Or HaChaim on Genesis Chapter 32
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וַיִּפְגְּעוּ בוֹ מַלְאֲכֵי וְגוֹ׳. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת כַּוָּנַת אָמְרוֹ וַיִּפְגְּעוּ בוֹ. גַּם אָמְרוֹ וַיֹּאמֶר יַעֲקֹב וְגוֹ׳ מַה חִדּוּשׁ מוֹדִיעַ הַכָּתוּב שֶׁאָמַר יַעֲקֹב כֵּן. גַּם יַעֲקֹב מַה חִדֵּשׁ בִּדְבָרָיו. גַּם אֵין יָדוּעַ כַּוָּנַת אָמְרוֹ מַחֲנָיִם. וְרַבּוֹתֵינוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה עד:יז) דָּרְשׁוּ, יְעֻיַּן שָׁם דִּבְרֵיהֶם שֶׁהוּא דְּרָשׁ.
ויפגעו בו מלאכי אלוקים, G'd's angels met him. We need to understand the meaning of "they met him." We also need to examine what new insight Jacob contributed by calling the angels' encampment "a camp of G'd." What exactly is the meaning of the word מחנים? Bereshit Rabbah 74,17 offers a variety of explanations all of which are homiletical.
וּפְשַׁט הַכָּתוּב הוּא, לֶהֱיוֹת כִּי שָׁלַח ה׳ מַלְאָכִים בִּדְמוּת אֲנָשִׁים לְהִדָּמוֹת לִפְנֵי עֵשָׂו כַּאֲשֶׁר הוֹכִיחַ סוֹף הַמַּעֲשֶׂה, לָזֶה הִקְדִּים לְהוֹדִיעַ הַמַּעֲשֶׂה שֶׁמִּמֶּנּוּ הִרְגִּישׁ יַעֲקֹב הֱיוֹתָם מַלְאָכִים, וְאָמַר שֶׁלֹּא בָּא הַמַּחֲנֶה כְּדֶרֶךְ הָאֲנָשִׁים שֶׁקּוֹדֶם יִהְיוּ נִרְאִים הָלוֹךְ וְקָרֵב עַד שֶׁיַּגִּיעוּ אֵצֶל הַבָּאִים אֶצְלוֹ, אֶלָּא תֵּכֶף וּמִיָּד צָמְחוּ לְפָנָיו, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וַיִּפְגְּעוּ בוֹ פֵּרוּשׁ רְאִיָּה רִאשׁוֹנָה הָיְתָה הַפְּגִיעָה בּוֹ אֶצְלוֹ, ״וַיֹּאמֶר יַעֲקֹב כַּאֲשֶׁר רָאָם״ בְּדֶרֶךְ זֶה, ״מַחֲנֵה אֱלֹהִים״, אֵין אֵלֶּה אֲנָשִׁים אֶלָּא מַלְאָכִים, ״וַיִּקְרָא שֵׁם הַמָּקוֹם מַחֲנָיִם״ פֵּרוּשׁ שְׁתֵּי מַחֲנוֹת, אֶחָד שֶׁל אֲנָשָׁיו שֶׁהָיוּ עִמּוֹ לַעֲרֹךְ מִלְחָמָה וְהַשֵּׁנִי שֶׁל מַלְאָכִים בִּדְמוּת אֲנָשִׁים כִּי בָּאוּ לְעֶזְרַת ה׳ לִידִידוֹ יַעֲקֹב בְּחִיר ה׳.
The plain meaning of the verse is that G'd sent Jacob angels in the guise of human beings to gain the confidence of Esau and to find out his intentions concerning him, as we observe in the course of what develops. How did Jacob know that he had been met by angels? The arrival of these people (angels) was not in the manner of ordinary human beings who are seen approaching before they arrive and set up camp. These angels materialised suddenly as if out of nowhere, as if they had sprouted up in front of him. The word ויפגעו alludes to the first sudden and unexpected encounter Jacob had with these beings. This is why he described their encampment as a camp of G'd the moment he set eyes on them. He called the place where this occurred מחנים, i.e. two camps. One camp consisted of Jacob's own people who had prepared with him for war against Esau, the second one was the camp of these angels who had assumed the appearance of human beings. They usually do so whenever they are despatched by G'd to assist someone who is dear to G'd, such as Jacob the choicest of the patriarchs.
חסלת פרשת ויצא
וַיִּשְׁלַח. צָרִיךְ לְדַקְדֵּק אָמְרוֹ לְפָנָיו לְלֹא צֹרֶךְ. גַּם לָמָּה הֻצְרַךְ לוֹמַר תֵּבַת אָחִיו כִּי יָדוּעַ הוּא שֶׁעֵשָׂו הוּא אָחִיו. גַּם לָמָּה הֻצְרַךְ לְהַזְכִּיר אַרְצָה שֵׂעִיר שְׂדֵה וְגוֹ׳, כִּי הַשְּׁלִיחוּת לֹא יִשְׁתַּנֶּה אִם יִהְיֶה שָׁם אוֹ בְּמָקוֹם אַחֵר. וְעוֹד דִּקְדֵּק לוֹמַר אַרְצָה וְלֹא אָמַר לְאֶרֶץ, וַהֲגַם שֶׁאָמְרוּ זַ״ל (יבמות יג:) כָּל מָקוֹם שֶׁצָּרִיךְ לָמֶ״ד וְכוּ׳, אַף עַל פִּי כֵן הֲלֹא דָּבָר הוּא שֶׁגּוֹרֵם שִׁנּוּי.
וישלח, He sent, etc. Why did the Torah say: לפניו, ahead of him, a word which appears to be superfluous? The word אחיו also needs justification. Who did not know that Esau was Jacob's brother? Even the words ארצה שעיר שדה אדום, "to the land of Se-ir the field of Edom," need an explanation. What difference would it make to the angels where Esau was located? Furthermore, why did the Torah use the expression ארצה instead of לארץ? Although Yevamot 13 states that wherever the letter ל is required at the beginning it can be substituted for by the letter ה at the end, this does not explain when the Torah chooses one method rather than another.
אָכֵן כַּוָּנַת הַכָּתוּב הִיא לָתֵת טַעַם לְאָמְרוֹ וַיִּשְׁלַח מַלְאָכִים, לָמָּה יִשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בִּמְשָׁרְתֵי עֶלְיוֹן לְלֹא צֹרֶךְ, כִּי יָכוֹל עֲשׂוֹת הַדָּבָר עַל יְדֵי מְשָׁרְתֵי אָדָם גַּם בְּנֵי אִישׁ? לָזֶה אָמַר לְפָנָיו, פֵּרוּשׁ, לְצַד הֱיוֹתָם לְפָנָיו דָּן כִּי הוּרְשָׁה לְהִשְׁתַּמֵּשׁ בָּהֶם לַאֲשֶׁר יִצְטָרֵךְ לָהֶם בְּדָבָר שֶׁאֵין יָכוֹל עֲשׂוֹת עַל יְדֵי בְּנֵי אָדָם. וְאָמַר כִּי הֻצְרַךְ לָהֶם לְצַד שֶׁהַשְּׁלִיחוּת הוּא אֶל עֵשָׂו, וְהוּא אָדָם גָּדוֹל כַּיָּדוּעַ לְפִי דִּבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה עה), וּשְׁלִיחוּת אֲחֵרִים אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁלֹּא יַחְשִׁיב אוֹתָם לַהֲשִׁיבָם. אוֹ אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁיַּקְדִּים לְהַכּוֹתָם מִבְּלִי הָשֵׁב וְיָבֹא עַל יַעֲקֹב כַּאֲשֶׁר יִדְאֶה הַנֶּשֶׁר, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן הַמַּלְאָכִים. גַּם בְּאֶמְצָעוּת שְׁלִיחוּתָם יִפְחַד וְרָחַב לְבָבוֹ בִּרְאוֹתוֹ צְבָא הַשָּׁמַיִם, וּכְאָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (שם): ״מֵהֶם לְבוּשֵׁי אֵשׁ וְרוֹכְבֵי סוּסִים״ וְכוּ׳ עַד כָּאן, שֶׁבָּזֶה יִרָא לְבַל עֲשׂוֹת רַע.
The verse wants to justify the expression "he sent angels." Why did Jacob employ heavenly beings without a pressing need? He could have accomplished the same thing by employing human messengers! The Torah says לפניו, to tell us that since Jacob had already met with these angels and they had obviously come to help him, he was permitted to use them as messengers for a task that human messengers might prove inadequate for. Jacob reasoned that seeing that these messengers would meet an important man such as Esau, he might not consider messengers of a lower order as appropriate to his stature (compare Bereshit Rabbah 75). Esau might not have responded to any other messengers at all. It is also possible that Esau would immediately pounce on Jacob's human messengers as the eagle does when he swoops out of the skies, thus not giving him any warning before attacking him. For all these reasons Jacob was justified in employing celestial beings to act as his messengers. Perhaps he also hoped that when Esau became aware that he, Jacob, had celestial beings do his bidding he would desist from his planned attack on Jacob altogether. The Midrash we quoted above refers to those angels as being garbed in "fiery garments, riding horses of fire, etc."
וְאָמְרוֹ אֶל אָחִיו, פֵּרוּשׁ: טַעַם הִשְׁתַּדְּלוּתוֹ בִּשְׁלִיחוּת זֶה בְּדֶרֶךְ שָׁלוֹם וְרַבָּנוּת, לְצַד הֱיוֹתוֹ אָחִיו, וְהָיָה חָשׁ שֶׁלֹּא יִכָּנֵס עִמּוֹ בְּמִלְחָמָה שֶׁמָּא יַעַמְדוּ לוֹ זְכוּת אֲבוֹתָיו.
The reason the Torah mentions the word "his brother," is to emphasize that Jacob despatched the messengers in a spirit of brotherliness and that he accorded Esau the honour due to an older brother. He was afraid of engaging Esau in warfare in case the latter should invoke his father's merits.
אוֹ יִרְצֶה עַל זֶה הַדֶּרֶךְ: אֶל עֵשָׂו שֶׁהוּא שׂוֹנֵא, אֶל אָחִיו שֶׁאֵינוֹ שׂוֹנֵא. פֵּרוּשׁ, שֶׁיַּעֲשׂוּ הַשְּׁלִיחוּת לְעֵרֶךְ אֲשֶׁר יִמְצָאוּהוּ: אִם יִמְצָאוּהוּ שֶׁהוּא שׂוֹנֵא תִּהְיֶה הַשְּׁלִיחוּת בְּאֹפֶן אֶחָד, וְאִם יִרְאוּ כִּי הוּא אָחִיו תִּהְיֶה הַשְּׁלִיחוּת בְּאֹפֶן אַחֵר. וְדָבָר זֶה לֹא יוּכְלוּ הָבִין זוּלַת הַמַּלְאָכִים, כִּי הָאֲנָשִׁים יָכוֹל לְהַטְעוֹתָם.
Another approach is also possible. The Torah emphasizes: אל עשו in order to tell us that on the one hand Esau hated him; on the other hand, the Torah wrote אל אחיו, to tell us that he did not hate him, that he was his brother. The messengers should be guided in their approach to Esau according to the frame of mind they would find him in. Since only celestial beings could divine Esau's frame of mind with any certainty, Jacob had to send celestial messengers to accomplish this task.
אוֹ יִרְצֶה שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן לְהַקְדִּים לִשְׁלֹחַ הוּא שְׁלוּחָיו קֹדֶם שֶׁיֵּדַע עֵשָׂו מֵהַזּוּלַת כִּי בָא יַעֲקֹב, עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (סוטה מא:) ״קַדְּמֵהוּ לָרָשָׁע״ וְכוּ׳. אֲשֶׁר עַל כֵּן בָּחַר לִשְׁלֹחַ הַמַּלְאָכִים שֶׁלֹּא יִצְטָרְכוּ לַהֲלִיכָה, וּבַמָּקוֹם שֶׁהֵם שָׁמָּה יַעֲשׂוּ שְׁלִיחוּתָם, כִּי כָל הָעוֹלָם כְּאַרְבַּע אַמּוֹתָם. וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וַיִּשְׁלַח מַלְאָכִים, הַטַּעַם לְפָנָיו אֶל עֵשָׂו וְגוֹ׳, פֵּרוּשׁ: הֵם עוֹדָם עוֹמְדִים לְפָנָיו וְהֵם עוֹשִׂים שְׁלִיחוּתָם אֶל עֵשָׂו אָחִיו, הֲגַם שֶׁהוּא בְּמָקוֹם רָחוֹק. וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ אַרְצָה שֵׂעִיר, וְלָזֶה לֹא אָמַר ״לְאֶרֶץ״, כִּי לֹא יִצְטָרְכוּ לָלֶכֶת אֶלָּא יַחְזְרוּ פְּנֵיהֶם וִידַבְּרוּ עִם עֵשָׂו, וּבְמַעֲמָדָם יַעֲמֹדוּ וְיַחְזְרוּ לוֹ הַתְּשׁוּבָה, וְהָבֵן. וְאָמְרוֹ שְׂדֵה אֱדוֹם פֵּרוּשׁ: קֹדֶם שֶׁיֵּצֵא מִמְּקוֹמוֹ עֵשָׂו יַגִּיעוּהוּ בַּשְּׁלִיחוּת, כִּי מְקוֹם מוֹשָׁבוֹ יִקָּרֵא שְׂדֵה אֱדוֹם:
Still another possibility is that Jacob's strategy was to send messengers to Esau before Esau had a chance to hear about his approach from another source. This is in line with the various Midrashim in which Jacob is criticised severely for not letting sleeping dogs lie, for demeaning himself by repeating so many times "your servant Jacob," etc. He chose to send angels who would not have to exert themselves by excessive travel. To the angels the whole universe appeared no greater than four cubits do to us mortal human beings. When the Torah reports that Jacob sent messengers ahead of him to Esau, the word לפניו, before him, is an allusion that the angels were still literally in his presence although they performed their mission to Esau who was quite a distance away. The reason that the Torah wrote ארצה שעיר instead of לארץ שעיר, is to emphasize that the angels did not actually have to go anywhere. All they had to do was to face in a different direction. The reason that the field is called "Edom" is that they would arrive at Esau's, i.e. the field of Edom, before the latter had a chance to even to get under way towards Jacob.
וּבְדֶרֶךְ רֶמֶז יְכַוֵּן הַכָּתוּב לִרְמֹז שְׁלֹשָׁה זְמַנִּים שֶׁיִּשְׁתַּנּוּ בָהֶם בְּנֵי עֵשָׂו: הָאֶחָד יִהְיוּ יַעֲקֹב וְעֵשָׂו בְּמִדַּת הָאַחְוָה, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ עֵשָׂו אָחִיו, וְזֶה הָיָה עַד עֵת הַחֻרְבָּן. וַהֲגַם שֶׁהָיָה זְמַן שֶׁהָיָה אֱדוֹם תַּחַת יַד יִשְׂרָאֵל, זֶה הָיָה זְמַן מוּעָט. וְהַשֵּׁנִי מִזְּמַן שֶׁנֶּחֱרַב הַבַּיִת עַד עֵת קֵץ, שֶׁעֵשָׂו בְּמַעֲלָה גְּדוֹלָה וְאֵין מַעֲלַת יִשְׂרָאֵל נִכֶּרֶת לְפָנָיו, וְהוּא שֶׁרָמַז בְּאָמְרוֹ אַרְצָה שֵׂעִיר בְּפַתָּ״ח תַּחַת הָאָלֶ״ף לְהַרְאוֹת מַדְרֵגָה עֶלְיוֹנָה. וְהַשְּׁלִישִׁי בַּיָּמִים הַמְקֻוִּים לָנוּ שֶׁתִּהְיֶה אֱדוֹם יְרֻשָּׁה, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ שְׂדֵה אֱדוֹם כְּשָׂדֶה תֵּחָרֵשׁ.
This verse may also be understood as alluding to three different historical periods during each of which Esau's conduct would be different. One period finds Jacob and Esau in a brotherly relationship. This is alluded to by the words: "to Esau his brother." This period would extend until the destruction of the Holy Temple. Even though there were times prior to that when the Edomites were subjugated by Israel, such periods were relatively brief. During a different period in history, after the destruction of the Holy Temple until the end of the present era (before the advent of the Messiah), Esau would occupy a lofty position on earth and Israel would not even be considered by it as of any importance at all. This is the period which is alluded to here by the words ארצה שעיר, with the vowel patach under the letter א. This vowel underlines the superior position of Esau. The third period is the one we are hoping for when Edom will become an inheritance (for the Jewish people). This period is alluded to by the words שדה אדום, i.e. that Edom will be ploughed over as predicted by the prophet.
וַיְצַו אוֹתָם לֵאמֹר. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת לָמָּה הֻצְרַךְ לוֹמַר לֵאמֹר אַחַר שֶׁאָמַר ״כֹּה תֹאמְרוּן לְעֵשָׂו״. וְאוּלַי שֶׁיְּכַוֵּן לוֹמַר שֶׁיֹּאמְרוּ אֵלָיו שֶׁהוּא צִוָּה לוֹמַר אֵלָיו בַּסֵּדֶר הַזֶּה, שֶׁזּוּלַת זֶה יַחְשׁוֹב כִּי הַשְּׁלוּחִים הֵם הָאוֹמְרִים בְּנֹסַח זֶה לְחָשְׁבָם כִּי הוּא הַבְּכוֹר בִּבְכוֹרָתוֹ וּמִן הַמּוּסָר לְדַבֵּר כֵּן, וְלֹא יָצְאוּ הַדְּבָרִים מִפִּי יַעֲקֹב, לָזֶה צִוָּה אֲלֵיהֶם שֶׁיֹּאמְרוּ כִּי הוּא אָמַר כַּדְּבָרִים הָאֵלֶּה, וּקְרָאוֹ אָדוֹן עָלָיו שֶׁבָּזֶה יָסִיר קִנְאָה וְשִׂנְאָה. וּבָזֶה נָחָה דַּעְתִּי לָמָּה יַזְכִּיר יַעֲקֹב עֵשָׂו בְּשֵׁם אָדוֹן שֶׁלֹּא בְּפָנָיו, יַגְדִּיל עָלָיו חֵלֶק הָרַע חָס וְשָׁלוֹם, וּלְפִי מַה שֶׁכָּתַבְתִּי הֵם דְּבָרִים הַנֶּאֱמָרִים לְעֵשָׂו הֶחֱנִיף לָרָשָׁע כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא יִכָּנֵס עִמּוֹ בְּמִלְחָמָה.
ויצו אותם לאמור, He instructed them to say, etc. We must first understand the reason for the word לאמור, seeing that Jacob had already said to these messengers: "thus you shall say." Perhaps Jacob meant that they should tell Esau that they had been instructed to say precisely the words they were about to say. Otherwise, Esau might form the impression that the messengers related to him with deference and called him "his master," being aware that he was the senior brother and that it was only common courtesy to address him in that fashion, but that Jacob himself had never uttered the word אדון in relation to his brother. Jacob wanted to be sure that Esau realised that he himself had addressed him as אדון, master. He did so in order to remove any vestige of hatred and jealousy Esau might still, harbour against him in his heart. Were this not the true reason it is difficult to understand why Jacob should refer to Esau as his master even while Esau was not present. We must conclude therefore that Jacob used this term of flattery in order to avoid a possible war between himself and Esau.
עִם לָבָן גַּרְתִּי וְגוֹ׳. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת מַה מוֹדִיעַ בָּזֶה, גַּם מַה מוֹדִיעַ בְּכָל מַאֲמַר הַשְּׁלִיחוּת. וְאוּלַי כִּי מִדֶּרֶךְ שְׁנֵי אַחִים אֲשֶׁר נֶאֱמָנִים הֵם בְּאַהֲבָתָם, לְהוֹדִיעַ הָאָח לְאָחִיו אֶת כָּל אֲשֶׁר יַעֲבֹר עָלָיו מֵהַטּוֹבוֹת גַּם מֵהָרָעוֹת, כִּי זֶה יַגִּיד קֻרְבַת הַלְּבָבוֹת. וְלָזֶה סִפֵּר יַעֲקֹב כָּל מוֹצְאוֹתָיו טוֹבוֹת וְרָעוֹת, לִמְצֹא חֵן בְּעֵינָיו כְּשֶׁיֵּדַע כִּי מַאֲמִין בּוֹ וְנֶאֱמָן אַחֲוָתוֹ.
עם לבן גרתי, "I have sojourned with Laban, etc." What precisely did Jacob tell Esau in this speech that Esau had not known? Perhaps it is the custom between brothers who are on good terms with one another to exchange details about their experiences in life. Jacob may have done so in order to show that he considered himself on good terms with Esau.
עוֹד נִתְחַכֵּם בִּשְׁלִיחוּת זֶה לְהוֹדִיעוֹ כִּי אֵין רָאוּי לְהַרְחִיקוֹ, וְצֵא וּלְמַד עִם לָבָן גַּרְתִּי – וְיָדוּעַ הָיָה לָבָן בְּהַפְלָגַת הָרֶשַׁע וְהָרַמָּאוּת, וְאֵין אָדָם דָּר עִם נָחָשׁ, וְאַף עַל פִּי כֵן גָּר עִמּוֹ יַעֲקֹב, וְזֶה לְךָ הָאוֹת הַפְלָגַת מַעֲשָׂיו הַנְּכוֹנִים, וְרָאוּי וְנָכוֹן לְקָרְבוֹ וּלְאָהֳבוֹ וּלְחַבְּבוֹ. וְלֹא תֹּאמַר שֶׁזֶּה הָיָה בִּזְמַן מוּעָט אֶלָּא וָאֵחַר עַד עָתָּה, וְלֹא תֹּאמַר שֶׁהָיָה פָּחוּת, עֶבֶד לוֹ שֶׁלֹּא הָיָה שָׁוֶה נְהוֹם כְּרֵסֵיהּ, לָזֶה אָמַר וַיְהִי לִי שׁוֹר וְגוֹ׳, וְאַף עַל פִּי כֵן הִנְנִי מַזְמִין עַצְמִי לְעֶבֶד לְךָ וְקִנְיָנַי קִנְיָנֶיךָ, וּדְבָרִים אֵלּוּ יַתִּיכוּ לֵב אֶבֶן.
In addition Jacob may have acted very cleverly by implying that there was no point in Esau behaving in a hostile manner, that Laban had already tried this for many years and it had not benefited him at all. The words: עם לבן גרתי were a veiled reference to the wickedness of that man. If he, Jacob, after so many years in the house of that man returned now as a wealthy man with a large family this was proof that it paid to be on good terms with a man such as he. He added: ואחר עד עתה, I delayed my return until now, meaning that all of his wealth had not been acquired in a short period of time but that his success had been ongoing. When he added that he had acquired a substantial amount of wealth, he intimated that his wealth notwithstanding he described himself as junior, as "a servant" to his older brother. His words were designed to melt even a heart of stone.
וַיָּשׁוּבוּ הַמַּלְאָכִים. פֵּירוּשׁ: הֵשִׁיבוּהוּ תְּשׁוּבָה וְאָמְרוּ לוֹ בָּאנוּ אֶל אָחִיךָ, פֵּרוּשׁ, הוּא מַרְאֶה פָּנִים הֱיוֹת אָחִיךָ, וּכְפִי הָאֱמֶת הוּא עֵשָׂו הָרָשׁוּם בְּשִׂנְאָה, וְגַם הוֹלֵךְ לִקְרָאתְךָ וְגוֹ׳, פֵּירוּשׁ, הוֹלֵךְ לִקְרָאתְךָ בְּדֶרֶךְ אַחְוָה וְאַרְבַּע מֵאוֹת אִישׁ עִמּוֹ לְמַחְשָׁבָה רָעָה.
וישבו המלאכים, The messengers returned, etc. The meaning is that they brought back a reply and said "we have come to your brother, to Esau, etc." i.e. he presented himself as your brother, whereas in actual fact he has remained Esau. "He is also coming to meet you," i.e. as a brother, but since he has taken four hundred armed men with him this is proof of his evil intentions against you.
עוֹד יִרְצֶה בָּאנוּ אֶל אָחִיךָ בְּהוֹרָאַת פָּנִים צְהוּבוֹת, וְהֶרְאֵינוּ לוֹ גַּם כֵּן פָּנִים שֶׁל זַעַם לְצַד הֱיוֹתוֹ כְּפִי הָאֱמֶת עֵשָׂו בְּלֹא אַחְוָה, וְהוּא עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה פרק ע״ה) שֶׁהֶרְאָהוּ מַחֲנוֹת רוֹכְבֵי אֵשׁ וְכוּ׳ לְהַפְחִידוֹ אִם לֹא יִתְנַהֵג בְּמִדַּת הָאַחְוָה. וְטַעַם שֶׁלֹּא הֶחְלִיטוּ הַשְּׁלִיחוּת בְּאֹפֶן אֶחָד, לְצַד שֶׁהָיָה מַרְאֶה בְּפָנָיו אַחְוָה וּלְבָבוֹ לֹא כֵן יְדַמֶּה, לָזֶה עָשׂוּ שְׁנֵי אָפְנֵי שְׁלִיחוּת אִם לְטוֹב אִם וְכוּ׳:
The words "we have come to your brother" may also mean that although he has met us with a happy face i.e. displaying brotherliness, we displayed anger ourselves seeing that he has remained Esau true to form. This is what the Midrash we have quoted meant when it described the messengers as appearing garbed in fiery garments riding on fiery horses. The reason the messengers did not bring back a definitive evaluation was because outwardly Esau displayed brotherliness whereas in his heart he was still the same old Esau, hating Jacob.
וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב וַיֹּאמֶר וְגוֹ׳. פֵּירוּשׁ: נִכְנַס בְּגֶדֶר לַהֲרוֹג אוֹ לֵיהָרֵג, לָזֶה כְּנֶגֶד לֵיהָרֵג יָרֵא מְאֹד, וּכְנֶגֶד לַהֲרוֹג וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ, וְלָזֶה לֹא אָמַר הַכָּתוּב מְאֹד אַחַר ״וַיֵּצֶר״.
ויירא יעקב, Jacob was afraid, etc. He prepared himself to either kill or be killed. He was very afraid of being killed; he was pained by the possible need to kill Easu in self-defence. This is why the verse mentions מאד, very much, in connection with this fear.
עוֹד יִרְצֶה כִּי לְצַד שֶׁהוֹדִיעוּהוּ כִּי עֵשָׂו מַעֲרִים לְהַרְאוֹת אַחְוָה וְהוּא שׂוֹנֵא, יָרֵא יַעֲקֹב שֶׁלֹּא לְהָכִין עַצְמוֹ לַמִּלְחָמָה, שֶׁמָּא עֵשָׂו יַהַרְגֵהוּ וְאֵין בְּיָדוֹ שֶׁל יַעֲקֹב כְּלֵי קְרָב, וּלְהָכִין עַצְמוֹ בִּכְלֵי קְרָב וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ כִּי אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁלֹּא יַעֲשֶׂה עֵשָׂו רָעָה וּכְשֶׁיִּרְאֵהוּ מוּכָן בִּכְלֵי קְרָב יֹאמַר עֵשָׂו, הֲלֹא יַעֲקֹב הוּא דּוֹרֵשׁ רָעָה וּבָזֶה יְחַדֵּשׁ שִׂנְאָתוֹ. וְלָזֶה נִתְחַכֵּם וַיַּחַץ וְגוֹ׳ פֵּרוּשׁ חָצָה הָעָם: חֲצִי הָרִאשׁוֹן מַרְאִים פְּנֵי אַהֲבָה וְחִבָּה כְּאָח לְאָחִיו, וַחֲצִי מַחֲנֵהוּ מוּכָן וּמְזֻיָּן:
Inasmuch as the angels had warned him of Esau's duplicity, that he would pretend to be brotherly, Jacob was afraid not to prepare himself for war in the event Esau planned to kill him while he was unarmed. On the other hand "it distressed him" that the very fact that their encounter would be an armed one might precipitate a war which Esau had not really intended until he saw Jacob armed. His hatred would be rekindled only because he presumed that Jacob confronted him in a fighting stance when he looked at his weapons. As a result of such considerations Jacob divided his camp; the first camp would display friendliness whereas the second camp would be armed and ready for battle.
וַיֹּאמֶר אִם יָבֹא וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ: אִם יָבֹא עֵשָׂו בְּמִלְחָמָה וְהִכָּה מַחֲנֶה הָרִאשׁוֹן, יִהְיֶה מַחֲנֶה שֵׁנִי שֶׁהֵכִין לְמִלְחָמָה לִפְלֵיטָה. כְּשֶׁיַּתְחִיל הוּא וְיִרְאֶה כִּי הוּא שׂוֹנֵא, יִהְיֶה וַדַּאי מַחֲנֶה הַפָּלִיט שֶׁהֵכִין בִּכְלֵי זַיִן וִיפַלֵּט עַצְמוֹ, וְאוּלַי שֶׁגַּם מַחֲנֶה הָרִאשׁוֹן יִמָּלֵט לְבַל יְכַלֵּהוּ. וְהַכֹּל עָשָׂה יַעֲקֹב בְּהִתְבּוֹנְנוּת לְבַל יִצְטָרֵךְ לְנֵס וַה׳ יִגְמֹר בַּעֲדוֹ.
ויאמר אם יבא עשו, He said: "If Esau were to come to the one camp, etc." In the event Esau would come upon the first camp and defeat it, the second camp which he had prepared for battle would help even the first camp not to be annihilated since as soon as Esau's hostile intentions were obvious the second camp would engage him. Jacob did all this in order to save G'd the trouble of performing a miracle.
קָטֹנְתִּי וְגוֹ׳. אָמְרוֹ מִכֹּל הַחֲסָדִים וְאַחַר כָּךְ מִכָּל הָאֱמֶת, וּמִן הָרָאוּי הָיָה לוֹ לְהַקְדִּים הָאֱמֶת וְאַחַר כָּךְ הַחֶסֶד שֶׁהוּא לִפְנִים מִשּׁוּרַת הַדִּין, נִתְכַּוֵּן לוֹמַר שֶׁחֶסֶד אֵל אֵין כֹּחַ בָּאָדָם לְשַׁלֵּם לְאֵל עֶלְיוֹן, וְאֵלָיו יִקָּרֵא אֱמֶת כִּי אֵין לוֹ תַּשְׁלוּם מֵאָדָם, כְּאָמְרוֹ (איוב לה:ז) ״אִם צָדַקְתָּ מַה תִּתֶּן לוֹ״, וּכְפִי זֶה יִקָּרֵא חֶסֶד שֶׁל אֱמֶת עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה צו:ה) חֶסֶד הֶעָשׂוּי עִם הַמֵּתִים קָרוּי שֶׁל אֱמֶת.
קטונתי מכל החסדים, "I am not worthy of all the kindnesses, etc." Jacob first mentioned חסדים, kindness, and then אמת, divine assistance, which he felt he had qualified for. Actually, Jacob should have mentioned the אמת before mentioning the חסדים, something he was not even entitled to. He mentioned the חסדים first because they are something that it is impossible for man to repay to G'd. He called it אמת because man is incapable of requiting these acts of kindness. We know this from Job 35,7: אם צדקת מה תתן לו, "even assuming that you were righteous, what can you possibly give to Him?" This is why services rendered for the dead are called חסד של אמת, seeing that the dead cannot repay us (Bereshit Rabbah 96,5).
עוֹד יְכַוֵּן לוֹמַר שְׁנֵי פְּרָטֵי הַטָּבָה: הָאֶחָד הַחֶסֶד שֶׁנִּתְחַסֵּד עִמּוֹ ה׳ בְּרוֹב טוֹב, וְהַשֵּׁנִי שֶׁהֶעֱמִידוֹ בְּיָדוֹ וְלֹא נְתָנוֹ לְלָבָן לְגָזְלוֹ וּלְחָמְסוֹ וְשָׁמַר לוֹ הָאֱמֶת, פֵּרוּשׁ שֶׁהֶעֱמִיד בְּיָדוֹ אֶת הַחֶסֶד. וְיֵשׁ לְךָ לָדַעַת כִּי לִפְעָמִים יִתְחַסֵּד ה׳ עִם אָדָם וְיִהְיֶה נִגְזָל מֵהַזּוּלַת לִהְיוֹת בְּחִירִי, וְה׳ יָשׁוּב יְרַחֲמֵהוּ תְּמוּרַת הַנֶּחְסָר, וְהִנֵּה מְצִיאוּת זֶה הוּא חֲצִי נֶחָמָה לַנִּגְזָל וְלֹא נֶחָמָה שְׁלֵמָה, כִּי תָּמִיד חוֹשֵׁב בְּחֶסְרוֹנוֹ אֲשֶׁר גְּזָלוֹ הַגַּזְלָן לִשְׁתֵּי סִבּוֹת: הָאַחַת שֶׁיַּחְשׁוֹב כִּי אִם לֹא הָיָה גּוֹזְלוֹ הָיָה לוֹ לְתוֹסֶפֶת הַגָּזוּל וְהַנּוֹסָף, וְהַשֵּׁנִי עַל כָּל פָּנִים יִכְאַב לִבּוֹ עַל הַגַּזְלָן אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה וְהִצְלִיחַ. מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן אִם יַעֲשֶׂה ה׳ הַשְׁלָמַת הַגְּזֵלָה מֵהַגַּזְלָן עַצְמוֹ שֶׁיּוֹצִיא בָּלְעוֹ מִפִּיו, נֶחָמָה זוֹ נֶחָמָה. וְהוּא מַה שֶׁעָשָׂה לְיַעֲקֹב שֶׁהָיָה מְשַׁלֵּם לוֹ מִנִּכְסֵי גַּזְלָן עַצְמוֹ הוּא לָבָן, דִּכְתִיב (בראשית לא:ט) ״וַיַּצֵּל ה׳ אֶת מִקְנֵה אֲבִיכֶם וַיִּתֵּן לִי״, שֶׁהָיָה מוֹצִיא בָּלְעוֹ שֶׁל לָבָן מִפִּיו וּמַחְזִיר מָמוֹנוֹ שֶׁל יַעֲקֹב, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וּמִכָּל הָאֱמֶת, וְנָכוֹן.
Jacob also wanted to mention separately two kinds of favours that G'd had done for him. The first was the kindness that He displayed for him by providing Jacob with an abundance of material wealth. The second was the fact that G'd had enabled Jacob to hold on to his gains and that G'd did not allow Laban to steal them from him forcibly and thereby displayed His truth. You must appreciate that there are occasions when G'd does show a person kindness whereas that person is subsequently deprived of his gains by outsiders exercising their free will. G'd in turn compensates the person who has suffered such a robbery. In such instances the person in question has experienced partial comfort only. He would have felt much better if he had not been robbed of what G'd had granted him in the first place. He will never forget that he had once become the victim of a robbery. He will imagine that if he had not been robbed he would now be still better off, not realising that G'd had only compensated him for what he had been robbed of. Secondly, the fact that G'd did not interfere with the robber will continue to bother such a person. He would have felt completely at ease had G'd restored to him the very goods the robber had taken. Jacob had experienced this latter kind of personal supervision by G'd as we know from 31,9, where Jacob described how G'd had saved his cattle from Laban and restored them to him. When Jacob spoke about "all of G'd's truth," this is the kind of interference by G'd which he had in mind.
הַצִּילֵנִי נָא. אָמְרוֹ ״נָא״ לְשׁוֹן בַּקָּשָׁה גַּם לְשׁוֹן עַתָּה, פֵּרוּשׁ, לְבַל יִפְרֹץ בּוֹ עֵשָׂו, וְיֹאמַר ה׳ כִּי הוּא יָשִׁיב כָּל אֲשֶׁר לוֹ לְמִשְׁנֶה, לָזֶה הִתְפַּלֵּל לִפְנֵי ה׳ שֶׁיַּצִּילֵהוּ וְיַעֲמִיד בְּיָדוֹ אֶת אֲשֶׁר הִגִּיעוֹ עַתָּה, וְלֹא תַעֲשֶׂנָה יָדָיו שֶׁל עֵשָׂו תּוּשִׁיָּה, הֲגַם שֶׁיָּשִׁיב ה׳ שְׁבוּתוֹ אַחֲרֵי כֵן.
הצילני נא, "Save me please!" He used the word נא, a combined form of "please" and "now." He pleaded with G'd not to allow Esau to cause him any losses instead of letting him recoup his losses later on.
מִיַּד אָחִי וְגוֹ׳. רַשִׁ״י זִכְרוֹנוֹ לִבְרָכָה פֵּרֵשׁ ״אָחִי״ שֶׁאֵינוֹ נוֹהֵג עִמִּי כְּאָח אֶלָּא כְּעֵשָׂו הָרָשָׁע, וְלִדְבָרָיו זִכְרוֹנוֹ לִבְרָכָה לֹא הָיָה לוֹ לוֹמַר אֶלָּא ״מִיַּד אָחִי עֵשָׂו״ וּמוּבָן הַדָּבָר מִיִּתּוּר אָמְרוֹ ״עֵשָׂו״ כִּי אֵין לוֹ אָח זוּלָתוֹ.
מיד אחי, מיד עשו, from my brother's hand, from Esau's hand. Rashi understands the word אחי as a plea that Esau should not treat him like a brother but rather as befitted the wicked Esau. According to this explanation Jacob should only have said מיד אחי עשו, and we would have understood the Torah's meaning from the otherwise superfluous "my brother," seeing that Esau was his only brother.
אָכֵן נִתְכַּוֵּן לְהִתְפַּלֵּל, לֶהֱיוֹת שֶׁהָיוּ לְעֵשָׂו שְׁתֵּי בְּחִינוֹת הַתֹּקֶף: הָאַחַת לְצַד זְכוּת יִצְחָק, וְהַשְּׁנִיָּה לְצַד גּוֹדֶל תָּקְפּוֹ וּמַעֲלָתוֹ, וְצָרִיךְ חוֹזֶק גָּדוֹל לְהִנָּצֵל מִמֶּנּוּ. לָזֶה הִתְפַּלֵּל שֶׁלֹּא תַּעֲמוֹד לוֹ זְכוּת אָבוֹת. וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ הַצִּילֵנִי נָא מִיַּד אָחִי, הֲגַם שֶׁאָח עֵשָׂו לְיַעֲקֹב וְאַף עַל פִּי כֵן אֲנִי מִתְפַּלֵּל, וּכְנֶגֶד בְּחִינַת גּוֹדֶל תָּקְפּוֹ אָמַר מִיַּד עֵשָׂו, וְיָדוּעַ הוּא בְּנִשָּׂא וְרָם.
I believe therefore that the correct meaning is that Jacob prayed and addressed himself to the fact that there were two facets to Esau's character. On the one hand Esau was a son of Isaac and Isaac's merits would assist him. On the other hand, he was a person in his own right, a very powerful person at that; it would require great strength to be saved from attack by such a person. Jacob therefore prayed to G'd that Isaac's merit should not now assist him; this is what he meant by "save me please from the hands of my brother," i.e. although he is my brother. Concerning Esau's being a powerful adversary in his own right, Jacob prayed "please save me from Esau!"
עוֹד יְכַוֵּן לוֹמַר עַל זֶה הַדֶּרֶךְ: הַצִּילֵנִי נָא מִיַּד אָחִי – אִם יִתְחַכֵּם עָלָיו לְהָרַע בְּרַמָּאוּת אַחְוָה, שֶׁהוּא דֶּרֶךְ שֶׁאֵין יַעֲקֹב יָכוֹל לְהִנָּצֵל מִמֶּנּוּ, מִיַּד עֵשָׂו – אִם יְפַרְסֵם רִשְׁעוֹ לְהָרַע, גַּם לָזֶה הֻצְרַךְ לִתְפִלָּה לְהַצִּילוֹ מִיָּדוֹ.
Jacob also had in mind that if Esau were to use the fact that he was his brother as a trick to attack him after feigning brotherliness, G'd should save him from such machinations. He also needed G'd's help, however, if Esau proclaimed his hostility openly.
עוֹד יְכַוֵּן לְהַזְכִּיר רִשְׁעוּתוֹ שֶׁל עֵשָׂו: הָא׳ – מִיַּד אָחִי – וְהוּא מְבַקֵּשׁ לַהֲרֹג אֶת אָחִיו, הַאִם יֵשׁ רָשָׁע כָּזֶה, וְיֵשׁ בַּדִּין לְהַשְׁפִּילוֹ לִפְנֵי יַעֲקֹב. וְעוֹד – מִיַּד עֵשָׂו – שֶׁמְּפֻרְסָם בְּרֶשַׁע לְבַד מֵעָוֹן זֶה, וְלֹא יִמּוֹט צַדִּיק לִפְנֵי רָשָׁע.
Jacob also drew G'd's attention to the enormity of Esau's crime if he were to try and murder his own brother, מיד אחי; surely the mere thought of committing such a heinous crime should provide sufficient excuse for G'd to humble Esau; on the other hand, Esau's wickedness (without considering the fact that in this case he set out to murder a brother) was sufficient to warrant G'd's intervention on behalf of Jacob.
עִזִּים מָאתַיִם וְגוֹ׳. שָׁמַעְתִּי מִמּוֹרִי זְקֵנִי זֵכֶר צַדִּיק וְקָדוֹשׁ לִבְרָכָה, שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן יַעֲקֹב בְּחֶשְׁבּוֹן שֶׁשָּׁלַח מִבַּעֲלֵי חַיִּים כְּחֶשְׁבּוֹן שֵׂעִיר שֶׁעוֹלֶה בּוֹ תק״ף, וְלָזֶה שָׁלַח בְּחֶשְׁבּוֹן עִזִּים וּרְחֵלִים ת״מ וּגְמַלִּים שְׁלֹשִׁים עִם בְּנֵיהֶם הֵם שִׁשִּׁים, הֲרֵי ת״ק, פָּרוֹת וּפָרִים חֲמִשִּׁים, אֲתוֹנוֹת וַעֲיָרִים שְׁלֹשִׁים הֲרֵי תק״ף, לִשְׁבֹּר תָּקְפּוֹ.
עזים מאחים, two hundred goats, etc. I have heard from my grandfather of blessed memory that Jacob intended that the total number of animals he sent as a gift to Esau should correspond to the numeriacl value of the letters in the word שעיר (580). Therefore he sent a total of 440 sheep and goats, thirty camels plus a young one each, i.e. a total of 60 camels. Add to this the forty cows and ten bulls, the twenty she-asses and ten donkeys, and you have a total of 580. The word שעיר symbolises Esau's power; the animals Jacob sent him as a gift were supposed to neutralise that power.
וַיְצַו אֶת וְגוֹ׳ לֵאמֹר. אָמְרוֹ לֵאמֹר לְלֹא צֹרֶךְ, פֵּירוּשׁ, הֲגַם שֶׁלֹּא יִשְׁאַל בְּנוֹסַח זֶה, אֶלָּא שֶׁיֹּאמַר הַשְּׁאֵלָה בְּלָשׁוֹן שֶׁיִּהְיֶה מוּבָן מִמֶּנּוּ שֶׁשּׁוֹאֵל כֵּן.
ויצו את הראשון לאמור, He instructed the first one (messenger) to say, etc. The apparently superfluous word לאמו was that even if Esau were not to phrase his enquiry in exactly the words Jacob assumed he would, he would no doubt use words to that effect.
אוֹ יֹאמַר שֶׁיִּתְחַיְּבוּ לְהָשִׁיב הֲגַם שֶׁלֹּא תִּהְיֶה הַשְּׁאֵלָה מִפֶּה אֶל פֶּה אֲלֵיהֶם, אֶלָּא שֶׁיִּשְׁאַל הוּא לְזוּלַת וְהַזּוּלַת יִשְׁאַל אוֹתָם, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ ״וּשְׁאֵלְךָ״ הוּא, אוֹ שֶׁיֹּאמַר לִשְׁאוֹל אוֹתְךָ. אוֹ עַל זֶה הַדֶּרֶךְ, ״וּשְׁאֵלְךָ״ וְתִהְיֶה הַשְּׁאֵלָה לְזוּלַת לֵאמֹר לְךָ.
Jacob may also have used the word לאמור to tell his messengers to use exactly this formula even if they would not be asked directly by Esau but by some intermediary. He added the word ושאלך, "and if he will ask you," to indicate that such a question might be addressed to the messenger second hand, not by Esau himself.
וְאָמַרְתָּ לְעַבְדְּךָ וְגוֹ׳. פֵּירוּשׁ: כְּנֶגֶד אָמְרוֹ ״לְמִי אַתָּה״ – תְּשׁוּבָה שֶׁל ״עַבְדְּךָ יַעֲקֹב״, כְּנֶגֶד ״וְאָנָה תֵלֵךְ״ – לְהוֹלִיךְ מִנְחָה, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ ״מִנְחָה שְׁלוּחָה״, וּכְנֶגֶד ״וּלְמִי״ – ״לַאדֹנִי לְעֵשָׂו״.
ואמרת לעבדך ליעקב, you will say: "to your servant, to Jacob." This means that the appropriate answer to the question: "who do you belong to?" would be: "to your servant Jacob;" the appropriate reply to the question: "where are you headed for?" is "to bring a gift which has been despatched." The appropriate answer to the question: "who is the gift for?" is "for my lord, for Esau."
וַאֲמַרְתֶּם וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ: טַעַם שֶׁהִנֵּה הוּא אַחֲרֵינוּ וְלֹא קוֹדֶם וְלֹא עִמָּנוּ, ״כִּי אָמַר אֲכַפְּרָה״ וְגוֹ׳ קוֹדֶם, וְאַחַר כָּךְ אֶרְאֶה פָנָיו.
ואמרתם גם הנה עבדך יעקב אחרנו, you will say: "your servant Jacob is also following behind us." The messengers explained why Jacob neither preceded nor accompanied them. The reason was simply that Jacob wanted to appease Esau's anger so that the latter would receive him in a good frame of mind.
לֹא אֲשַׁלֵּחֲךָ וְגוֹ׳. זֶה הוּא שֶׁאָמַר ״כִּי שָׂרִיתָ וְגוֹ׳ וַתּוּכָל״, כִּי מָשַׁל בּוֹ וְלֹא הָיָה הַמַּלְאָךְ יָכוֹל לַהֲלוֹךְ זוּלַת רְצוֹנוֹ. וְאָמְרוֹ כִּי אִם בֵּרַכְתָּנִי פֵּרוּשׁ שֶׁלֹּא יוּזַּק מִתְּקִיעַת יְרֵכוֹ. אוֹ לְצַד שֶׁהִכִּיר בּוֹ הֱיוֹתוֹ מַלְאָךְ הִשְׁתַּדֵּל שֶׁיְּבָרְכֵהוּ.
לא אשלחך, "I will not let you depart, etc." When the angel said to Jacob that he had struggled with a celestial being and had prevailed, he meant that he now could not depart without Jacob's permission. When Jacob said: "unless you bless me," he meant that he would assure him that the injury he caused to Jacob's hip-joint would not be permanent. It is also possible that the mere fact that Jacob now realised he had wrestled with an angel prompted him to ask for a blessing from that angel.
הַגִּידָה נָּא שְׁמֶךָ. לֶהֱיוֹת שֶׁיַּעֲקֹב יוֹדֵעַ הוּא שֶׁאֵין שֵׁם קָבוּעַ לַמַּלְאָךְ, וְשָׁאַל לַמַּלְאָךְ שְׁמוֹ, וּפֵרֵשׁ כִּי שׁוֹאֲלוֹ עַל שְׁמוֹ אָז בְּאוֹתָהּ שָׁעָה, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ הַגִּידָה נָּא שְׁמֶךָ פֵּירוּשׁ: עַתָּה מַה שְׁמֶךָ.
הגידה נא שמך, "please tell me your name!" Although Jacob was aware that angels do not have fixed names, he asked him what this particular angel's name was at this particular time.
לָמָּה זֶּה תִּשְׁאַל וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ, בִּשְׁלָמָא מַה שֶׁשָּׁאַל הַמַּלְאָךְ שְׁמוֹ שֶׁל יַעֲקֹב הוּא לְטַעַם מַה שֶׁאָמַר לוֹ ״לֹא יַעֲקֹב וְגוֹ׳ כִּי אִם יִשְׂרָאֵל״, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן שְׁאֵלָה זוֹ שֶׁל יַעֲקֹב לָמָּה, אִם לוֹמַר לוֹ דָּבָר יֹאמַר אֵלָיו וּבְלֹא סִבַּת שְׁאֵלַת עִנְיָן זֶה. אוֹ יִרְצֶה לָמָּה פֵּרוּשׁ, לְאֵיזֶה עִנְיָן אַתָּה שׁוֹאֵל דָּבָר זֶה שֶׁאוֹדִיעֲךָ שְׁמִי שֶׁאֲנִי נִקְרָא בּוֹ עַתָּה, כֵּיוָן שֶׁאֵין זֶה שֵׁם קָבוּעַ וּבְעֵת אַחֵר יִצְטָרֵךְ לִשְׁאוֹל לִשְׁמִי.
למה זה תשאל לשמי, "Why do you ask after my name?" Whereas it made sense that the angel asked Jacob's name seeing he intended to change it to Israel, or at least, to inform him of that impending change. Jacob's asking the angel for his name did not have such a purpose, however. The angel therefore wanted to know the reason for Jacob's enquiry. The angel may also simply have hinted that there was no point in asking him his present name as it was apt to be changed as soon as he had accomplished his present mission. He would only have to ask him again for his name on a future occasion.
פָּנִים אֶל פָּנִים וְגוֹ׳. טַעַם הַתְּמִיהָה – לֹא שֶׁרָאָה מַלְאָךְ, וַהֲלֹא נִגְלָה אֵלָיו קֹדֶם הָאֱלֹהִים, אֶלָּא שֶׁלָּחַם עִם הַמַּלְאָךְ, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ ״פָּנִים אֶל פָּנִים״ לְשׁוֹן מִלְחָמָה, עַל דֶּרֶךְ אָמְרוֹ (מלכים ב יד:ח) ״נִתְרָאֶה פָנִים״.
פנים אל פנים, face to face. Jacob's amazement was not due to the fact that he had had an encounter with an angel; he had previously encountered angels. What amazed him was that he had been in a confrontation with an angel. The word פנים אל פנים is a term used in warfare as we know from Kings II 14,8.
כַּאֲשֶׁר עָבַר אֶת פְּנוּאֵל. אוּלַי כִּי לֹא יִקְרָא שֵׁם הַמָּקוֹם פְּנִיאֵל אֶלָּא יַעֲקֹב לְבַד, אֲבָל כֹּל חוּץ מִמֶּנּוּ וַאֲפִלּוּ דְּבַר תּוֹרָה תִּקְרָאֵהוּ פְּנוּאֵל, וְכֵן נִקְרָא בְּשׁוֹפְטִים (ח:ח).
כאשר עבר את פנואל, as he passed Pnu-el. Perhaps Jacob was the only one who called that place Pni-el instead of Pnu-el. We find the name Pnue-el also in Judges 8.
עַל כֵּן לֹא יֹאכְלוּ וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ: לְצַד שֶׁנִּזְדַּעְזַע הַגִּיד מִמְּקוֹר הַקְּדֻשָּׁה וְשָׁלַט בּוֹ הַקְּלִפָּה, בְּחִינָה זוֹ בְּכָל מָקוֹם שֶׁהִיא נִטְמְאָה, וַאֲסָרָהּ הַבּוֹרֵא כִּי הוּא הַיּוֹדֵעַ. וְתִמְצָא סוֹד בָּזֶה כִּי גִּיד זֶה אֵין בּוֹ טַעַם, וְהוּא סִימָן לִבְחִינַת הַקְּלִפָּה, כִּי אֵין בָּהּ טַעַם כֵּיוָן שֶׁנֶּעֶקְרָה קְדֻשָּׁה מִמֶּנּוּ. וְיֵשׁ בָּזֶה פְּשָׁטִים לוֹמַר, אֶלָּא שֶׁהָעִקָּר כְּמוֹ שֶׁכָּתַבְתִּי.
על כן לא יאכלו בני ישראל את גיד הנשה. This is why the children of Israel do not eat the disjointed sinew, etc. This sinew was dislocated from its holy origin and became subject to dominance by the קליפה ["external forces" in the scheme of the emanations, Ed.]. G'd forbade anything which has thus become defiled wherever it appears. There is a mystical element in this. This sinew does not have a taste, an allusion to its originating in the "external forces." The reason is that it had been uprooted from a holier source.