹל שֶׁל הִתְעַצְּמוּת הַדִּין, בֵּין לְצַד הַשּׁוֹפְטִים שֶׁלֹּא יוּכְלוּ הַשֵּׂג בֵּין לְצַד הַנִּשְׁפָּטִים שֶׁלֹּא יִתְרַצּוּ שְׁתֵּי הַכִּתּוֹת בְּמִשְׁפָּטָם – יָבִיאוּ אֵלֶיךָ, וְלֹא לְצַד פְּרָט זֶה תִּתְחַיֵּב בַּכֹּל.
Yitro was not sure that he had understood Moses' words correctly seeing that they were capable of two interpretations. 1) Moses could have meant that inasmuch as the people came to him voluntarily he felt he had to fulfil the מצוה to settle arguments between two people personally. 2) The people did not want anyone else but Moses to preside over their litigation as I have already explained. Yitro worded his proposal in such a way that it would fit either of the reasons Moses had mentioned why he alone had to preside over litigation. Concerning Moses' argument that he wanted to fulfil the מצוה of judging personally, Yitro said: לא טוב הדבר, "this is not a good method." He then proceeded to explain why it was not a good system. Concerning Moses' argument that the people insisted that only he should be their judge, Yitro said: "I will give you some advice, etc." He presented his scheme in such a way that both litigants in a quarrel would return home satisfied. Should one of them not be satisfied he would still have the option of Moses personally hearing his case. The total number of cases submitted to Moses would be greatly reduced. As a result there would be a great reduction in personal tensions. If, per chance, the lower court would declare itself incompetent to settle an issue, והיה (verse 22), the judges of that court could in turn come to Moses and submit the problem to him. Yitro demonstrated to Moses that the fact that people wanted him to hear their problems personally did not obligate him unless they could not be made happy any other way.
נָבֹל תִּבֹּל. כָּפַל לוֹמַר נָבוֹל וְגוֹ׳, לִהְיוֹת כִּי יֵשׁ שְׁנֵי גְּדָרִים בְּמַשְׁמָעוּת תִּבֹּל, הָאֶחָד כָּל שֶׁיִּגָּרַע כָּל שֶׁהוּא מִכֹּחוֹ הָרִאשׁוֹן יִקָּרֵא עָלָיו הַלֵּאוּת לָעֵרֶךְ הַקּוֹדֵם, אֲבָל עַל כָּל פָּנִים יָכוֹל עֲשׂוֹת מַה שֶׁהָיָה עוֹשֶׂה קוֹדֵם בִּמְעַט יְגִיעָה. וְהַשֵּׁנִי הוּא הַלֵּאוּת הַנִּרְגָּשׁ לְכָל שֶׁהוּא גֶּדֶר הַמּוֹנֵעַ הָאָדָם מֵעֲשׂוֹת חֶפְצוֹ לְצַד כִּי לֹא יִשָּׁאֵר בּוֹ כֹּחַ, לָזֶה אָמַר אֵלָיו כִּי מַה שֶׁיַּגִּיעַ אֵלָיו מֵהַלֵּאוּת כֹּחַ לֹא שִׁעוּר מוּעָט אֶלָּא שִׁעוּר שֶׁכְּפִי הָאֱמֶת יִקָּרֵא לוֹ תִּבֹּל, וְהוּא מַה שֶׁגָּמַר אוֹמֶר לֹא תוּכַל עֲשׂוֹהוּ לְבַדֶּךְ. אוֹ אוּלַי שֶׁכָּפַל כְּנֶגֶד מַה שֶׁאָמַר ״גַּם אַתָּה גַּם״ וְגוֹ׳.
נבול תבול, "you will surely become weary, etc." Yitro repeated the word נבול because it has two meanings. We apply this term to describe anything which has lost some of its original strength, and as a result has become weary, fatigued, relative to its original state. Nonetheless the subject under discussion is still able to perform its basic task though with greater exertion. The second meaning of נבול is a feeling of weariness which is felt so keenly that the subject is unable to carry out his regular routine at all. Yitro warned Moses that though, intially, he would feel only slightly weary, eventually he would become so weary, נבול תבול, that he would be unable to function at all. Yitro underlined this by saying: "you will not be able to carry on by yourself." Alternatively, the reason he repeated the word was simply because he wanted to illustrate how both Moses and the litigants would become weary.
גַּם אַתָּה גַּם הָעָם הַזֶּה. טַעַם אָמְרוֹ גַּם בַּחֲלוּקָּה רִאשׁוֹנָה וּשְׁנִיָּה, יִרְצֶה לֹא מִבָּעְיָא זוּלָתְךָ בְּמַצָּב זֶה אֶלָּא גַּם אַתָּה כִּי רַב חֵילְךָ, וְאָמְרוֹ גַּם הָעָם הַזֶּה פֵּרוּשׁ יִשְׂרָאֵל לְצַד שֶׁצְּרִיכִין לְהַמְתִּין זֶה לָזֶה בַּדִּין כַּמַּעֲשֶׂה הָאָמוּר בָּעִנְיָן ״וַיַּעֲמֹד״ וְגוֹ׳, וְאָמְרוֹ תֵּבַת גַּם לְצַד שֶׁטָּרְחָם אֵינוֹ מְקֻבָּץ בְּיָחִיד.
גם אתה גם העם הזה, "both you and this people, etc." Yitro used the word גם twice to indicate that not only Moses whose powers were very great and close to inexhaustible would tire (seeing he had to preside over litigation daily for many hours), but also the people who would have to stand in line would find this too tiresome.
וְרַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (מכילתא) אָמְרוּ ״גַּם״ – זֶה אַהֲרֹן, ״הָעָם״ – אֵלּוּ הַשִּׁבְעִים זְקֵנִים. וְצָרִיךְ לָדַעַת טַעַם רַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה שֶׁפֵּרְשׁוּ כֵן, וְאִם לְצַד ״גַּם״ הָיָה לָהֶם לְפָרֵשׁ כְּמוֹ שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁנוּ. אָכֵן לְצַד שֶׁרָאוּ כִּי בַּעֲצָתוֹ אָמַר שֶׁיְּמַנֶּה סַךְ גָּדוֹל מִיִּשְׂרָאֵל שָׂרֵי אֲלָפִים וְגוֹ׳ שֶׁעוֹלֶה בָּהֶם לְמִנְיָן שְׁמוֹנֶה רְבָבוֹת, גִּלָּה דַּעְתּוֹ כִּי לֹא יַסְפִּיקוּ שִׁבְעִים זְקֵנִים. וּלְדִבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה יִתְפָּרֵשׁ אָמְרוֹ גַּם מִלְּבַד הַזְּקֵנִים, וְגַם שֵׁנִית פֵּרוּשׁ מִלְּבַד מֹשֶׁה, וְיֵשׁ רְבוּתָא בְּכָל אֶחָד, מֹשֶׁה לְצַד מַעֲלָתוֹ, וְהַזְּקֵנִים לְצַד הֱיוֹתָם רַבִּים. אוֹ אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן בְּאָמְרוֹ גַּם אַתָּה לְרַבּוֹת הָעָם שֶׁיַּגִּיעַ לָהֶם הַלֵּאוּת אֲנָשִׁים כְּשֶׁיִּהְיוּ מַמְתִּינִים זֶה לָזֶה בַּדִּין, וְאָמְרוֹ גַּם שֵׁנִי לְרַבּוֹת הַגַּם שֶׁיִּצְטָרֵף הוּא עִם הַזְּקֵנִים.
The Mechilta understands the word גם as referring to Aaron, whereas the word העם would refer to the seventy elders. We need to understand the reason for this interpretation. If they considered only the word גם they would have had to explain these two words in the same way as we have done. However, the sages realised that if Moses would follow Yitro's advice he would have had to appoint close to 80,000 judges. He therefore indicated that even seventy elders were far too few. The sages therefore understood the word גם to refer to the additional judges Moses would have to appoint. They interpreted the second גם to refer to judges in addition to Moses. In each instance the word גם added a new element. According to the sages, the first גם meant that although Moses was such a superior judge, others, less competent would also have to be appointed, whereas the second גם meant that although the elders were numerous, even their number did not suffice to ensure that the litigation procedure would run smoothly and promptly. It is also possible that the words גם אתה included the people who would feel weary because of standing in line, waiting. Yitro added a second גם to tell Moses that even if he co-opted the seventy elders this would still be far short of what was needed.
וְאַתָּה תֶחֱזֶה. פֵּרוּשׁ, לֹא שֶׁהָעָם יְמַנּוּ עֲלֵיהֶם אֶלָּא הוּא יֶחֱזֶה. עוֹד רָמַז, כִּי לְצַד זֶה יֵחָשֵׁב כְּאִלּוּ הוּא הַשּׁוֹפֵט כֵּיוָן שֶׁהֵם שְׁלוּחָיו וְיִטּוֹל חֵלֶק בַּמִּצְוָה.
ואתה תחזה מכל העם אנשי חיל "and you shall seek out from amongst all the people able men, etc." This does not mean that the people should appoint the judges, but that Moses should look for suitable candidates. The Torah also hints that inasmuch as Moses would do the appointing, he could view himself as the judge seeing his appointees were his delegates.
מִכָּל הָעָם. פֵּרוּשׁ, הֲגַם שֶׁיִּמְצָא בְּנֵי אָדָם שֶׁיֵּרָאֶה בְּעֵינָיו כִּי הֵם רְאוּיִים לַדָּבָר, אַף עַל פִּי כֵן לֹא יִהְיֶה מִתְרַצֶּה בָּהֶם עַד שֶׁיְּבַקֵּשׁ כָּל הָעָם וְיִקַּח הַגָּדוֹל שֶׁבְּכוּלָּם בְּכָל בְּחִינָה מִבְּחִינוֹת הַטּוֹבוֹת הַמְּנוּיוֹת בִּדְבָרָיו.
מכל העם, "from amongst all the people, etc." This means that although Moses might find candidates acceptable to him he should not appoint them until they also proved acceptable to all the people and the people asked for these men to be appointed as judges.
אַנְשֵׁי חַיִל וְגוֹ׳. אָמַר אַרְבַּע הַדְרָגוֹת כְּנֶגֶד אַרְבָּעָה מִנּוּיִים הַמֻּזְכָּרוֹת בִּדְבָרָיו, כְּנֶגֶד שָׂרֵי אֲלָפִים אָמַר אַנְשֵׁי חַיִל, תֵּיבַת חַיִל תַּגִּיד עֹצֶם הַשְׁלָמַת הָאֹשֶׁר וְהַמִּדּוֹת וְהַגְּבוּרָה וּכְלָלוּת הַשְּׁלֵמוּת, כִּי כֵן צָרִיךְ לִהְיוֹת שַׂר הָאֶלֶף. וּכְנֶגֶד שָׂרֵי הַמֵּאוֹת אָמַר יִרְאֵי אֱלֹהִים, כִּי לְצַד פְּרָט זֶה לֹא יִצְטָרֵךְ כָּל כָּךְ אֶלָּא כְּשֶׁיִּהְיֶה יְרֵא אֱלֹהִים רָאוּי לְהִתְמַנּוֹת שַׂר לְמֵאָה, וְדִקְדֵּק לוֹמַר יִרְאֵי אֱלֹהִים שֶׁצְּרִיכִין לִהְיוֹת יְרֵאִים יִרְאַת הָעֹנֶשׁ, כִּי יֵשׁ לְךָ לָדַעַת כִּי הַיָּרֵא בִּבְחִינַת שֵׁם הֲוָיָ״ה לְצַד שֶׁיִּהְיֶה בְּדַעְתּוֹ כִּי ה׳ רַחוּם וְחַנּוּן לִפְעָמִים יֶחֱטָא וְיִסְמֹךְ עַל רַחֲמָיו כִּי יַאֲרִיךְ אַפּוֹ וְכַדּוֹמֶה, אֲבָל יִרְאַת הָעֹנֶשׁ תַּרְעִיד הַמַּשְׂכִּיל, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁתִּמְצָא שֶׁכָּל גְּדוֹלֵי עוֹלָם יְרֵאִים מִדִּקְדּוּקֵי הַמִּשְׁפָּט הֲגַם כִּי יוֹדְעִים שֶׁמַּעֲשֵׂיהֶם יְשָׁרִים וּנְכוֹנִים. וְצֵא וּלְמַד מִמַּאֲמַר חֲכָמֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (חגיגה ד,ב) שֶׁאָמְרוּ בְּמַעֲשֵׂה בַּעֲלַת אוֹב כְּשֶׁעָלָה שְׁמוּאֵל וְהֵבִיא עִמּוֹ מֹשֶׁה רַבֵּינוּ עָלָיו הַשָּׁלוֹם, יְעֻיַּן שָׁם דִּבְרֵיהֶם, וַאֲשֶׁר עַל כֵּן אָמַר ״יִרְאֵי אֱלֹהִים״, כִּי צְרִיכִין לִהְיוֹת בְּגֶדֶר יִרְאָה מִדִּקְדּוּקֵי הַמִּשְׁפָּט בְּאֵין רַחֲמִים, וּבְחִינָה זוֹ יֶשְׁנָהּ גַּם כֵּן בְּשָׂרֵי הָאֲלָפִים אֶלָּא שֶׁנּוֹסָף בָּהֶם פְּרָטִים אֲחֵרִים שֶׁאֵין צֹרֶךְ לָהֶם בְּשַׂר הַמֵּאָה. וּכְנֶגֶד שָׂרֵי חֲמִשִּׁים אָמַר אַנְשֵׁי אֱמֶת, שֶׁיַּסְפִּיק לְגֶדֶר זֶה הֲגַם שֶׁלֹּא הִשִּׂיגוּ לִבְחִינָה זוֹ שֶׁל יִרְאַת עֹצֶם הַדִּין אֶלָּא שֶׁיִּהְיוּ אַנְשֵׁי אֱמֶת שֶׁיִּשְׁתַּדְּלוּ עַל הַעֲמָדַת הָאֱמֶת לְבַל תִּהְיֶה נֶעְדֶּרֶת. וּכְנֶגֶד שָׂרֵי עֲשָׂרוֹת אָמַר שׂוֹנְאֵי בָצַע, דַּי לָהֶם גֶּדֶר זֶה וּבָזֶה יִהְיוּ רְאוּיִים לִהְיוֹת שָׂרֵי עֲשָׂרוֹת. וְדִקְדֵּק לוֹמַר שׂוֹנְאֵי, פֵּרוּשׁ, כִּי יִהְיֶה לָהֶם הַדָּבָר שָׂנוּא לֹא שֶׁיִּצְטָרְכוּ לְהַרְחִיק תַּאֲוָתָם, כִּי לְאֵלֶּה יֵשׁ חֲשָׁד שֶׁיְּנֻצְּחוּ מֵהָרֶשַׁע הַמְפַתֶּה. וְכָל מִדּוֹת הַשְּׁלֹשָׁה יֶשְׁנָם בְּאַנְשֵׁי חַיִל, וְכָל מִדּוֹת הַשְּׁנַיִם יֶשְׁנָם בְּיִרְאֵי אֱלֹהִים, וּמִדַּת שׂוֹנְאֵי בָצַע יֶשְׁנָהּ בְּאַנְשֵׁי אֱמֶת וְהֵם זוֹ לְמַעְלָה מִזּוֹ, וְלָזֶה לֹא אָמַר וְיִרְאֵי וְגוֹ׳ וְאַנְשֵׁי אֱמֶת וְשׂוֹנְאֵי בָצַע אִם כֻּלָּם יִתְקַבְּצוּ יַחַד בְּאָדָם אֶחָד הָיָה צָרִיךְ לוֹמַר וָא״ו בְּכָל אַחַת אוֹ לְפָחוֹת בַּחֲלוּקָּה הָאַחֲרוֹנָה, אֶלָּא וַדַּאי כְּמוֹ שֶׁכָּתַבְתִּי שֶׁאֵין צֹרֶךְ לָזֶה בְּכָל הַפְּרָטִים.
אנשי חיל, יראי אלוקים, וגו׳ "able and G'd-fearing men, etc." Yitro spoke of four different qualifications corresponding to the four levels of judges he had suggested, i.e. chiefs of tens, chiefs of fifties, chiefs of hundreds and chiefs of thousands. The expression אנשי חיל is an all encompassing term, i.e. people who possess all the necessary qualifications mentioned to the fullest extent. Such people would be appointed as chiefs of thousands. In order to qualify as a chief of hundreds, Yitro demanded that the judges possess fear of the Lord; the reason that he mentioned יראי אלוקים (instead of יראי השם, for instance) was that their fear of the Lord need comprise only fear of punishment if they trespassed the Lord's commandments. This qualification was adequate to qualify a person to be a chief of hundreds. Although fear of the Lord in His capacity as the tetragram might be perceived as a higher qualification, in this instance it was not. Fear of the Lord as awe of the majesty represented by G'd includes awareness of all of G'd's attributes including the fact that He may be forgiving, display patience, etc. These latter considerations would make a judge think that if he committed an error G'd would be indulgent with him. It was important to Yitro that the judge would be constantly aware of the penalty he would face if he perverted justice. Yitro's point is best illustrated in Chagigah 4 where the prophet Samuel who had been raised from the dead by the witch employed by King Saul was visibly frightened (Samuel 28,15). If Samuel had reason to be concerned, how much more must ordinary individuals be afraid of G'd's justice. The Talmud reports that Samuel did not make an appearance until Moses himself accompanied him as a protector. The chiefs of thousands also possessed this quality of fear of punishment; in their case they possessed an additional qualification which the chiefs of hundreds did not need to possess. Concerning the qualifications needed in order to be appointed as one of the chiefs of fifties, Yitro demanded that these judges be known as truthful. Although these people did not possess the level of fear of punishment which characterised their colleagues the chiefs of hundreds, their reputation as truthful men sufficed to make them eligible as chiefs of fifties. Finally, in order to qualify as a chief of tens it was only necessary to have a reputation that one spurned ill-gotten gains. Yitro was careful to describe these people as "hating" ill gotten gains. It was not enough that they could curb their desire for such gains; they had to be people who never allowed themselves to lust after such gains. These last-mentioned qualifications were, of course, presumed to be possessed also by the chiefs of fifties and the chiefs of hundreds. If Yitro had meant for these various qualifications he mentioned to be be cumulative, i.e. that even a person who was a chief of tens had to possess all of these attributes, the attributes should have been linked to each other by the conjunctive letter ו i.e. אנשי חיל ויראי אלוקים.
וְהִנֵּה פְּשִׁיטָא שֶׁאִם יִמְצָא מִמִּין הַמְּשֻׁבָּח שֶׁבְּכֻלָּן לְכָל הַמְּנוּיִים מַה טּוֹב וּמַה נָּעִים, וְלָזֶה כְּשֶׁבִּקֵּשׁ מֹשֶׁה בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל מָצָא מִמִּין הַמְשֻׁבָּח ״אַנְשֵׁי חַיִל״ שִׁעוּר שֶׁיַּסְפִּיק לְכֻלָּם, כְּאָמְרוֹ ״וַיִּבְחַר מֹשֶׁה אַנְשֵׁי חַיִל מִכָּל יִשְׂרָאֵל״, וְלֹא הֻצְרַךְ לְפָרֵט שְׁאָר הַפְּרָטִים כִּי יֶשְׁנָם בִּבְחִינַת אַנְשֵׁי חַיִל. וְזֶה יַצְדִּיק לְךָ גַּם כֵּן פֵּרוּשֵׁנוּ בְּדִבְרֵי יִתְרוֹ, שֶׁאִם כַּוָּנָתוֹ לוֹמַר זֹאת וְעוֹד, אִם כֵּן הָיָה לוֹ לְמֹשֶׁה לִבְחֹר גַּם כֵּן כָּל הָרְמוּזִים בְּדִבְרֵי יִתְרוֹ. וְאֵין לוֹמַר חָס וְשָׁלוֹם כִּי לֹא מָצָא בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל יִרְאֵי אֱלֹהִים אַנְשֵׁי אֱמֶת וְגוֹ׳, אֶלָּא וַדַּאי כִּדְבָרֵינוּ, שֶׁלֹּא הִזְכִּיר יִתְרוֹ שְׁאָר הַפְּרָטִים אֶלָּא לְצַד שֶׁחָשׁ יִתְרוֹ שֶׁלֹּא יִמְצָא שִׁעוּר הַמַּסְפִּיק מִבְּחִינָה הַגְּדוֹלָה וְהָיָה מִסְתַּפֵּק בְּמַדְרֵגָה קְטַנָּה כַּנִּזְכָּר.
It is obvious that if Moses were able to find a sufficient number of people possessing the highest of these attributes this would be wonderful; as it turned out, the Torah reports that Moses was indeed able to find close to 80,000 people who could qualify for the title of אנשי חיל. This also proves that Yitro had spoken of these qualifications in a descending order. Had Yitro intended for these qualifications to be cumulative, the Torah would have had to report that Moses found people who were men of truth, G'd-fearing, hated ill gotten gains, etc. We must certainly not assume that the reason the Torah does not mention Moses as having selected men of truth, G'd-fearing men, etc. was because he could not find such people. The only reason that Yitro had mentioned a variety of qualifications in a descending order was that he was afraid Moses might not be able to find a sufficient number of people with the highest attribute of all.
וְרָאִיתִי לָתֵת לֵב אֵיךְ זָכָה יִתְרוֹ שֶׁתִּכָּתֵב עַל יָדוֹ פָּרָשָׁה זוֹ, וְהֵן אֱמֶת כִּי הוּא כִּבֵּד מֹשֶׁה עֶבֶד ה׳, וְהִנֵּה שְׂכָרוֹ שֶׁכִּבְּדוֹ ה׳, אֶלָּא הָיָה ה׳ יָכוֹל עֲשׂוֹת לוֹ דֶּרֶךְ כָּבוֹד אַחֵר, לֹא בְּדֶרֶךְ זֶה שֶׁיֵּרָאֶה חָס וְשָׁלוֹם כְּפִחוּת יְדִיעָה בְּעַם ה׳ עַד שֶׁבָּא כֹּהֵן מִדְיָן וְהִשְׂכִּילָם.
I have given some thought as to the reason why Yitro merited that this whole portion bears his name. While it is true that inasmuch as Yitro paid honour to Moses the servant of G'd, G'd repaid him by honouring him, G'd could have found many other ways of compensating Yitro for his good deeds. Why did the Torah have to create the impression that if it had not been for Yitro a priest from Midian, Moses together with G'd's chosen people would not have known how to administer the Israelites' affairs?
וְנִרְאֶה כִּי טַעַם הַדָּבָר הוּא לְהַרְאוֹת ה׳ אֶת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל הַדּוֹר הַהוּא וְכָל דּוֹר וָדוֹר, כִּי יֵשׁ בָּאוּמּוֹת גְּדוֹלִים בַּהֲבָנָה וּבְהַשְׂכָּלָה. וְצֵא וּלְמַד מֵהַשְׂכָּלַת יִתְרוֹ בַּעֲצָתוֹ וְאֹפֶן סֵדֶר בְּנֵי אָדָם אֲשֶׁר בָּחַר, כִּי יֵשׁ בָּאוּמּוֹת מַכִּירִים דְּבָרִים הַמְאֻשָּׁרִים. וְהַכַּוָּנָה בָּזֶה כִּי לֹא בָּאָה הַבְּחִירָה בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל לְצַד שֶׁיֵּשׁ בָּהֶם הַשְׂכָּלָה וְהַכָּרָה יוֹתֵר מִכָּל הָאוּמּוֹת, וְזֶה לְךָ הָאוֹת הַשְׂכָּלַת יִתְרוֹ. הָא לָמַדְתָּ כִּי לֹא מֵרוֹב חָכְמַת יִשְׂרָאֵל וְהַשְׂכָּלָתָם בָּחַר ה׳ בָּהֶם, אֶלָּא לְחֶסֶד עֶלְיוֹן וּלְאַהֲבַת הָאָבוֹת. וְיוֹתֵר יֶעֱרַב לַחֵיךְ טַעַם זֶה לְמַאן דְּאָמַר (זבחים קטז,א) יִתְרוֹ קוֹדֶם מַתַּן תּוֹרָה בָּא, כִּי נִתְחַכֵּם ה׳ עַל זֶה קוֹדֶם מַתַּן תּוֹרָה לוֹמַר שֶׁהֲגַם שֶׁיֵּשׁ בָּאוּמּוֹת יוֹתֵר חֲכָמִים מִיִּשְׂרָאֵל, אַף עַל פִּי כֵן אוֹתָנוּ הֵבִיא ה׳ אֵלָיו וּבָחַר בָּנוּ. וְעַל זֶה בִּפְרָט עָלֵינוּ לְשַׁבֵּחַ לַאֲשֶׁר בָּחַר בָּנוּ מִצַּד חֲסָדָיו. גַּם לְמַאן דְּאָמַר אַחַר מַתַּן תּוֹרָה, יֵשׁ טַעַם בְּמַה שֶׁסִּדֵּר בִּיאָתוֹ קוֹדֶם לְהַרְאוֹת הַכַּוָּנָה הַנִּזְכֶּרֶת, שֶׁזּוּלַת זֶה אֵין הַכַּוָּנָה הַנִּזְכֶּרֶת נִגְלֵית, וְהָבֵן:
I believe the reason for all this is that G'd wanted to show the Jewish people already at that time and for all future generations that there are great and intelligent men to be found amongst the nations of the world. Yitro was an example of an enlightened Gentile who demonstrated this point beyond question. It is to teach us that if G'd chose the Jewish people as His people this is not because they possess superior intellectual qualities. G'd chose the Jewish people as a reward for the loyalty the patriarchs had shown Him and as an act of love towards this people. There is a discussion in Zevachim 116 as to whether Yitro arrived in the desert prior to the revelation at Mount Sinai or after. According to the view that he arrived prior to the revelation, the point we just made that G'd did not choose the Jewish people because of their intellectual superiority is reinforced. Although the Gentiles number more wise men than the Jews G'd still decided to make us His pilot project. This imposes an additional duty on us to praise Him for having chosen us as an act of love. Even according to the opinion that Yitro arrived in the desert only after מתן תורה, the reason that the Torah reports his arrival before it reports the revelation indicates that the Torah wishes us to learn this lesson.
בְּכָל עֵת. רָמַז אֲפִלּוּ בִּזְמַן שֶׁהוּא מֹשֶׁה עָסוּק בְּקַבָּלַת חֻקֵּי ה׳ וְתוֹרוֹתָיו וְכַדּוֹמֶה, אֵלּוּ הֵם פְּנוּיִים יִשְׁפְּטוּ בְּכָל עֵת, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן יָכוֹל עֲשׂוֹת מֹשֶׁה.
בכל עת, "at all times." The Torah hints that even at times when Moses was busy receiving instructions from G'd these judges would continue to dispense justice, something that Moses had not been able to do.
וְהָקֵל מֵעָלֶיךָ וְנָשְׂאוּ. פֵּרוּשׁ, כִּי מַה שֶׁאֲנִי אוֹמֵר לְךָ לְהָקֵל מֵעָלֶיךָ, לֹא שֶׁלֹּא תִּשְׁפּוֹט אֶלָּא הַדָּבָר הַגָּדוֹל, אֶלָּא וְנָשְׂאוּ אִתָּךְ, פֵּרוּשׁ, אַתָּה וְהֵם תִּהְיוּ בִּמְלָאכָה זוֹ.
והקל מעליך ונשאו אתך, "so they shall make it easier for you and bear the burden with you." Yitro meant that his suggestion was intended to lighten Moses' burden, not that he would not be allowed to judge any other than the most difficult cases. The idea was that the other judges should share the burden together with Moses.
אִם אֶת הַדָּבָר וְגוֹ׳ וְצִוְּךָ וְגוֹ׳. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת כַּוָּנַת אָמְרוֹ וְצִוְּךָ, אִם לְהִמָּלֵךְ בַּגְּבוּרָה הוּא אוֹמֵר, כְּבָר אָמַר לוֹ כֵּן פַּעַם אַחַת, דִּכְתִיב (שמות יח:יט) ״אִיעָצְךָ וִיהִי אֱלֹהִים עִמָּךְ״, וּמַה צֹרֶךְ בְּכֶפֶל הַדְּבָרִים. וְאוּלַי שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן לוֹמַר לוֹ תְּשׁוּבָה עַל מַה שֶׁיִּטְעוֹן כִּי סוֹף כָּל סוֹף הוּא מוֹנֵעַ מֵעַצְמוֹ הַמִּצְווֹת, וְאֵין מִמִּדַּת הַצַּדִּיקִים לְהָקֵל מֵעֲלֵיהֶם הַמִּצְווֹת, הֲגַם כִּי יִיעַף וְכִי יִגַע, כִּי אָדָם לְעָמָל יוּלָּד (איוב ה:ז) בַּעֲמָלָהּ שֶׁל מִצְוָה. לָזֶה אָמַר אֵלָיו וְצִוְּךָ אֱלֹהִים וְגוֹ׳, פֵּרוּשׁ כִּי הִנֵּה יָדוּעַ הוּא עֹצֶם הַכֹּחַ אֲשֶׁר יִצְטָרֵךְ לְאִישׁ נָבִיא, וְצֵא וּלְמַד מִמַּאַמְרֵי דָנִיֵּאל (דניאל י:ז) בְּדַבֵּר אֵלָיו מַלְאָךְ, וּמִזֶּה תַּשְׂכִּיל לְדִבְּרוֹת אֵל. וְלָזֶה תִּמְצָא שֶׁאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (נדרים לח,א) אֵין נְבוּאָה שׁוֹרָה אֶלָּא עַל גִּבּוֹר. וְהֵן אֱמֶת כִּי מֹשֶׁה זִכֵּךְ גּוּפוֹ וְלֹא יֶאֱרַע לוֹ הַתַּשּׁוּת כֹּחַ, אֲבָל עַל כָּל פָּנִים לֹא יָכוֹל לְהִתְאַזֵּר כָּל כָּךְ כְּשֶׁיִּהְיֶה חַלָּשׁ בְּטִבְעוֹ. וְלָזֶה אָמַר אֵלָיו כִּי יוֹתֵר בְּמִצְוָה זוֹ שֶׁיְּכוֹלָה לְהִתְקַיֵּם עַל יְדֵי אֲחֵרִים כְּדֵי שֶׁיְּקַיֵּם מִצְוַת הַנְּבוּאָה שֶׁאֵינָהּ יְכוֹלָה לְהִתְקַיֵּם עַל יְדֵי זוּלָתוֹ. וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ אִם אֶת וְגוֹ׳ וְצִוְּךָ אֱלֹהִים, פֵּרוּשׁ כַּאֲשֶׁר יְצַוְּךָ אֱלֹהִים הַמִּצְווֹת אֲשֶׁר הוּא מְצַוְּךָ בְּהוֹדָעַת הַתּוֹרָה וְהַמִּצְוָה תּוּכַל עֲמֹד בָּהֶם, פֵּרוּשׁ יִהְיֶה בְּךָ כֹּחַ לַעֲמֹד בָּהֶם. וְאוּלַי כִּי דִקְדֵּק לוֹמַר לְשׁוֹן עֲמִידָה לוֹמַר כִּי יִהְיֶה בּוֹ כֹּחַ לְקַבֵּל הַנְּבוּאָה מְעֻמָּד, כְּאָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (זהר ח״א קעא,א) כִּי שְׁאָר הַנְּבִיאִים הָיוּ נוֹפְלִים עַל פְּנֵיהֶם מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן מֹשֶׁה דִּכְתִיב ״וְנִצַּבְתָּ שָׁם״ וְגוֹ׳ (שמות לד:ב), ״פֹּה עֲמֹד עִמָּדִי״ (דברים ה:כח). וְלָזֶה אִם לֹא יָקֵל מֵעָלָיו זֶה יִהְיֶה לוֹ סִבָּה שֶׁיִּגְרַע מִצַּדִּיק עֵינוֹ חָס וְשָׁלוֹם וְלֹא יוּכַל עֲמֹד.
אם את הדבר הזה תעשה וצוך השם, "if you will do this thing and the Lord will command you, etc." Why did Yitro add the rider about G'd commanding Moses to accept his suggestion? If Yitro wanted for Moses to consult with G'd about the matter, he had already done so in verse 19 when he said: "I will give you an advice and G'd will be with you." Why did he have to repeat himself? Perhaps Yitro was afraid of Moses arguing that after all was said and done he would forfeit the opportunity to perform the commandments of teaching the people G'd's commandments and that it was not the way of the righteous to look for ways to ease their burdens even if they would tire from shouldering them. After all, man was born in order to carry burdens (Job 5,7). In order to forestall such an argument, Yitro said: "and if the Lord will command you." Yitro was not unaware of the physical strength required to be a prophet. We have a description of how Daniel found himself physically weak in the presence of an angel (Daniel 10,8). Imagine how much weaker he would have been had he faced G'd as Moses did on an almost daily basis. Our sages in Nedarim 38 state that the spirit of prophecy rests only on people who are physically superior, of heroic dimensions. Moses had refined his body so that he did not experience weakness even when he had a gruelling day of sitting in judgment. Nonetheless he was only a human being with all that this implies. Yitro told him therefore that he should forego this particular commandment which was capable of fulfilment by others in order to be able to fulfil his task as a prophet in the best manner possible. When Yitro said: "if you do this thing and G'd commands you, you will be able to endure," he meant that if Moses accepted his advice he would be able to endure as a prophet, i.e. when G'd would communicate with him and teach him other commandments because you have husbanded your strength. When Yitro said ויכלת עמוד, you will be able to stand, he meant that Moses would retain sufficient strength to receive G'd's communications while remaining standing on his feet. We have proof that this is what occurred in Exodus 34,2 where G'd tells Moses: "stand with Me there on top of the Mountain," and in Deut. 5,28 where G'd invited Moses: "stand here with Me." Yitro was afraid that unless Moses reduced his present workload this would undermine his physical ability to carry out his prophetic duties to the full.