Or HaChaim on Genesis Chapter 28
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וַיִּשְׁלַח יִצְחָק וְגוֹ׳. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת לָמָּה הֻצְרַךְ לוֹמַר אֲחִי רִבְקָה, מִי לֹא יָדַע בָּזֶה, וּמַה גַּם שֶׁבְּסָמוּךְ אָמַר כֵּן. וְעוֹד אָמְרוֹ אֵם יַעֲקֹב וְעֵשָׂו הֵם דְּבָרִים יְתֵרִים?
וישלח יצחק, Isaac sent away, etc. Why is Laban described as Rebeccah's brother, something we have known for a long time? Why is Rebeccah described here once more as both Jacob's and Esau's mother?
אָכֵן בָּא הַכָּתוּב לָתֵת טַעַם לְיִצְחָק אָבִינוּ שֶׁשָּׁלַח בֵּן צַדִּיק לְאָדָם רָשָׁע מְפֻרְסָם לָבָן הָאֲרַמִּי. וַהֲגַם שֶׁאַבְרָהָם שָׁלַח וְלָקַח רִבְקָה, לֹא הָיָה בְּתוּאֵל מְפֻרְסָם בְּרֶשַׁע כְּלָבָן. וְעוֹד שֶׁלֹּא אָמַר בְּפֵרוּשׁ אַבְרָהָם שֶׁיִּקַּח בַּת בְּתוּאֵל, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן יִצְחָק שֶׁצִּוָּה לְיַעֲקֹב שֶׁיִּקַּח אִשָּׁה מִבְּנוֹת לָבָן הָרָשָׁע, לָזֶה אָמַר אֲחִי רִבְקָה וּשְׁנֵיהֶם יָצְאוּ מִבְּתוּאֵל הָרָשָׁע, וּכְמוֹ כֵן יֵצֵא מִלָּבָן בַּת צַדֶּקֶת. גַּם אֵין לְהוֹכִיחַ שֶׁלֹּא יֵצֵא שַׁלְשֶׁלֶת שֹׁרֶשׁ קְדֻשָּׁה מֵאָדָם רָשָׁע, לָזֶה אָמַר אֵם יַעֲקֹב וְעֵשָׂו פֵּרוּשׁ הֲרֵי שֶׁיָּצְתָה שַׁלְשֶׁלֶת הַקְּדֻשָּׁה מֵאָב רָשָׁע, גַּם כֵּן אֵין לְהַחְלִיט וְלוֹמַר כִּי לֶהֱיוֹת לָבָן רָשָׁע לֹא יֵצֵא מִמֶּנּוּ בָּנוֹת כְּרִבְקָה.
Actually, the Torah found it necessary to explain why Isaac would send a pious son to a person such as Laban, seeing the latter was known to be wicked. True, Abraham had despatched Eliezer to take a wife for Isaac from the house of Bethuel; however, Bethuel was not a well known רשע, an evil person such as Laban. Besides, Abraham had never told Eliezer in so many words to go to the house of Bethuel whereas he had named Laban specifically as Jacob's destination. He instructed him to marry a daughter of the wicked Laban. By repeating that Laban was after all a brother of the pious Rebeccah the Torah alerts us to the probability that one or both of Laban's daughters could be just as pious as Rebeccah who stemmed from the house of Bethuel. One must not assume that the children and grandchildren of a wicked father or grandfather will automatically turn out to be of evil character. The Torah hints at this by reminding us that even Rebeccah was the mother of both a pious person such as Jacob and an evil person such as Esau.
וְיֵשׁ לְךָ לָדַעַת כִּי דַּוְקָא בַּיָּמִים הָהֵם שֶׁעֲדַיִן לֹא נִתְבָּרְרוּ הַנְּשָׁמוֹת הַקְּדוֹשׁוֹת מִמְּקוֹם שִׁבְיָם, וְהֻכְּרָה מִשְׁפַּחַת אַבְרָהָם כִּי שָׁם קָנְתָה לָהּ הַקְּדֻשָּׁה מָקוֹם, וְהָיָה לָהּ לְאוֹת עוֹלָם אַבְרָהָם וְשָׂרָה כִּי הֵם גֵּרִים רִאשׁוֹנִים, וְכָל אֲשֶׁר יִתְגַּיֵּר מֵהָאֻמּוֹת בְּכָל זְמַן יִקָּרֵא אַבְרָהָם וּנְקֵבָה שָׂרָה. לָזֶה מִין הַקְּדֻשָּׁה יְחַפֵּשׂ אַחַר מִינוֹ, כִּי אֶחָד הָיָה אַבְרָהָם וְלֹא הֻשְׁלַם בִּנְיַן הַקְּדֻשָּׁה בִּזְכָרִים וּבִנְקֵבוֹת כִּי לֹא הוֹלִיד אֶלָּא אֶת יִצְחָק וְלֹא הוֹלִיד נְקֵבוֹת עִמּוֹ. וְאוּלַי כִּי לָזֶה אָמַר הַכָּתוּב (בראשית כה:יט) ״אַבְרָהָם הוֹלִיד אֶת יִצְחָק״ פֵּרוּשׁ לְבַדּוֹ בְּלֹא בַּת זוּג, וּכְמוֹ כֵן יִצְחָק לֹא הָיָה לוֹ בָּנוֹת כִּי נִיצוֹצוֹת הַקְּדֻשָּׁה הַנְּקֵבוֹת עוֹדָם בְּאֶרֶץ שְׁבִי, לָזֶה שְׁלָחוֹ יִצְחָק לְחַזֵּר אַחַר אֲבֵדָתוֹ.
You have to appreciate that in the period under discussion [prior to the revelation at Mount Sinai in which all the holy souls participated Ed.] the holy souls had not yet been separated from the regions in which they were imprisoned. Seeing that Abraham's family was recognised as a region where holiness had found a foothold, both he and Sarah being the first proselytes, anyone who would subsequently convert to Judaism would be called either Abraham if a male or Sarah if a female. It is a fact that holy members of a holy species look for other members of the same species. Abraham was still incomplete in this regard as neither he nor his son Isaac had as yet produced female offspring, i.e. holy female souls. Perhaps this is even the reason that we are told in Genesis 25,19: "Abraham begat Isaac," to remind us that he had succeeded only in producing a holy male soul. This situation still existed when Isaac sent out Jacob to secure a wife. The holy female souls had not yet been separated from their place of imprisonment. Isaac therefore had to send Jacob to search for his lost mate, i.e. the girl in whose body such a holy soul was imprisoned.
אַךְ זֶה הַיּוֹם שֶׁקִּוִּינוּהוּ, כִּי פָּרְחוּ שֹׁרֶשׁ הַקְּדֻשָּׁה הֵן בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל, וּפָרַח מַטֵּה עֹז תִּפְאָרָה, וְהֻכַּר אִילַן הַחַיִּים חֵלֶק ה׳ עַמּוֹ יַעֲקֹב חֶבֶל נַחֲלָתוֹ, הֵן הֵמָּה הַמֻּבְהָקִים בַּקֹּדֶשׁ, וְלֹא יִסֹּב אָדָם מִמַּטּוֹת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל לְמִשְׁפְּחוֹת הָאָרֶץ, וְאִם נִשְׁאַר מִנִּיצוֹצֵי הַקְּדֻשָּׁה בְּתוֹךְ הָעַמִּים, הֲרֵי הֵם בִּיצִיאָתָם לָעוֹלָם מִתְאַסְּפִים וּבָאִים, וְאַחַר גֵּרוּתָם יֵאָמְנוּ כִּי אֲבוּדִים הָיוּ וְלָנוּ הֵם.
It was only during subsequent generations that Jews were no longer forced to roam the world to find their mates amongst the Gentiles. If nonetheless some "sparks" of holiness (holy souls in captivity) still exist amongst the Gentiles they will eventually convert and then be recognised as holy souls returning to their home (the Jewish people).
וְטַעַם הַכְּנַעֲנִי אֲשֶׁר הִקְפִּיד אַבְרָהָם לְבִלְתִּי קַחַת לוֹ אִשָּׁה מֵהֶם, גַּם יִצְחָק צִוָּה לְיַעֲקֹב עַל זֶה, רַבּוֹתֵינוּ אָמְרוּ (בראשית רבה פרק נ״ט) כִּי הוּא אָרוּר וְזֶרַע אַבְרָהָם בָּרוּךְ וְכוּ׳, וְדִבְרֵיהֶם סְתוּמִים הֵם. וּלְפִי מַה שֶׁכָּתַבְתִּי מָצִינוּ עִקַּר הַטַּעַם נָכוֹן, כִּי טַעְמוֹ שֶׁל אַבְרָהָם הוּא כִּי הוּא מְשֻׁלָּל מִנְּפָשׁוֹת הַקְּדוֹשׁוֹת וְכָל בְּנוֹתָיו חֵלֶק רַע וּמְתֹעָב, לָזֶה הֶחְלִיטוּ לְבִלְתִּי קַחַת מִמֶּנּוּ כִּי לֹא יִמָּצֵא בּוֹ דָּבָר קָדוֹשׁ, וְהוּא סוֹד אָמְרוֹ (בראשית ט:כה) ״אָרוּר כְּנָעַן״ פֵּרוּשׁ: מְשֻׁלָּל בְּהֶחְלֵט מִמִּין הַקְּדֻשָּׁה:
This raises the question of Abraham's insistence that Isaac not marry someone of Canaanite descent. Isaac also instructed Jacob not to marry a Canaanite. Bereshit Rabbah explains this prohibition to marry girls of Canaanite descent as being due to that tribe being cursed whereas Abraham's seed was blessed. Actually the words of the Midrash are somewhat obscure. In light of what we have written Abraham may have meant that Canaan [Noach's grandson] had been denied holy female souls amongst his seed as a result of Noach's curse. Hence there was no chance of finding the girl who possessed a holy soul amongst that tribe. This is the deeper meaning of Noach's curse, i.e. that Canaan would be denied access to holiness.
וְתִמְצָא כִּי מִמִּין הָאֻמּוֹת עַד הַיּוֹם עוֹדָם מִתְקַבְּצִים וּבָאִים גֵּרִים וְחוֹסִים בְּצֵל הַקֹּדֶשׁ, אֲשֶׁר לֹא שָׁמַעְנוּ מִימֵי קֶדֶם כִּי נִתְגַיֵּר גֵּר כְּנַעֲנִי כִּשְׁאָר הָעַמִּים, וְזֶה יַגִּיד דְּבָרֵינוּ. וְאוּלַי כִּי לָזֶה יְצַו הָאֵל (דברים כ:טז) ״לֹא תְחַיֶּה כָּל נְשָׁמָה״ מִשִּׁבְעָה עֲמָמִים, וְדִקְדֵּק לוֹמַר ״כָּל נְשָׁמָה״ לָתֵת טַעַם לְמִצְוַת ״לֹא תְחַיֶּה״, כִּי אֵין בָּהֶם נְשָׁמָה, פֵּרוּשׁ: נֶפֶשׁ קְדוֹשָׁה שֶׁיִּתְיַחֵס אֵלֶיהָ שֵׁם נְשָׁמָה לָחוּס עָלֶיהָ לְהַחֲיוֹתָהּ כְּעַמּוֹן וּמוֹאָב, וְהָבֵן:
Whereas it is a fact that even nowadays we still experience conversions to Judaism amongst the Gentiles, it is remarkable that we have no record of members of the Canaanites ever converting to Judaism as did some Romans and other nationals, for instance. This proves our theory. This may also have been the real reason that the Torah commanded the Jewish people not to allow a single Canaanite soul to survive [in the campaign to capture the land of Israel] as we know from Deuteronomy 20,16. The Torah may have stressed the word "soul" in that verse to indicate that none of these people had a holy soul worth preserving. This was the difference between the Canaanites and nations such as Ammon and Moab.
וְאַחֲרֵי הוֹדִיעַ אֱלֹהִים אוֹתָנוּ אֶת כָּל זֹאת, צָרִיךְ לָתֵת לֵב מַדּוּעַ אָנוּ בַּעֲוֹנוֹת מְשֻׁעְבָּדִים לִכְנַעַן (שופטים ד:ב), אַחַר שֶׁיָּדַעְנוּ נֶאֱמָנָה שֶׁהַשִּׁעְבּוּד הוּא לְבָרֵר הַנִּיצוֹצוֹת שֶׁל הַקְּדֻשָּׁה שֶׁבְּתוֹךְ הַקְּלִפָּה, וּבַכְּנַעֲנִים אֵין בָּהֶם נִיצוֹץ קָדוֹשׁ לָרֶדֶת אַחֲרָיו בַּגָּלוּת. וְתִמְצָא כִּי מִצְרַיִם אֲשֶׁר נִתְרוֹקְנָה מֵהַנִּיצוֹצוֹת, כְּאָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (פסחים קיח:): לֹא יָצְאוּ יִשְׂרָאֵל עַד שֶׁעֲשָׂאוּהָ כִּמְצוּדָה שֶׁאֵין בָּהּ דָּגָן וְכִמְצוּלָה שֶׁאֵין בָּהּ דָּגִים, דִּכְתִיב ״וַיְנַצְּלוּ אֶת מִצְרָיִם״ (שמות יב:לו), צִוָּה ה׳ לְבַל יָבֹאוּ שָׁמָּה, וְכַמְּבֹאָר הַטַּעַם בְּדִבְרֵי הָאֲרִ״י זִכְרוֹנוֹ לִבְרָכָה (שער הגלגולים). וְאִם כֵּן, אֵיךְ יִהְיֶה שֶׁנִּסְבֹּל אֶת כָּל עֹצֶם הַגָּלוּת הַזֶּה מִבְּלִי הֱיוֹת בּוֹ נִיצוֹצֵי הַקְּדֻשָּׁה?
Since G'd has revealed all this to us we must try and understand what purpose our subjugation by Canaanite tribes served (compare Judges 4,2), seeing that the purpose of exile is to extract the sparks of holiness that are scattered amongst the Gentiles, and there are no such "sparks" amongst the Canaanites. Our sages have told us in Pessachim 119 that "our forefathers did not depart from Egypt until they had turned Egypt into a trap that did not contain any bait and into a deep pool of water devoid of fish." The scriptural proof cited is Exodus 12,36: "they emptied Egypt." The Ari zal in his שער הגלגולים explains that it was necessary to empty Egypt of any such stray holy souls to make a return by the Jewish people in the future pointless. In view of all this, what purpose could subjugation of the Jewish people by the Canaanites have served if there was not even a chance to save some stray holy soul through all our suffering?
אָכֵן יִתְבָּאֵר הַדָּבָר עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (ליקוטי תורה מקץ) כִּי יֵשׁ שְׁנֵי מִינֵי נִיצוֹצֵי הַקְּדֻשָּׁה שְׁבוּיִים בַּקְּלִפָּה: הָאַחַת נְשָׁמוֹת יְקָרוֹת וְיוֹצְאוֹת בְּאֶמְצָעוּת הַלֵּידָה, כְּאַבְרָהָם וּכְשָׂרָה וּכְרִבְקָה וְרָחֵל, וּכְנִשְׁמַת רַבִּי חֲנִינָא בֶּן תְּרַדְיוֹן שֶׁיָּצָא מִשְּׁכֶם עִם דִּינָה, וּכְרוּת מִמּוֹאָב וּכְנַעֲמָה מֵעַמּוֹן וּכְאוּנְקְלוֹס הַגֵּר וְכַדּוֹמֶה. וְהַשֵּׁנִי הוּא מִין נִיצוֹץ שֶׁל קְדֻשָּׁה הַדָּבוּק בַּקְּלִפָּה וְאֵינוֹ יוֹצֵא כְּלָל אֶלָּא מְעוֹרֶה בַּקְּלִפָּה, וְאֵין לוֹ מְצִיאוּת לִפָּרֵד מִמֶּנּוּ אֶלָּא כַּאֲשֶׁר יָצֵר לְיִשְׂרָאֵל עַל יְדֵי צַעַר אוֹ עַל יְדֵי הַכָּאָה, שֶׁבְּאֶמְצָעוּת דָּבָר זֶה תִּהְיֶה נִפְרֶדֶת הַקְּדֻשָּׁה וְחוֹזֶרֶת לְשָׁרְשָׁהּ. וּמֵעַתָּה יֵשׁ טַעַם לְגָלוּת זֶה, כִּי תְאַוֶּה לְבָרֵר בְּחִינַת נִיצוֹצֵי הַקְּדֻשָּׁה שֶׁאֵינָהּ נִפְרֶדֶת אֶלָּא עַל יְדֵי צַעַר שֶׁמִּצְטַעֲרִים יִשְׂרָאֵל. וְעַל גָּלוּת הַזֶּה אָמַר הַכָּתוּב (עובדיה א:כ) ״וְגָלוּת הַחֵל הַזֶּה לִבְנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל אֲשֶׁר כְּנַעֲנִים עַד צָרְפַת״, שֶׁהַכָּתוּב קְרָאוֹ הַחֵל מִלְּשׁוֹן ״נִהְיֵיתִי וְנַחֲלֵיתִי״ (דניאל ח:כז), כִּי הַשָּׂגַת תַּכְלִית הַגָּלוּת בֵּינֵיהֶם הוּא בְּאֶמְצָעוּת הַצַּעַר, וְלָזֶה הוּא מְשֻׁנֶּה מִכָּל הַגָּלֻיּוֹת כַּאֲשֶׁר רָאִינוּ בְּעֵינֵינוּ. וְאָמַר ״אֲשֶׁר כְּנַעֲנִים״ וְלֹא אָמַר ״בַּכְּנַעֲנִים״, וְגַם אָמַר ״כְּנַעֲנִים״ לְשׁוֹן רַבִּים, אוּלַי כִּוֵּן עַל הַנִּיצוֹצוֹת שֶׁל הַקְּדֻשָּׁה שֶׁלֶּהֱיוֹתָם עַתָּה בְּתוֹךְ קְלִפַּת כְּנַעַן יִקָּרְאוּ בִּשְׁמוֹ כְּנַעֲנִים. וְשִׁעוּר הַכָּתוּב עַל זֶה הַדֶּרֶךְ: גָּלוּת הַחֵל הַזֶּה, שֶׁהוּא גָּלוּת יִשְׂרָאֵל, הוּא לְסִבַּת בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל שֶׁהֵם עַתָּה נִקְרָאִים כְּנַעֲנִים עַל מָקוֹם שֶׁהֵם בּוֹ.
We find in לקוטי תורה פרשת מקץ that there are two different "sparks" of holy souls which are imprisoned in the קליפה. One is the type of soul which is freed through being "born," i.e. through entering a human body at birth. Examples of such souls are: Abraham, Sarah, Rebeccah, Rachel, as well as the soul of Rabbi Chaninah ben Tradyon which emanated from Shechem's having slept with Jacob's daughter Dinah. Ruth the Moabite and Naamon the Ammonite are also examples of such souls. The other type of holy soul imprisoned in the קליפה is one that is firmly attached to its קליפה and is not capable of exiting from its source unless its קליפה causes anguish to Israel. When that happens the holy soul trapped within the קליפה is released and able to return to its origin. Now we understand why there is a purpose to Israel being subjected to exile at the hands of such people [representatives of such קליפות Ed.]. The prophet Ovadiah said concerning such an exile: "This sickening exile for the children of Israel under the Canaanites as far as Tzorfat (Ovadiah 1,20)." This verse which uses the term החל must then be understood similarly to Daniel 8,27: נהייתי ונחליתי, "I was broken up and I was sick." Such an exile achieves its objective in a manner different from all other exiles of the Jewish people. When Ovadiah speaks of כנענים instead of בכנענים when describing that exile, as well as describing Canaan in the plural instead of in the singular as is the case with other nations where Israel was exiled, this may be a veiled reference to the "sparks" of holiness still hidden within the קליפה of Canaan which are known as כנענים. In short, Ovadiah describes the purpose of that exile as being the chance of "rescuing" holy souls that were still identified with כנענים prior to the ultimate redemption, thus enabling those souls to participate in that redemption.
וַיַּרְא עֵשָׂו כִּי בֵרַךְ וְגוֹ׳. פָּסוּק זֶה אֵין לוֹ גִּזְרָה, וְאִם גִּזְרָתוֹ הוּא ״וַיֵּלֶךְ עֵשָׂו אֶל יִשְׁמָעֵאל״ הָיָה מַסְפִּיק בַּפָּסוּק שֶׁאַחֲרֵי זֶה ״וַיַּרְא עֵשָׂו כִּי רָעוֹת״.
וירא עשו כי ברך יצחק את יעקב, Esau saw that Isaac had blessed Jacob, etc. This verse does not seem to tell us anything new. If it were meant to tell us that this was the reason Esau took an additional non-Canaanite wife, verse eight would have sufficed for that purpose.
אָכֵן כַּוָּנַת הַכָּתוּב הִיא לְהוֹדִיעַ שֶׁיָּדַע עֵשָׂו הֲלִיכַת יַעֲקֹב וְאָפְנָהּ, כִּי הָלַךְ בְּמִצְוַת אָבִיו וְאִמּוֹ וְגַם לְמִצְוַת קִיחַת אִשָּׁה, וְגַם בֵּרְכוּהוּ בְּשַׁלְּחָם אוֹתוֹ, כִּי לְצַד זֶה לֹא רְדָפוֹ שֶׁיָּדַע שֶׁיִּמָּנַע מִיָּדוֹ, הֱיוֹתוֹ הוֹלֵךְ לִשְׁתֵּי מִצְווֹת: כִּבּוּד אָב וָאֵם וּלְקִיחַת אִשָּׁה. וַהֲגַם שֶׁשָּׁלַח אֱלִיפַז כְּאָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית כט:יא), אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁבָּחַן כִּי הוּא נוֹצֵחַ בַּדֶּרֶךְ לְיַעֲקֹב, וּמַעֲשֵׂה אָבוֹת עָשׂוּ בָּנִים אֲשֶׁר קִדַּם בַּדֶּרֶךְ לְיִשְׂרָאֵל, וְחָשַׁב עֵשָׂו כִּי גָּדוֹל כֹּחַ אֱלִיפַז מִכֹּחוֹ בִּבְחִינַת רְדִיפָה בַּדֶּרֶךְ לְיַעֲקֹב וּבָנָיו.
We must therefore look for some meaning beyond the mere words of the verse. Esau was aware of Jacob's' departure and of its nature, i.e. that he thereby fulfilled both a commandment by his father and mother and the commandment to look for a wife. Knowing that Isaac had blessed Jacob to complete his undertaking successfully, Esau did not bother to pursue Jacob, realising that under such circumstances he would not succeed. Although Esau is reputed to have sent his eldest son Eliphaz to catch up with Jacob and to kill him (according to Rashi on Genesis 29,11), it is possible that he merely wanted to test his ability to vanquish Jacob on his journey. This scenario may have been re-enacted when the descendants of Esau (Amalek) attacked the Israelites after the latter had crossed the sea of reeds. Esau considered his son's ability to pursue Jacob successfully as greater than his own ability to do so.
וַיַּרְא עֵשָׂו כִּי רָעוֹת וְגוֹ׳. יַגִּיד הַכָּתוּב כִּי לֹא חָשׁ עֵשָׂו אֶלָּא לְצַד הַקְפָּדַת אָבִיו עֲלֵיהֶם, אֲבָל זוּלַת זֶה לְמַה שֶׁהֵם בְּחִינַת הָרַע לֹא חָשׁ שֶׁאֵין נַפְשׁוֹ מְתַעֶבְתָּן. וּמִמּוֹצָא דָּבָר גַּם כֵּן אַתָּה יוֹדֵעַ שֶׁלֹּא הוֹעִיל טַעַם הֱיוֹתָם רָעוֹת בְּעֵינֵי יִצְחָק אֶלָּא לְבַל יוֹסִיף מֵהֶם, אֲבָל לְגָרֵשׁ אוֹתָן שֶׁהָיוּ כְּבָר אֶצְלוֹ לֹא. וְאוּלַי שֶׁכָּל הַרְגָּשָׁתוֹ לֹא הָיְתָה אֶלָּא שֶׁמָּא יִתְפַּקְּעוּ בִּרְכוֹתָיו לְצַד בָּנִים אֲשֶׁר יִהְיוּ לוֹ מִבְּנוֹת כְּנַעַן, לָזֶה לָקַח מִבְּנוֹת יִשְׁמָעֵאל כְּדֵי שֶׁיִּתְקַיְּמוּ הַבְּרָכוֹת בְּאֶמְצָעוּת הַבָּנִים שֶׁיִּהְיוּ לוֹ מֵהֶם.
וירא עשו כי רעות בנות כנען, Esau realised that the Canaanite daughters were displeasing in the eyes of his father. The Torah tells us here that Esau's only concern was the effect his Canaanite wives had on his father's sensibilities. The fact that these women were evil by nature did not bother him. His soul did not despise them. Subsequent events teach that the fact that Isaac disapproved of these women did not produce any results other than that Esau did not marry still more Canaanite girls. He did not consider divorcing these wives. Perhaps Esau's only concern was that his father's blessing would not be applicable to children born to him by his Canaanite wives, and that is why married a daughter of Ishmael to insure that his father's blessing would remain effective for his descendants.
חסלת פרשת תולדות
וַיֵּצֵא יַעֲקֹב וְגוֹ׳. טַעַם שֶׁלֹּא הִסְפִּיק בְּהוֹדָעַת הֲלִיכָתוֹ בַּפָּרָשָׁה הַקּוֹדֶמֶת דִּכְתִיב (בראשית כח:ז) ״וַיִּשְׁמַע יַעֲקֹב וְגוֹ׳ וַיֵּלֶךְ״ וְגוֹ׳, לְהוֹדִיעַ אֲשֶׁר פָּגַע בַּדֶּרֶךְ קוֹדֶם הַגִּיעוֹ לִמְחוֹז חֶפְצוֹ, וּלְצַד שֶׁהִפְסִיק בָּעִנְיָן חָזַר לוֹמַר ״וַיֵּצֵא״ וְגוֹ׳. אֶלָּא צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת לָמָּה הֻצְרַךְ לוֹמַר וַיֵּלֶךְ וְגוֹ׳. וּמַה גַּם שֶׁפְּגִיעָתוֹ בַּמָּקוֹם הָיְתָה קוֹדֶם הַגִּיעוֹ לְחָרָן, וְלֹא הָיָה לוֹ לְהַקְדִּים הַמְאֻחָר. עוֹד לָמָּה אָמַר חָרָנָה וְלֹא אָמַר לְחָרָן, וַהֲגַם שֶׁאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה פס״ח) ״כָּל תֵּיבָה״ וְכוּ׳, עִם כָּל זֶה יְכַוֵּן הַכָּתוּב עַל דָּבָר בְּשַׁנּוֹתוֹ לִפְעָמִים.
ויצא יעקב. Jacob departed. The reason that the Torah did not content itself with reporting Jacob's setting out for Padan Aram (28,5) and repeats his departure at this point is to allude to the encounters he had on the way. This, of course, raises the question why the Torah had first reported Jacob as already on the way to Padan Aram. This is especially curious in view of the encounter Jacob had on the way occurring before he even came close to Charan. Why did the Torah report events in a chronologically inverted manner? Besides, why did the Torah speak about חרנה instead of about Jacob being on the way לחרן? While it is true as we learn from Bereshit Rabbah 68,8 that any word which requires a letter ל as a prefix may instead have the letter ה as a suffix, the Torah surely does not employ these variations arbitrarily!
אָכֵן הַתּוֹרָה תְּכַוֵּן לְסַדֵּר כָּל מַה שֶׁעָבַר עַל יַעֲקֹב מֵעֵת צֵאתוֹ. וְזֶה תְּחִלָּה לַדָּבָר וַיֵּצֵא יַעֲקֹב וְגוֹ׳, פֵּרוּשׁ: לֹא עָשָׂה אֶלָּא יְצִיאָה וְלֹא הוּצְרַךְ לָלֶכֶת בְּרַגְלָיו, וְהַהוֹלֵךְ הוּא חָרָנָה, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וַיֵּלֶךְ חָרָנָה, פֵּירוּשׁ: חָרָנָה הוּא שֶׁהָלַךְ מִמְּקוֹמוֹ לְהַקְבִּיל פְּנֵי יַעֲקֹב.
The Torah intended to relate all that happened to Jacob from the time he left his home. The Torah reports that initially all Jacob did was depart, i.e. ויצא. This did not involve any travelling on his part. The person who walked i.e. וילך, was someone called חרנה. This "Charanah" set out from his home to come and welcome Jacob.
עוֹד יִרְמֹז לְהוֹדִיעַ כִּי כְּשֶׁיָּצָא יַעֲקֹב מִבְּאֵר שֶׁבַע תֵּכֶף הָלַךְ חֲרוֹנוֹ שֶׁל עֵשָׂו, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וַיֵּלֶךְ חָרָנָה.
It also possible that the Torah meant to convey to us that Esau's anger חרונו, departed from him the moment Jacob departed from Beer Sheva. This is expressed by the words: וילך חרנה.
וּלְדִבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה שֶׁשָּׁלַח עֵשָׂו אֱלִיפַז אַחֲרָיו וְכוּ׳, יִרְצֶה בְּאָמְרוֹ וַיֵּלֶךְ חָרָנָה לִרְמוֹז עַל הֲלִיכַת אֱלִיפַז אַחֲרָיו בְּחָרוֹן. וְאוּלַי כִּי לָזֶה סָמַךְ לַדָּבָר ״וַיִּפְגַּע בַּמָּקוֹם״ לִרְמוֹז כִּי רָאָה עַצְמוֹ בְּצַעַר וְהֻצְרַךְ לִתְפִלָּה:
According to the tradition quoted by our sages that Esau sent his son Eliphaz after Jacob, the words וילך חרנה may allude to Eliphaz hurrying after Jacob full of anger, i.e. בחרון. Perhaps the next verse in which Jacob is described as encountering a certain site, ויפגע במקום, is a hint that Jacob felt endangered and took refuge in prayer.
וַיִּפְגַּע בַּמָּקוֹם. פְּשָׁטוֹ שֶׁל מִקְרָא שֶׁפָּגַע בְּמָקוֹם אֶחָד שֶׁל יִשּׁוּב, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁתִּמְצָא שֶׁגָּמַר אוֹמֶר הַכָּתוּב לְבַסּוֹף, דִּכְתִיב: ״וְאוּלָם לוּז שֵׁם הָעִיר״ (בראשית כח:יט), הֲרֵי כִּי עִיר הָיְתָה, וַיָּלֶן שָׁם בָּעִיר הַהִיא.
ויפגע במקום. He encountered the site. The plain meaning of the verse is that Jacob arrived at an inhabited place. This is why the Torah concludes the paragraph by telling us that the town where Jacob found himself spending the night had previously been named Luz. The site had been a town then, and Jacob spent the night there.
וְאָמְרוֹ כִּי בָא הַשֶּׁמֶשׁ, לוֹמַר שֶׁזּוּלַת זֶה הָיָה הוֹלֵךְ הוּא לְהַגִּיעַ לִמְחוֹז חֶפְצוֹ בְּמִצְוַת אָבִיו וְאִמּוֹ. וְרַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה סח:ט) פֵּרְשׁוּ בַּמָּקוֹם הַיָּדוּעַ הַר הַמּוֹרִיָּה, דִּכְתִיב (בראשית כב:ד) ״וַיַּרְא אֶת הַמָּקוֹם״ וְגוֹ׳, וְזֶה דֶּרֶךְ דְּרָשׁ בִּנְקֻדַּת הַהֵ״א. וְדִבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה כִּכְתוּבִים וְכִמְסוּרִים אֶצְלֵינוּ, וְאֵין סְתִירָה לִדְבָרֵינוּ וּכְמוֹ שֶׁפֵּרֵשׁ רַשִׁ״י שֶׁנֶּעֱקַר הַר הַמּוֹרִיָּה וּבָא לְשָׁם, כִּי הוּא זֶה מָקוֹם הַמְקֻדָּשׁ.
The reason the Torah mentioned that the sun had set is simply that Jacob would have continued on his way in order to get closer to his eventual destination had it not been for the fact that nightfall required him to make camp. Bereshit Rabbah 68,9 explains that the definite article under the letter ב in the word במקום is an allusion to the site being Mount Moriah, the mountain destined for prayer and the eventual site of the Holy Temple. They base this on Genesis 22,4 where Abraham is reported as having recognised that site as the place where he was to offer up his son Isaac as a total offering to G'd. This is, of course, a homiletical approach. We naturally accept the words of our sages as absolutely true insights and they do not contradict our own explanation at all. Rashi has already explained that Mount Moriah had been transplanted for the occasion so that Jacob could offer up his prayer at that holy site.
וַיִּשְׁכַּב בַּמָּקוֹם הַהוּא. הוֹדִיעַ זֶה לוֹמַר ״וַיַּחֲלוֹם״ וְגוֹ׳, וְאָמַר בַּמָּקוֹם הַהוּא, כִּי לֹא הַשְּׁכִיבָה הִיא דָּבָר הַסּוֹבֵב לַחֲלוֹם, אֶלָּא לְצַד הַמָּקוֹם הַהוּא כִּי הָיָה מָקוֹם מְקֻדָּשׁ כְּמוֹ שֶׁאָמַר לְבַסּוֹף.
וישכב במקום ההוא. He lay down on that site. The Torah reports that Jacob dreamed and wants us to know that it is not the lying down that inspired the dream but במקום ההוא, the nature of the site.
עוֹד יִרְמוֹז בְּאָמְרוֹ וַיִּשְׁכַּב בַּמָּקוֹם עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (חולין צא:) שֶׁקִּפֵּל הָאָרֶץ תַּחְתָּיו, לָזֶה אָמַר ״וַיִּשְׁכַּב בַּמָּקוֹם הַהוּא״ פֵּרוּשׁ כֻּלּוֹ שָׁכַב בּוֹ, כְּאָמְרוֹ (בראשית כח:יג) ״אֲשֶׁר אַתָּה שׁוֹכֵב עָלֶיהָ״:
The wording also alludes to what we are told in Chullin 91, that the earth under Jacob folded up, i.e. that Jacob lay down on that whole strip of earth from Moriah to Luz. This is what G'd referred to in verse 13.
וַיַּחֲלֹם וְהִנֵּה וְגוֹ׳. טַעַם אָמְרוֹ וְהִנֵּה: לֶהֱיוֹת שֶׁאֵין הַחֲלוֹם מֻחְלָט בִּבְחִינַת הַצֶּדֶק כִּי חֲלוֹמוֹת שָׁוְא הֵם, גַּם שֶׁעַל כָּל פָּנִים יִהְיֶה בָּהֶם תֶּבֶן כִּי הֵם בְּמַרְאֵה הַשִּׁעֲמוּם, לָזֶה אָמַר ״וְהִנֵּה״ – פֵּרוּשׁ כִּי הַדְּבָרִים בְּלֹא שִׁעֲמוּם וְדִמְיוֹנוֹת אֶלָּא כָּל דָּבָר נִגְלֶה אֶצְלוֹ וּמְבֹאָר כְּיוֹם יָאִיר, וְאֵין זֶה דּוֹמֶה לִשְׁאָר הַחֲלוֹמוֹת שֶׁרוֹאֶה דָּבָר וְאֵינוֹ מַחְלִיט בִּרְאִיָּתוֹ מַה שֶׁהוּא רוֹאֶה. וְלָזֶה תִּמְצָא שֶׁדִּקְדֵּק לוֹמַר בְּכָל פְּרָט וּפְרָט מֵהַנִּגְלֶה אֵלָיו בַּחֲלוֹם ״וְהִנֵּה״, גַּבֵּי רְאִיַּת הַסֻּלָּם אָמַר וְהִנֵּה סֻלָּם, גַּבֵּי רְאִיַּת הַמַּלְאָכִים אָמַר וְהִנֵּה מַלְאֲכֵי וְגוֹ׳, גַּבֵּי גִּלּוּי שְׁכִינָה אָמַר וְהִנֵּה ה׳, הַכַּוָּנָה בָּזֶה כִּי הָיְתָה נְבוּאָה מַמָּשׁ.
ויחלום והנה סולם, And he dreamed that there was a ladder, etc. Inasmuch as many dreams contain matter without significance, the Torah added the word והנה to indicate that in this dream every detail appeared to Jacob as especially vivid and significant. He had total recall of everything he dreamed and referred to each detail later on. This is why the word והנה is repeated before every segment of the dream. The Torah thereby characterises the dream as a prophetic revelation.
וְהִנֵּה ה׳ נִצָּב עָלָיו. יִרְמוֹז גַּם עַל יַעֲקֹב, עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה פב:ו) הָאָבוֹת הֵם מֶרְכָּבָה לַשְּׁכִינָה, וְלֶהֱיוֹת שֶׁהוּא רֶגֶל רְבִיעִי יֹאמַר בְּדִיּוּק ״נִצָּב עָלָיו״ יוֹתֵר מֵעַל אַבְרָהָם וְיִצְחָק, כִּי הוּא עִקַּר הַעֲמָדַת הַכִּסֵּא.
והנה ה׳ נצב עליו. And here G'd was standing upon it. The word עליו also refers to Jacob, i.e. that he perceived G'd as standing above him. This is in line with what Bereshit Rabbah 82,6 tells us that the patriarchs were the carriers of G'd's presence. Inasmuch as Jacob was the fourth "leg" of that מרכבה [perceived here as a chair G'd is transported on, Ed.] G'd leaned more heavily on Jacob than on the other three "legs." The singular עליו is justified then.
אֱלֹהֵי אַבְרָהָם אָבִיךָ וְגוֹ׳. טַעַם אָמְרוֹ ״אָבִיךָ״ לְלֹא צֹרֶךְ, גַּם דִּיֵּק לוֹמַר ״אָבִיךָ״ בְּאַבְרָהָם וְלֹא אָמַר ״אַבְרָהָם וְיִצְחָק אֲבוֹתֶיךָ״, נִתְכַּוֵּן לְמַעֵט עֵשָׂו מִיְּרֻשַּׁת אַבְרָהָם וְעָשָׂה יַעֲקֹב הוּא הַיּוֹרֵשׁ אַבְרָהָם, לֹא שֶׁתַּגִּיעַ הַיְּרֻשָּׁה לְיִצְחָק וּמִמֶּנּוּ יִירָשֶׁנָּה יַעֲקֹב, שֶׁאִם כֵּן תַּגִּיעַ הַיְּרֻשָּׁה לְעֵשָׂו. וַחֲשָׁשַׁת יִשְׁמָעֵאל אֵינָהּ, כִּי כְּבָר כָּתַבְתִּי (אור החיים על בראשית טז:כא) שֶׁמִּשְׁפַּט עֶבֶד יֵשׁ לוֹ, דִּכְתִיב (בראשית כא:יג) ״בֶּן הָאָמָה״ וְלֹא בִּנְךָ, וְגוּפוֹ קָנוּי לְיִצְחָק, וְאֵין טַעֲנַת עֵשָׂו בּוֹ כִּי יְרֻשַּׁת אַבְרָהָם נִתְּנָה לְיַעֲקֹב וְלֹא לְעֵשָׂו.
אלוקי אברהם אביך, "the G'd of your father Abraham." The reason the Torah added the superfluous word "your father," as well as the reason why Abraham is described as Jacob's father without the addition of Isaac was intended to emphasise that Esau had no share in the heritage of Abraham. The Torah here made Jacob the sole heir of Abraham. This heritage did not come to Jacob via his father Isaac but directly from his grandfather Abraham. I have already explained in chapter 16,21 that there was never a question of Ishmael sharing in Abraham's inheritance since Ishmael was legally a slave and as such could not inherit anything from anybody. Ishmael was pointedly described as "the son of this slavewoman" not as Abraham's son (21,13). Esau was precluded from claiming any part of Abraham's inheritance.
וַהֲגַם שֶׁבֵּן מוּמָר יוֹרֵשׁ אֶת אָבִיו דְּבַר תּוֹרָה (קידושין יח.), כָּאן כְּשֶׁנָּתַן ה׳ לְאַבְרָהָם מַתָּנוֹת וּבְרָכוֹת וְכַדּוֹמֶה, נְתָנָם לוֹ עַל מְנָת שֶׁאַחֲרָיו לְיַעֲקֹב, כְּאָמְרוֹ (בראשית כא:יב) ״כִּי בְיִצְחָק יִקָּרֵא לְךָ זָרַע״ (נדרים לא.). וַהֲגַם שֶׁשֵּׁם זֶרַע לֹא יָרֵעַ לַנַּחֲלָה שֶׁיּוֹרֵשׁ הֲגַם שֶׁאֵינוֹ נִקְרָא זַרְעוֹ, הֲרֵי מָצִינוּ שֶׁזֶּרַע פָּסוּל יִקָּרֵא גַּם כֵּן זֶרַע, כִּדְאִיתָא בְּסַנְהֶדְרִין (סד:) ״כִּי מִזַּרְעוֹ נָתַן לַמֹּלֶךְ״ לְרַבּוֹת זֶרַע פָּסוּל, הֲרֵי שֶׁיִּקָּרֵא זֶרַע. אֶלָּא דִּסְתָם זֶרַע הוּא כָּשֵׁר, וּכְשֶׁמְּמַעֵט כָּאן עֵשָׂו שֶׁלֹּא יִקָּרֵא זֶרַע, מִעֵט אֲפִלּוּ זֶרַע פָּסוּל לֹא יִקָּרֵא לוֹ, וּמִמּוֹצָא דָבָר אַתָּה לָמֵד שֶׁאֵין לוֹ בּוֹ יְרֻשָּׁה. וּכְמוֹ שֶׁגִּלָּה ה׳ לְבַסּוֹף שֶׁנּוֹתֵן לְיַעֲקֹב כָּל בִּרְכוֹת אַבְרָהָם. וּמַה שֶׁלָּמְדוּ בַּשַּׁ״ס (קידושין יח.) מִפָּסוּק ״כִּי יְרֻשָּׁה לְעֵשָׂו נָתַתִּי״ וְגוֹ׳, הַיְינוּ שֶׁיְּרָשׁוּהוּ בָּנָיו לְעֵשָׂו, לֹא שֶׁעֵשָׂו יָרַשׁ חַס וְשָׁלוֹם, כִּי פְּשִׁיטָא שֶׁאֵין לוֹ חֵלֶק וְנַחֲלָה בְּאַבְרָהָם.
While it is true that the fact that a son is a heretic does not disqualify him from inheriting his father's estate (Kidushin 18), in this instance the gifts and blessings bestowed upon Abraham by G'd were given him with the express understanding that they be handed down to Jacob afterwards as we know from Genesis 21,12 that his seed would be known only through Isaac (Nedarim 31). Although the expression זרע does not imply that such seed must be morally fit in order to qualify for that description and therefore for the right to inherit, the fact that all the blessings of Abraham were transferred to Jacob excludes Esau as an heir. It is true that in connection with people who offer their children to the idol Moloch we find in Sanhedrin 64 that the term זרעו is used by the Torah, and that it includes children who have not turned out properly. The fact remains that usually the word זרע refers to children who follow in the footsteps of their fathers. When the Talmud Kidushin 18 quotes Deut. 2,5 as proof that Esau did inherit, this is in connection with Esau's children receiving an inheritance from their father; it does not mean that Esau himself was qualified to inherit from his grandfather Abraham.
וְנִבְרְכוּ בְךָ כָּל מִשְׁפְּחוֹת וְגוֹ׳. שֶׁכֵּן מָצִינוּ בַּאֲרָם שֶׁנִּתְבָּרְכוּ בוֹ, כְּאָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה ע) וְזֶה לְשׁוֹנָם: שֶׁקּוֹדֶם בָּא יַעֲקֹב הָיוּ מְדוּחָקִים לַמַּיִם, וְכֵיוָן שֶׁבָּא נִתְבָּרְכוּ בַמַּיִם, וְכֵן גַּם כֵּן בְּמִצְרַיִם מֵעֵת שֶׁיָּרַד נִתְבַּטְּלָה גְּזֵרַת הָרָעָב, וְנִתְבָּרְכוּ לְרַגְלוֹ.
ונברכו בך כל משפחות האדמה, "and through you all the families of the earth will experience blessings." We find that this blessing was fulfilled when Jacob was in Aram. Bereshit Rabbah 70 records that until Jacob's arrival there the people suffered from a shortage of water. As soon as Jacob arrived those people were blessed with an abundance of water. Similarly we find that the famine stopped as soon as Jacob arrived in Egypt i.e. the Nile overflowed its banks again to irrigate the fields.
וְאָמְרוֹ וּבְזַרְעֶךָ, שֶׁכָּל זְמַן שֶׁהָיָה בֵּית הַמִּקְדָּשׁ קַיָּם הָיְתָה בִּרְכַּת שִׁבְעִים אוּמּוֹת וְקִיּוּמָם בְּאֶמְצָעוּת יִשְׂרָאֵל, שֶׁהָיוּ מַקְרִיבִין שִׁבְעִים פָּרִים בֶּחָג (סוכה נה:), וּבַגָּלֻיּוֹת גַּם כֵּן קִיּוּם הָאוּמּוֹת וּסְמִיכָתָם הִיא יִשְׂרָאֵל, דִּכְתִיב (שיר השירים א:ו) ״שָׂמוּנִי נוֹטֵרָה אֶת הַכְּרָמִים״ וְגוֹ׳:
The reason the Torah added the word ובזרעך, was that Jacob's descendants too were to confer blessings on the whole of mankind. As long as the Temple stood the seventy nations of the world enjoyed G'd's blessings because the Israelites offered sacrifices on the festival of Sukkot on their behalf (Sukkah 55). Even while the Jewish people are in exile the continued existence of the other nations is due to the Jewish people as we know from Song of Songs 1,5: "when my mother's children were angry at me they appointed me keeper of the vineyards (of the idols)." [The "mother" is mother earth in this context. Ed.]
וּבְדֶרֶךְ רֶמֶז כָּל הַפָּרָשָׁה תִּרְמֹז עִנְיַן הָאָדָם, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁהִתְחִילוּ לוֹמַר בָּהּ רַזַ״ל (זהר חלק א׳ קמ״ז): וַיֵּצֵא יַעֲקֹב הִיא הַנֶּפֶשׁ בְּצֵאתָהּ מֵעוֹלָם הָעֶלְיוֹן, וְנִקְרָא יַעֲקֹב עַל שֵׁם יֵצֶר הָרָע הַכָּרוּךְ בַּעֲקֵבָיו.
If we look for allusions we can find that the whole paragraph alludes to man as a species. Zohar 1,147 understands the words ויצא יעקב as describing the soul when it first departs from the higher world and takes up residence within a body. This body is called יעקב on account of the evil urge which constantly tags along, at our heels, so to speak.
וְאָמְרוֹ מִבְּאֵר שָׁבַע – מָקוֹם שֶׁמִּמֶּנּוּ יָצְאוּ הַנְּשָׁמוֹת יִקָּרֵא בְּאֵר מַיִם חַיִּים, וְשָׁבַע יִרְמֹז אֶל שְׁבוּעַת ה׳ אֲשֶׁר תִּשָּׁבַע הַנֶּפֶשׁ בְּצֵאתָהּ שֶׁלֹּא תַּעֲבֹר עַל דְּבַר תּוֹרָה (נדה ל:).
The words מבאר שבע, from "the well of the oath," is a reference to the source the souls come from which is known as "the well of living waters." The word שבע refers to the oath G'd makes every soul swear when it departs from heaven that it will not violate Torah laws while inside a human being (compare Niddah 30).
וְאָמְרוֹ וַיֵּלֶךְ חָרָנָה – עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (סנהדרין צא:) כִּי יֵצֶר הָרַע יִכָּנֵס בָּאָדָם בְּצֵאתוֹ מֵרֶחֶם אִמּוֹ, דִּכְתִיב (בראשית ד:ז) ״לַפֶּתַח״ וְגוֹ׳.
The words וילך חרנה are an allusion to the statement of our sages in Sanhedrin 91 that the evil urge enters man from the moment he leaves his mother's womb. This is based on Genesis 4,7 that "sin crouches at the entrance"
וְאָמְרוֹ וַיִּפְגַּע בַּמָּקוֹם, כִּי צָרִיךְ הָאָדָם לְהִתְפַּלֵּל לַה׳ שֶׁהוּא מְקוֹמוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם, שֶׁלֹּא יַעַזְבֶנּוּ בְּיָדוֹ.
The words ויפגע במקום are a reminder that man has to invoke G'd's help through prayer, G'd being the מקומו של עולם, the site of the universe.
וְאָמְרוֹ וַיָּלֶן שָׁם כִּי בָא הַשֶּׁמֶשׁ, שֶׁצָּרִיךְ לְהִתְנַהֵג כֵּן עַד לֶכְתּוֹ מֵעוֹלָם הַזֶּה כְּשֶׁיַּעֲרִיב שִׁמְשׁוֹ, וְהוּא אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (אבות ב:ד): ״אַל תַּאֲמֵן בְּעַצְמְךָ עַד יוֹם מוֹתְךָ״.
When the Torah continued וילן שם כי בא השמש, this is a reminder that man has to conduct himself properly all his life until he dies, i.e. "until his sun sets." This is why our sages said in Avot 2,4: "do not be certain of your righteousness until the day you die."
וְאָמְרוֹ וַיִּקַּח מֵאַבְנֵי הַמָּקוֹם עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (ברכות ה:) וְזֶה לְשׁוֹנָם: אָמַר רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן לָקִישׁ, לְעוֹלָם יַרְגִּיז אָדָם יֵצֶר הַטּוֹב וְכוּ׳, וְאִם לָאו יַעֲסֹק בַּתּוֹרָה, דִּכְתִיב (תהלים ד:ה) ״אִמְרוּ בִלְבַבְכֶם״. וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ ״מֵאַבְנֵי הַמָּקוֹם״, פֵּרוּשׁ בִּנְיָנוֹ שֶׁל עוֹלָם שֶׁהֵם דִּבְרֵי תּוֹרָה. גַּם יִתְיַחֵס לָהֶם אַבְנֵי הַמָּקוֹם שֶׁבָּהֶם נִסְקָל וְנִרְגָּם יֵצֶר הָרַע וְכֹחוֹתָיו, וְהוּא אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (סוֹטָה כא.) תּוֹרָה מַצֶּלֶת מִיֵּצֶר הָרַע בֵּין בִּזְמַן שֶׁעוֹסֵק בָּהּ בֵּין בִּזְמַן שֶׁאֵינוֹ עוֹסֵק בָּהּ.
The Torah continues: "He took from the stones of that site;" this is analogous to the statement by Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish in Berachot 5 that a person should constantly strive to provoke his good urge i.e. criticise himself by struggling against the evil urge. Should he fail to overcome his evil urge he should busy himself with Torah study as suggested by David in Psalms 4,5. When the Torah refers to מאבני המקום, that Jacob took from the stones of that site, this refers to the בנינו של עולם the building blocks by means of which the world is built, i.e. Torah. These words may also relate to the stones used to kill the evil urge and its representatives. This is what the Talmud means in Sotah 21 when we are told that Torah saves one from the evil urge not only when one is actively engaged in its study but even when one is temporarily not busy with Torah.
וְאָמְרוֹ וַיָּשֶׂם מְרַאֲשֹׁתָיו יְכֻוָּן עַל דֶּרֶךְ מַה שֶׁאָמַר רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן לָקִישׁ: אִם לֹא נִצְּחוֹ – יִקְרָא קְרִיאַת שְׁמַע שֶׁעַל הַמִּטָּה, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר ״עַל מִשְׁכַּבְכֶם״ (תהלים ד:ה).
The Torah goes on: וישם מראשותיו, "he placed these stones under his head," to allude to the statement of Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish that when one fails to vanquish the evil urge one should resort to reciting the קריאת שמע which is recited at night, seeing David speaks of על משכבכם, on your bed, in Psalms 4,5.
וְאָמְרוֹ וַיִּשְׁכַּב בַּמָּקוֹם הַהוּא יְכַוֵּן לְמַה שֶׁסִּיֵּם רַבִּי שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן לָקִישׁ: לֹא נִצְּחוֹ – יִזְכּוֹר לוֹ יוֹם הַמִּיתָה, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וַיִּשְׁכַּב שְׁכִיבָה הַיְּדוּעָה בַּמָּקוֹם הַיָּדוּעַ, דֶּרֶךְ כָּל הָאָרֶץ, בֵּית מוֹעֵד לְכָל חָי.
The words וישכב במקום ההוא he lay down in that place, allude to the final statement on the subject by Rabbi Shimon ben Lakish that if one fails to overcome one's evil urge one should think of the day when one is going to die. This is why the Torah preferred to use the word וישכב to the word ויישן, he slept, since that word implies a lying down from which one may not get up again. Having employed all those means to try and overcome one's evil urge one may be confident of success.
וְאַחַר כָּל הַתְּנָאִים הַלָּלוּ מֻבְטָח הוּא שֶׁיְּנַצֵּחַ הַיֵּצֶר הָרָע, וּמֵעַתָּה מְבַשְּׂרוֹ הַכָּתוּב שֶׁיִּהְיֶה רָאוּי לְעָנָף מֵעַנְפֵי הַנְּבוּאָה שֶׁיִּגָּלֶה ה׳ אֵלָיו בַּחֲלוֹם יְדַבֵּר בּוֹ, וְצֵא וּלְמַד חֲלוֹמוֹתָיו שֶׁל ר׳ אֶלְעָזָר בֶּן עֲרָךְ הַמּוּבָאִים בְּסֵפֶר הַזֹּהַר (חלק א׳ קלט ובזהר חדש לך לך כה:).
After all this, the Torah shows that Jacob had become worthy of having a prophetic revelation in a dream. It is worth while to study the dreams of Rabbi Eleazar ben Arach which are recorded in the Zohar 1,139 and in the Zohar Chadash לך לך section 25.
וְהַסֻּלָּם הוּא סוֹד נֶפֶשׁ אָדָם, וְלֶהֱיוֹת שֶׁבְּצֵאת נֶפֶשׁ מֵאָדָם בְּשָׁכְבוֹ לֹא תֵעָקֵר בְּהֶחְלֵט מִגּוּפוֹ שֶׁל אָדָם אֶלָּא חֵלֶק מִמֶּנָּה בַּגּוּף, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ מֻצָּב אַרְצָה וְחֵלֶק מַגִּיעַ הַשָּׁמָיְמָה, וְהָעֵד עַל זֶה כְּשֶׁיִּהְיֶה הָאָדָם יָשֵׁן יָקִיץ עַל יְדֵי הִתְנוֹעֲעוּת הַגּוּף הַיָּשֵׁן, וְאִם נֶפֶשׁ הָאָדָם נִפְרְדָה וְהָלְכָה לָהּ לֹא תַּרְגִּישׁ בְּהִתְנוֹעֲעוּת הַגּוּף, אֶלָּא וַדַּאי כִּי מֻצֶּבֶת אַרְצָה וְרֹאשָׁהּ מַגִּיעַ הַשָּׁמַיְמָה, פֵּרוּשׁ שֶׁאֵין מַפְסִיק בֵּינָהּ וּבֵין הַשָּׁמַיִם, כֵּיוָן שֶׁיֵּצֶר הָרַע בָּאָדָם אַיִן, תַּגִּיעַ הַנְּשָׁמָה לַשָּׁמַיִם.
The ladder is the mystical aspect of the human soul, something that is not entirely uprooted from the body at the time he is asleep. Part of that soul remains in the body. When the Torah speaks of the ladder being rooted in the ground with its head in the heavens, it refers to these two parts of the soul. The proof of all this is that when man sleeps he subsequently awakens by moving his sleeping body; if the entire soul had previously departed from him he would not be able to experience these motions of his body. The picture drawn for us by the Torah therefore is that of a sleeping person who is not detached from either heaven or earth but remains in contact with both. During his sleeep the evil urge is not able to act as a barrier between man and G'd seeing that part of man's soul is in direct contact with heaven.
וְאָמְרוֹ מַלְאֲכֵי אֱלֹהִים עוֹלִים וְגוֹ׳, יִרְמֹז אֶל בְּחִינַת מַעֲשִׂים טוֹבִים אֲשֶׁר יִשְׁתַּדֵּל אָדָם בָּעוֹלָם הַזֶּה, וְיַעֲלֶה בְּאֶמְצָעוּתָהּ אוֹרוֹת עֶלְיוֹנִים בְּשֹׁרֶשׁ נִשְׁמָתָן, וְהֵם נִקְרָאִים בְּדִבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (זהר חלק א׳ י״ח) מַיִין נוּקְבִּין, לָהֶם יִקָּרֵא מַלְאֲכֵי אֱלֹהִים. וְכֵן הוּא בְּמִשְׁנַת חֲסִידִים (אבות פרק ד׳) הָעוֹשֶׂה מִצְוָה אַחַת קָנָה לוֹ פְּרַקְלִיט אֶחָד, וּבַעֲלוֹת אֵלּוּ יֵרְדוּ מַיִין דְּכוּרִין, כִּי בְּהִתְעוֹרְרוּת הַתַּחְתּוֹנִים יִתְעוֹרְרוּ מַיִם הָעֶלְיוֹנִים לְהַשְׁפִּיעַ אוֹרוֹת נוֹרָאִים בְּסוֹד נִשְׁמָתוֹ, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וְיוֹרְדִים בּוֹ.
The מלאכים עולים ויורדים, the angels described as ascending and descending in Jacob's dream are an allusion to the good deeds which man attempts to perform in this world and which enable his soul to transmit light of a supernatural dimension to the source his soul emanates from. These are called מיין נוקבים, "feminine waters" in the Zohar 1,18. Another name for these lights is מלאכי אלוקים, "angels of G'd." In Avot 4,11 Rabbi Eliezer ben Yaakov calls the products of each good deed פרקליט, advocate. When these advocates rise heavenwards they in turn activate "masculine waters" to descend. [The concept is that just as there is an interaction between the waters in the heavens and those beneath on earth or below, without which nature cannot function and produce vegetation, there is a parallel process of a spiritual nature. In our Midrashim this interaction is compared to the sexual intercourse between man and woman which results in conception. Ed.] The Torah refers to that impact on what descends on man's soul in the words ויורדים בו, "they descend upon him."
וְאָמְרוֹ וְהִנֵּה ה׳ נִצָּב, פֵּרוּשׁ שֶׁמִּמַּדְרֵגָה זוֹ יַעֲלֶה לַנְּבוּאָה עַצְמָהּ, וְלֹא בַּחֲלוֹם יְדַבֵּר בּוֹ אֶלָּא תִּגָּלֶה עָלָיו הַשְּׁכִינָה. וְלָזֶה תִּמְצָא שֶׁאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (רמב״ם הלכות תשובה פרק ה) עַל יִשְׂרָאֵל שֶׁלֹּא הוּשְׁלַל אֶחָד מֵהֶם מֵהַנְּבוּאָה, וְכֻלָּן מֻכְשָׁרִים לְדָבָר זֶה:
The Torah continues והנה ה׳ נצב עליו to tell us that after such an interchange of spiritual forces man becomes capable of prophetic insights. This means that G'd will no longer speak to such a person only in a dream but that he will experience a divine revelation. Jacob's experience during that night then made every Jew in the future a potential vehicle for prophecy, for divine revelation. This is also mentioned by Maimonides who states in chapter 5 of his Hilchot Teshuvah that in principle not a single Israelite is unable to become a vessel for prophecy.
וַיִּיקַץ וְגוֹ׳ אָכֵן וְגוֹ׳ וְאָנֹכִי וְגוֹ׳. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת כַּוָּנַת אָמְרוֹ אָכֵן, שֶׁנִּרְאֶה כִּי נִתְגַּלָּה לוֹ הַנֶּעְלָם. עוֹד מַה תְּמִיהָא זוֹ וְאָנֹכִי לֹא יָדָעְתִּי שֶׁנִּרְאֶה שֶׁצָּרִיךְ הוּא לָדַעַת כָּל נִסְתָּר?
וייקץ יעקב, Jacob awoke, etc. What did Jacob mean by the word אכן in this verse? It appears to mean that something concealed had been revealed to him. Why would he then express surprise at having been unaware of such knowledge, i.e. ואנכי לא ידעתי? Did he have to be aware of everything that is hidden?
וְיִתְבָּאֵר עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (חולין צא:) ״כִּי בָא הַשֶּׁמֶשׁ״ – שָׁקְעָה לוֹ שֶׁלֹּא בְּעוֹנָתָהּ לִשְׁכַּב שָׁם בְּבֵית מָלוֹן הַמְאֻשָּׁר, וְיַעֲקֹב לֹא הִרְגִּישׁ טַעַם הַעֲרֵב שֶׁמֶשׁ שֶׁלֹּא בִּזְמַנּוֹ. לָזֶה כְּשֶׁבָּא הַחֲלוֹם בְּרֹב עִנְיָן, אָז הֻכַּר לוֹ הַנִּסְתָּר טַעַם הַעֲרֵב שֶׁמֶשׁ, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ ״אָכֵן יֵשׁ ה׳״ וְגוֹ׳, וְלָזֶה הֶעֱרִיב הַשֶּׁמֶשׁ לְצֹרֶךְ שְׁכִיבָה בַּמָּקוֹם הַזֶּה.
Perhaps we may explain this by referring to Chulin 91 where the words "for the sun had set" are interpreted to mean that Jacob personally experienced an unusually early sunset on that day. This was designed to force him to spend the night at that site. What Jacob meant then was that at the time when the early sunset occurred he had not understood its meaning. He did so now only with the help of the dream he had dreamt.
וְאָמְרוֹ יֵשׁ ה׳ פֵּרוּשׁ שָׁם הוּא מָקוֹם שֶׁבּוֹ ה׳ מָצוּי תָּמִיד יוֹתֵר מִכָּל הַמְּקוֹמוֹת, וַאֲשֶׁר לָזֶה רָצָה ה׳ לְדַבֵּר אִתּוֹ שָׁם מִדֵּי עָבְרוֹ שָׁמָּה, וְאָמַר ״וְאָנֹכִי לֹא יָדָעְתִּי״ קוֹדֶם טַעַם הַדָּבָר, כִּי אִם הָיָה יוֹדֵעַ הָיָה מֵכִין עַצְמוֹ לַנְּבוּאָה, כִּי הַנְּבוּאָה צְרִיכָה הֲכָנָה כַּיָּדוּעַ. וְאֶפְשָׁר אִם הָיָה מֵכִין עַצְמוֹ הָיָה מִתְנַבֵּא בְּהָקִיץ וְלֹא בַּחֲלוֹם יְדַבֵּר בּוֹ, וְלָזֶה מִתְאוֹנֵן עַל מַה שֶׁלֹּא הִשְׂכִּיל עַל דָּבָר. וְרַשִׁ״י זִכְרוֹנוֹ לִבְרָכָה פֵּרֵשׁ: וְאִם יָדַעְתִּי לֹא יָשַׁנְתִּי בְּמָקוֹם קָדוֹשׁ, עַד כָּאן. וְאִם לָזֶה לְבַד נִתְכַּוֵּן נֹאמַר אֵלָיו וְאִם לֹא יָשַׁנְתָּ לֹא הָיִיתָ חוֹלֵם חֲלוֹם נְבוּאִי בְּכָל הַהַבְטָחוֹת, וּבְהֶכְרֵחַ לְהַשְׁלִים הַכַּוָּנָה בְּמַה שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁתִּי.
When Jacob said: יש השם במקום הזה, that G'd is in this place, he meant that G'd is present at this site all the time, in contrast to other sites. This is why G'd wanted him to spend the night there in order to communicate with him there. Jacob apologised for not having prepared himself for a divine revelation; had he been aware of the significance of that site he would surely have done so. Prophecy requires the recipient to first prepare himself mentally. Perhaps if Jacob had prepared himself to become the recipient of a message from G'd he might have prophesied while awake instead of while dreaming. This may have been what he bemoaned in this verse. Rashi explains simply that Jacob meant that if he had known the holy nature of that site he would not have allowed himself to go to sleep there. If that were the only meaning of Jacob's words we could say to him (Rashi) that Jacob then would not have experienced all the promises G'd made to him during his dream. We therefore need to include what I have just written in order to explain the verse satisfactorily.
וַיִּירָא וַיֹּאמַר וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ: הִרְגִּישׁ בְּלִבּוֹ שֶׁהָיָה יָרֵא מֵעַצְמוֹ, וְאָמַר כַּמָּה מוֹרָא בַּמָּקוֹם הַזֶּה, וְנָתַן טַעַם בְּאָמְרוֹ אֵין זֶה כִּי אִם בֵּית אֱלֹהִים, דִּקְדֵּק לוֹמַר שֵׁם אֱלֹהִים כִּי הוּא מְקוֹר הַמּוֹרָא, דִּכְתִיב (קהלת ג:יד) ״וְהָאֱלֹהִים עָשָׂה שֶׁיִּירְאוּ״ וְגוֹ׳, וְדָבָר יָדוּעַ כִּי שֵׁם אֱלֹהִים יַפְחִיד לְבַב אֱנוֹשׁ.
"Shaken, he said..." He felt that his heart was moved to fear on its own, and gave a reason for this when he said "this is none other than the abode of God." He was careful to use the Divine name Elohim, because this is the source of fear, as it is written "...and God (Elohim) made it so that they fear Him." (Kohelet 3:14) It is known that the name Elohim strikes fear in the heart of man.
וְאָמְרוֹ וְזֶה שַׁעַר וְגוֹ׳, פֵּרוּשׁ: מָקוֹם הַמְכֻוָּן כְּנֶגְדּוֹ לְמַעְלָה הוּא שַׁעַר הַשָּׁמַיִם, וְלָזֶה אָמַר פַּעַם שְׁנִיָּה ״וְזֶה״.
When Yaakov said "this is the gate..." he meant that the place aligned with it above is the gate of heaven. This is why he used the word 'this' (zeh) twice.
עוֹד נִתְכַּוֵּן לָתֵת טַעַם לְמַעֲלַת הַמָּקוֹם שֶׁנִּשְׁתַּנָּה לְמַעְלָה ״אֵין זֶה כִּי אִם בֵּית אֱלֹהִים״ אֲשֶׁר קָדְמָה אֵלָיו הַיְּדִיעָה כִּי בָּחַר לוֹ יָהּ בַּיִת לִשְׁכּוֹן שָׁמָּה, וְאָמַר כִּי הוּא זֶה הַמָּקוֹם. וְהוֹכִיחַ עוֹד כִּי הוּא זֶה בֵּית הַבְּחִירָה, כְּאָמְרוֹ ״וְזֶה שַׁעַר הַשָּׁמָיִם״, כִּי רָאָה שֶׁהָיוּ מַלְאָכִים עוֹלִים וְיוֹרְדִים, וְקָדְמָה הַיְדִיעָה אֶצְלוֹ כִּי הַמָּקוֹם הַמְּקֻדָּשׁ הוּא מְכֻוָּן כְּנֶגֶד שַׁעַר הַשָּׁמַיִם.
He also intended to explain the lofty status of the place by saying that this is the House of God, a physical place preceded by the knowledge that God had chosen a place to cause His name to dwell. He said 'this is that place!' He proved further that this was the chosen place when he said 'this is the gate of heaven.' Yaakov said this because he saw angels rising and descending, and he already knew that the sacred place below was aligned with the gate of heaven:
וַיִּדַּר יַעֲקֹב נֶדֶר לֵאמֹר. פֵּירוּשׁ שֶׁהוֹצִיא הַנֶּדֶר בִּשְׂפָתָיו, כִּי זוּלַת זֶה נֶדֶר בַּלֵּב אֵינוֹ נֶדֶר.
וידור יעקב נדר לאמור. Jacob made a vow saying. The word לאמר is to remind us that unless a vow has been verbalised it is not valid. Mere good intentions do not rate as a vow.
אִם יִהְיֶה וְגוֹ׳. ״אִם״ זֶה תִּתְפָּרֵשׁ עַל דֶּרֶךְ מַה שֶׁאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בבא קמא פרק ד׳ משנה ה׳) בַּפְּסוּקִים (שמות כא:ל) ״אִם כֹּפֶר״, ״אִם כֶּסֶף תַּלְוֶה״ (שמות כב:כד), שֶׁאֵינוֹ סָפֵק אֶלָּא וַדַּאי, וּכְאִלּוּ אָמַר ״כַּאֲשֶׁר יִהְיֶה זֶה״ וְגוֹ׳ (מכילתא סוף פרשת יתרו).
אם יהיה אלוקים עמדי, "If the Lord will be with me, etc." The word אם in this case is not to be understood as something conditional but is similar to the אם כפר יושת עליו in Exodus 21,30, or the אם in Exodus 22,24: אם כסף תלוה את עמי. In both those instances the meaning is "when," i.e. something that will definitely occur (compare Baba Kama 4,5 and Mechilta on Parshat Yitro)
עוֹד יִרְצֶה עַל זֶה הַדֶּרֶךְ, אִם תַּסְכִּים מִדַּת הַדִּין עַל הַדָּבָר, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ אִם יִהְיֶה אֱלֹהִים, כִּי לֹא דִּבֵּר אֵלָיו אֶלָּא מִמִּדַּת הָרַחֲמִים, דִּכְתִיב ״וְהִנֵּה ה׳ נִצָּב וְגוֹ׳ הִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ״, וְדָבָר יָדוּעַ כִּי מִדַּת הָרַחֲמִים תַּסְכִּים לְהֵיטִיב וּמִדַּת הַדִּין תְּעַכֵּב בַּדָּבָר, לָזֶה אָמַר ״אִם יִהְיֶה אֱלֹהִים״ וְגוֹ׳:
Jacob also included the attribute of Justice in his vow. So far G'd had spoken to him only in His capacity as Hashem, the attribute of Mercy. He undertook to tithe his acquisitions provided that also the attribute of Justice would prove to be with him. This is why he chose the expression אלוקים and not השם when formulating his vow.
וְהָיָה ה׳ לִי לֵאלֹהִים. וְעַד עַתָּה אֵינוֹ לֵאלֹהִים חַס וְשָׁלוֹם. וְרַשִׁ״י זִכְרוֹנוֹ לִבְרָכָה פֵּרֵשׁ שֶׁלֹּא יִמָּצֵא פְּסוּל בְּזַרְעִי, וְאֵין אֲנִי יוֹדֵעַ הֵיכָן רָמוּז דָּבָר זֶה בְּאָמְרוֹ ״וְהָיָה״ וְגוֹ׳. וְעוֹד הַבְטָחָה זוֹ תָּמִיד הִיא תְּלוּיָה וְעוֹמֶדֶת, וְאֵימָתַי יִהְיֶה קֵץ הַגְּבוּל לַעֲשׂוֹת הָאֶבֶן מַצֵּבָה. וְהַנָּכוֹן הוּא שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן לוֹמַר שֶׁיִּתְיַחֵד אֵלָיו שֵׁם ה׳ לֵאלֹהִים כְּדֶרֶךְ שֶׁנִּתְיַחֵד עַל אֲבוֹתָיו (בראשית כח:יג) ״אֱלֹהֵי אַבְרָהָם אֱלֹהֵי יִצְחָק״, גַּם יֵאָמֵר עָלָיו ״אֱלֹהֵי יַעֲקֹב״, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ לִי לֵאלֹהִים פֵּרוּשׁ: לִי בְּיִחוּד. וְדָבָר גָּדוֹל דִּבֵּר יַעֲקֹב בָּזֶה, וְתִמְצָא שֶׁכֵּן הָיָה, דִּכְתִיב (בראשית לג:כ) ״וַיִּקְרָא לוֹ אֵל אֱלֹהֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל״ וְאַחַר כָּךְ שִׁלֵּם נִדְרוֹ אֲשֶׁר נָדַר לַעֲשׂוֹת אֶבֶן הַזֹּאת.
והיה ה׳ לי לאלוקים. "Then Hashem will be my Lord." This sounds, G'd forbid, as if until now Hashem had not been Jacob's G'd. Rashi explains that Jacob meant that G'd would not find any of his children as morally unfit. I do not know where such a thought is alluded to in Jacob's words. [actually Rashi quotes a Sifri in Parshat Va-Etchanan section 31. Ed.] Besides such a promise, i.e. that his children would be morally fit, is at best a conditional promise [seeing that the matter lies within the will-power of the children, Ed.]. When would the stone then be able to serve as a monument for this encounter Jacob experienced during his dream? The proper explanation of what Jacob said is that he was prepared to conduct himself in such a way that G'd would consent to associate His name with him even during his lifetime. He had previously done this with Abraham after the latter's death and with Isaac only after he had become blind and therefore beyond the reach of the evil urge (compare verse 13). The words לי לאלוקים are clear evidence of Jacob's intention. This was a tremendous undertaking by Jacob. You will find in Genesis 33,20 that G'd reminded him of that undertaking and that Jacob then fulfilled this vow by erecting a monument in G'd's honour.
וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת וְגוֹ׳. יֵרָאֶה כִּי הִיא זוֹ אֶבֶן הַשְּׁתִיָּה (זוהר א:עב) שֶׁהִזְמִינָהּ לַמִּקְדָּשׁ, וּמָצִינוּ לוֹ שֶׁהִזְמִין עֲצֵי שִׁטִּים לַמִּשְׁכָּן בַּמִּדְבָּר (תנחומא תרומה). וְאוּלַי שֶׁיְּכַוֵּן ה׳ בְּאָמְרוֹ ״וְעָשׂוּ לִי מִקְדָּשׁ״ (שמות כה:ח) לְשׁוֹן מְזֻמָּן, פֵּרוּשׁ מַה שֶׁכְּבָר הוּזְמַן, כִּי הַמִּשְׁכָּן וְגַם בֵּית הַמִּקְדָּשׁ בִּשְׁנֵיהֶם הִזְמִינָם יַעֲקֹב, ״וְשָׁכַנְתִּי בְּתוֹכָם״ חוֹזֵר אֶל שְׁתֵּי הֲכָנוֹת אֵלּוּ.
והאבן הזאת, and concerning this stone, etc. According to Zohar 1,72 the stone in question is the אבן שתיה, the stone G'd used as the foundation of the Holy Temple and which He had buried in the interval in the depths of the abyss at the "navel" of the earth. According to Tanchuma Parshat Terumah, Jacob prepared the shittim wood for the Tabernacle in the desert at this time. Perhaps this is what G'd referred to in Exodus 25,8 when He said: "They shall make for Me a Sanctuary;" G'd referred to this wood from which the Israelites were to construct this Sanctuary. When the Torah there continued: "and I shall dwell amongst them," G'd may have referred to preparations made by Jacob for both the Tabernacle and the Holy Temple.