Ramban on Genesis Chapter 38
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בַּת אִישׁ כְּנַעֲנִי אָמַר אוּנְקְלוֹס (תרגום אונקלוס על בראשית ל"ח:ב') "תַּגָּרָא", כְּלוֹמַר אִישׁ סוֹחֵר שֶׁבָּא לָגוּר בָּאָרֶץ בִּסְחוֹרָתוֹ. וְדַעְתּוֹ לוֹמַר כִּי בְּנֵי יַעֲקֹב יִשְׁתַּמְּרוּ מִלִּשָּׂא כְּנַעֲנִיּוֹת כַּאֲשֶׁר צִוָּה אֲבִיהֶם יִצְחָק גַּם אַבְרָהָם, וְכֵן הִזְכִּירוּ בַּגְּמָרָא בְּמַסֶּכֶת פְּסָחִים (פסחים נ'). וְהָיוּ נְשֵׁיהֶם מִצְרִיּוֹת עַמּוֹנִיּוֹת מוֹאֲבִיּוֹת וּמְיֻחֲסֵי בְּנֵי יִשְׁמָעֵאל וּבְנֵי קְטוּרָה. וּלְכָךְ יִחֵד הַכָּתוּב עַל שָׁאוּל בֶּן שִׁמְעוֹן (להלן מו י) "וְשָׁאוּל בֶּן הַכְּנַעֲנִית", כִּי הוּא לְבַדּוֹ בָּהֶם, וְגַם שָׁם דָּרְשׁוּ (ב"ר פ יא) שֶׁהִיא דִּינָה שֶׁנִּבְעֲלָה לִכְנַעֲנִי. וְרַבּוֹתֵינוּ (שם פד יט) נֶחְלְקוּ בַּדָּבָר, אָמְרוּ, רַבִּי יְהוּדָה אוֹמֵר תְּאוֹמוֹת נוֹלְדוּ עִם הַשְּׁבָטִים וּנְשָׂאוּם. רַבִּי נְחֶמְיָה אוֹמֵר, כְּנַעֲנִיּוֹת הָיוּ. וְיִתָּכֵן שֶׁלֹּא הִקְפִּיד רַבִּי נְחֶמְיָה בְּיִחוּסָן, שֶׁלֹּא נִתְכַּוֵּן אֶלָּא לוֹמַר שֶׁנָּשְׂאוּ מִנְּשֵׁי אֶרֶץ כְּנַעַן, אֲבָל הָיוּ מִן הַגֵּרִים וְהַתּוֹשָׁבִים הַבָּאִים מִכָּל הָאֲרָצוֹת, אוֹ עַמּוֹנִיּוֹת וּמוֹאֲבִיּוֹת וּמִיֶּתֶר הָעַמִּים, כִּי לֹא נִתְכַּוֵּן רַק לַחְלֹק עַל רַבִּי יְהוּדָה שֶׁלֹּא נָשְׂאוּ אַחְיוֹתֵיהֶם, שֶׁאֲחוֹתוֹ מִן הָאֵם אֲסוּרָה לִבְנֵי נֹחַ (סנהדרין נח). וּלְדַעַת רַבִּי יְהוּדָה יִצְטָרְכוּ בְּנֵי לֵאָה לָשֵׂאת תְּאוֹמוֹת שִׁשָּׁה הָאֲחֵרִים, וְהֵם יִשְׂאוּ שֶׁלָּהֶם, אוֹ שֶׁלֹּא יוֹדֶה ר' נְחֶמְיָה בַּתְּאוֹמוֹת כְּלָל, וְלֹא הָיְתָה לוֹ בַּת זוּלָתִי דִּינָה, כְּמַשְׁמָעוּת הַכָּתוּב. וְעַל דֶּרֶךְ סְבָרָא אֵינֶנּוּ נָכוֹן שֶׁיִּשְׂאוּ כֻּלָּם כְּנַעֲנִיּוֹת, שֶׁיִּהְיֶה בְּנוֹחֲלֵי הָאָרֶץ מִזֶּרַע כְּנַעַן הָעֶבֶד הָאָרוּר כְּמוֹ מִזַּרְעוֹ שֶׁל אַבְרָהָם, וְהַכָּתוּב צִוָּה לְהַחֲרִימוֹ וְלֹא תִּהְיֶה לוֹ שְׁאֵרִית וּפְלֵיטָה, וְעַל כָּל פָּנִים זֶה הָאִישׁ תַּגָּר, כִּי לָמָּה יִצְטָרֵךְ הַכָּתוּב לֵאמֹר כִּי הוּא כְּנַעֲנִי בְּיִחוּסוֹ וְכָל אַנְשֵׁי הָאָרֶץ הַהִיא כְּנַעֲנִים הֵם מִן הַפְּרִזִּי וּמִן הַיְבוּסִי וַאֲחֵיהֶם, כִּי לִכְנַעַן יִתְיַחֲסוּ כֻּלָּם, וַעֲדֻלָּם בְּאֶרֶץ כְּנַעַן הִיא, וְהָרָאוּי הָיָה שֶׁיֹּאמַר וַיִּקַּח שָׁם יְהוּדָה אִשָּׁה וּשְׁמָהּ כָּךְ, כַּאֲשֶׁר הִזְכִּיר שְׁמוֹת הַנָּשִׁים בְּתָמָר וּנְשֵׁי עֵשָׂו וְזוּלָתָן (לעיל ד יט יא כט כה א). אֲבָל פֵּרֵשׁ בּוֹ שֶׁהוּא תַּגָּר, שֶׁאֵינֶנּוּ מִן הָאָרֶץ שֶׁהָיְתָה לַחִוִּי אוֹ לָאֱמֹרִי. וְזֶה טַעַם "וַיַּרְא שָׁם יְהוּדָה בַּת אִישׁ כְּנַעֲנִי", כִּי בַּעֲבוּר אָבִיהָ נְשָׂאָהּ. וְהַכָּתוּב שֶׁאָמַר "בְּנֵי יְהוּדָה עֵר וְאוֹנָן וְשֵׁלָה שְׁלֹשָׁה נוֹלְדוּ לוֹ מִבַּת שׁוּעַ הַכְּנַעֲנִית" (דהי"א ב ג), בַּעֲבוּר הֱיוֹתָהּ בַּת אִישׁ הַכְּנַעֲנִי תִּקָּרֵא כֵן, כִּי הָאִישׁ הַהוּא יִקָּרֵא לָהֶם הַסּוֹחֵר, כִּי הוּא יָדוּעַ וּמֻבְהָק בִּסְחוֹרָתוֹ אֲשֶׁר בַּעֲבוּרָהּ גָּר שָׁם. וְרַבִּי אַבְרָהָם אָמַר (להלן מו י), כִּי בַּעֲבוּר הֱיוֹת הָאִשָּׁה הַזֹּאת כְּנַעֲנִית וְעָבַר עַל דַּעַת אֲבוֹתָיו, הָיוּ בָּנֶיהָ רָעִים וּמֵתוּ, וְלָכֵן הִזְכִּירוֹ הַכָּתוּב, וְשָׁאוּל לְבַדּוֹ הִזְכִּיר שֶׁהָיָה בֶּן הַכְּנַעֲנִית כִּי לֹא הֻצְרַךְ לְהַזְכִּיר כֵּן בְּשֵׁלָה. וְאִם כֵּן יִהְיֶה טַעַם "וַיַּרְא שָׁם יְהוּדָה", כְּלוֹמַר שֶׁרָאָה אוֹתָהּ וְחָשַׁק בָּהּ, כְּעִנְיַן "וַיַּרְא אִשָּׁה בְּתִמְנָתָה" דְּשִׁמְשׁוֹן (שופטים יד א), וּבְפָרָשַׁת וַיְחִי יַעֲקֹב (רש"י על בראשית נ':י"ג) כָּתַב רַשִׁ"י זַ"ל, "וַיִּשְׂאוּ אוֹתוֹ בָנָיו" וְלֹא בְּנֵי בָנָיו, שֶׁכָּךְ צִוָּם, אַל יִטְעֲנוּ בְּמִטָּתִי אֶחָד מִבְּנֵיכֶם לְפִי שֶׁהֵם מִבְּנוֹת כְּנַעַן (במדב"ר ב ח). וְיִהְיֶה זֶה לְפִי שֶׁשָּׁאוּל בֶּן שִׁמְעוֹן וְשֵׁלָה בֶּן יְהוּדָה הָיוּ מִבְּנוֹת כְּנַעַן, וְלָכֵן יוֹצִיא אֶת כֻּלָּם. אֲבָל בַּנֻּסְחָאוֹת שֶׁלָּנוּ בִּבְרֵאשִׁית רַבָּה מָצִינוּ בְּכֻלָּן, אֶחָד מִבְּנֵי בְּנֵיכֶם, שֶׁיֵּשׁ בָּהֶם מִבְּנוֹת כְּנַעַן. וְכֵן תָּמָר הָיְתָה בַּת אַחַת מִן הַגֵּרִים בָּאָרֶץ, לֹא בַּת אִישׁ כְּנַעֲנִי בְּיִחוּסוֹ, כִּי חָלִילָה שֶׁיִּהְיֶה אֲדוֹנֵנוּ דָּוִד וּמְשִׁיחַ צִדְקֵנוּ שֶׁיִּגָּלֶה לָנוּ בִּמְהֵרָה מִזֶּרַע כְּנַעַן הָעֶבֶד הַמְּקֻלָּל. וְרַבּוֹתֵינוּ אָמְרוּ (ב"ר פה י) בְּתָמָר שֶׁהָיְתָה בִּתּוֹ שֶׁל שֵׁם, וְהוּא כֹהֵן לְאֵל עֶלְיוֹן:
A DAUGHTER OF A CERTAIN CANAANITE. [In translating “Canaanite,” Onkelos said “merchant.” That is to say, a merchantman who came to dwell in the land of Canaan for business reasons. His intent is to say that Jacob’s sons guarded themselves from marrying Canaanitish women, as Isaac and Abraham, their fathers, had commanded.¹⁰⁷ And thus did the Sages mention in the Gemara of Tractate Pesachim.¹⁰⁸ They took as wives women from Egypt, Ammon, Moab, and from the noble families of the children of Ishmael and the sons of Keturah. It is for this reason that Scripture singles out Shaul, the son of Simeon, as the son of a Canaanitish woman,¹⁰⁹ as he was the only one among them. And even there the Rabbis expounded¹¹⁰ that the reference is to Dinah who had relations with a Canaanite [Shechem]. Our Rabbis, however, have differed in this matter. Thus they have said:¹¹¹, 84:19. “Rabbi Yehudah says, ‘Twin sisters were born with each of Jacob’s sons, and they took them as wives.’ Rabbi Nechemyah says, ‘Their wives were Canaanitish women.’” It is possible that Rabbi Nechemyah was not particular about [ the term “Canaanitish” and did not mean it to indicate] their genealogy. He meant to say only that they took women from the land of Canaan as wives. However, they were from among the strangers and the sojourners who had come there from all lands, either Ammonite or Moabite women, and other peoples. His purpose¹¹² was only to differ with Rabbi Yehudah and say that they did not marry their sisters, since a maternal sister is forbidden to the sons of Noah. But according to Rabbi Yehudah it will be necessary to say that the sons of Leah married the twin sisters of the six other brothers,¹¹³ (sons of Noah). Consequently they could marry a paternal sister but not a maternal sister. See Sanhedrin 58 a; Rambam, Hilchoth Melachim 9:5. and they in turn wed the twin sisters of the sons of Leah. It may be that Rabbi Nechemyah does not at all admit the existence of these twins, with Jacob not having any daughter other than Dinah, as the literal interpretation of Scripture would indicate. It is not logically correct to say that they all married Canaanitish women since there would then have been descendants of Canaan, the accursed servant, among those who inherited the land, just as there were representatives of the seed of Abraham, and Scripture has commanded that he be destroyed until neither remnant nor survivor remain. In any case,¹¹⁴ this man [the Canaanite referred to here] was a merchant, for why should Scripture find it necessary to state that he was a Canaanite by descent when all people of the land were Canaanites, of the Perizzites and Jebusites and their brothers, as all of these traced their genealogy to Canaan? Adullam, [from where this man came] furthermore, was in the land of Canaan.¹¹⁵ It would then have been proper for the verse to say: “And Judah took there a wife with such-and-such a name,” just as it mentions the names of the women in the case of Tamar, and Esau’s wives,¹¹⁶ and others. But the true explanation is that he was a merchant, not of the land of Canaan, which belonged to the Hivite or the Amorite. This then is the meaning of the verse: And Judah saw there a daughter of a certain Canaanite, implying that he married her on account of her father.¹¹⁷, meaning that he saw a man there who was not of the regular community. The word “Canaanite” must therefore mean merchant, for they were all Canaanites, and if “Canaanite” were to refer to his genealogy it would not be significant enough to be mentioned. And concerning the verse which states, The sons of Judah: Er, and Onan, and Shelah; which three were born unto him of Bath-shua the Canaanitess,¹¹⁸ this is due to the fact that being the daughter of the man called “the Canaanite,” she was also so called, since this man was called “the merchant” by them as he was known for, and expert in, his trade, on account of which he settled there. Rabbi Abraham ibn Ezra says¹¹⁹ that because this woman was a Canaanitess, and Judah had transgressed the opinion of his fathers, her children were evil and they died. And this is why concerning Shaul,¹⁰⁹ Scripture mentions only that he was the son of a Canaanitish woman, but with respect to Shelah the son of Judah it was not necessary for Scripture to mention it¹²⁰ [when enumerating the descendants of Jacob who entered Egypt]. If so,¹²¹ the expression, And Judah saw there a daughter, would mean that he saw her and desired her, even as it says of Samson, And he saw a woman in Timnah.¹²² And in the Parshah of Vayechi Yaakov, Rashi wrote: “And his sons bore him,¹²³ but not his sons’ sons. For thus indeed did Jacob command them; ‘My bier shall not be borne by any of your sons since they are children of Canaanitish women.’”¹²⁴ It may be that, according to Rashi, Jacob said this of Shaul the son of Simeon, and Shelah the son of Judah, who were of the daughters of Canaan, and therefore Jacob excluded all the other [grandsons although their mothers were not Canaanitish]. However, in all of our texts of Bereshith Rabbah¹²⁵ we find this version: “My bier shall not be borne by any of your sons’ sons, as there is among them of the daughters of Canaan.”¹²⁶ (46:10).” Thus it is clear from this Midrash that only Shaul was born of a Canaanitish woman, but not Shelah the son of Judah. Tamar likewise was the daughter of one of the strangers living in the land, not the daughter of a man who was a Canaanite by descent. Far be it that our lord David¹²⁷ and the Messiah our just one, who will speedily reveal himself to us, be of the seed of Canaan, the accursed servant. Our Rabbis have also said¹²⁸ concerning Tamar that she was the daughter of Shem, of whom it is said, And he was a priest of the most high G-d.¹²⁹
footnotes: ¹⁰⁷ Above, 28:1. 24:3. ¹⁰⁸ Pesachim 50a. ¹⁰⁹ Further, 46:10. ¹¹⁰ Bereshith Rabbah 80:10. ¹¹¹ Ibid. ¹¹² Ramban is pointing out that Rabbi Nechemyah agrees with the Talmudic sages who said that Jacob’s sons did not marry Canaanitish women. See Note 108. ¹¹³ This is because “the sons of Noah” were forbidden to marry a maternal sister. Prior to the giving of the Torah on Sinai, our ancestors had the status of b’nei Noach ¹¹⁴ I.e., whatever the correct opinion be in the matter discussed above. ¹¹⁵ In Joshua 12:15, the king of Adullam is mentioned among the kings of Canaan. Thus if the word “Canaanite” is to be understood literally, why should Scripture have even mentioned it? ¹¹⁶ Above, 26:34. ¹¹⁷ This is implied in the expression, And he saw there ¹¹⁸ I Chronicles 2:3. This would seem to indicate that she was indeed a Canaanitess. ¹¹⁹ In his commentary on Genesis 46:10. ¹⁰⁹ Further, 46:10. ¹²⁰ Since it is so stated in this present chapter. Shaul, on the other hand, was not mentioned above. Hence in mentioning the seventy souls, it states that he was of a Canaanitish woman (46:10). These are the words of Ibn Ezra, and Ramban now proceeds to comment upon them. ¹²¹ If Judah, according to Ibn Ezra, went against the command of Abraham and Isaac. ¹²² Judges 14:1. ¹²³ Further, 50:13. ¹²⁴ Now this text of Rashi would apparently contradict the opinion of Ibn Ezra who states that only Shaul the son of Simeon, and Shelah the son of Judah, were born of Canaanitish women. Ramban, however, proceeds to reconcile the position of Rashi with that of Ibn Ezra. ¹²⁵ Mentioned in Yalkut Shimoni 161. ¹²⁶ The Midrash there concludes: “For it is said, And Shaul the son of a Canaanitish woman ¹²⁷ He was a descendant of Tamar and Judah through Peretz, who was the ancestor of David. See Ruth 4:15-22. ¹²⁸ Bereshith Rabbah 85:11. ¹²⁹ Above, 14:18.
וַיִּקְרָא אֶת שְׁמוֹ עֵר יְהוּדָה קָרָא לִבְנוֹ עֵר, מִלְּשׁוֹן "עוֹרְרָה אֶת גְּבוּרָתֶךָ" (תהלים פ ג), וְאִשְׁתּוֹ קָרְאָה שֵׁם הַשֵּׁנִי אוֹנָן, וְלֹא סִפֵּר הַכָּתוּב לָמָּה. וְיִתָּכֵן שֶׁתְּקַשׁ בְּלִדְתָּהּ, כִּי דֶּרֶךְ נָשִׁים לִקְרֹא שֵׁם בְּנֵיהֶם עַל זֶה, כְּאֵם יַעְבֵּץ (דהי"א ד ט) שֶׁקָּרְאָה שְׁמוֹ יַעְבֵּץ "לֵאמֹר כִּי יָלַדְתִּי בְּעֹצֶב", וְגַם כֵּן עָשְׂתָה עֲטָרָה אֵם אוֹנָם (שם ב כו), וְהוּא מִלְּשׁוֹן "וַיְהִי הָעָם כְּמִתְאוֹנְנִים" (במדבר יא א), "מַה יִּתְאוֹנֵן אָדָם חָי" (איכה ג לט), כְּמוֹ בֶּן אוֹנִי דְּרָחֵל (בראשית ל"ה:י"ח), וִיהוּדָה לֹא הִקְפִּיד לְשַׁנּוֹת שְׁמוֹ כְּיַעֲקֹב אָבִיו. וּבִבְרֵאשִׁית רַבָּה (בראשית רבה פ"ה:ד') אָמְרוּ, עֵר שֶׁהוּעַר מִן הָעוֹלָם, וְלֹא שֶׁהָיְתָה זוֹ כַּוָּנַת יְהוּדָה, אֲבָל דָּרְשׁוּ כִּי הַשֵּׁמוֹת יוֹרוּ עַל הֶעָתִיד:
AND HE CALLED HIS NAME ER. Judah called his son Er, said name being derived from the expression, Stir up (‘Or’rah’) Thy might.¹³⁰ His wife called the name of the second son Onan,¹³¹ but Scripture does not relate the reason for this name. Now it is possible that she experienced difficult labor, for it is customary for women to name their children after such an experience, as did the mother of Jabez who so named him, saying: Because I bore him with pain.¹³² (pain). And so did Atarah, the mother of Onam,¹³³, 2:26. [call him by the name Onam on account of her difficult labor], the name being derived from the expression, *And the people were ‘k’mithon’nim’ (as murmurers);*¹³⁴ *Wherefore doth a living man ‘yithonen’ (complain)?*¹³⁵ This is similar in expression to ben oni (the son of my sorrow)¹³⁶ mentioned in the case of Rachel. Judah was not particular about changing Onan’s name as his father Jacob had done.¹³⁶ In Bereshith Rabbah¹³⁷ our Rabbis said, by way of explaining the name Er, that he was destined to be thrown off (she’hu’ar) from the world.¹³⁸ Now this is not to say that such was Judah’s intent. However, the Rabbis made their exposition since the names indicate the future.
footnotes: ¹³⁰ Psalms 80:3. ¹³¹ A word which suggests grief and mourning. Ramban makes the point that the name Judah chose for his son can easily be surmised, as it suggests strength. But why his wife should choose a name like “Onan” is not indicated. ¹³² I Chronicles 4:9. The name “Yavetz” contains the Hebrew letters of atzev ¹³³ Ibid. ¹³⁴ Numbers 11:1. ¹³⁵ Lamentations 3:39. ¹³⁶ Above, 35:18. ¹³⁶ Above, 35:18. ¹³⁷ 85:5. ¹³⁸ Since, as Scripture relates, he died on account of his sin. (Verse 7, and see Ramban there.)
וַתִּקְרָא אֶת שְׁמוֹ שֵׁלָה וְהָיָה בִכְזִיב בְּלִדְתָּהּ אֹתוֹ כָּתַב רַשִׁ"י (רש"י על בראשית ל"ח:ה') אוֹמֵר אֲנִי עַל שֶׁפָּסְקָה מִלֶּדֶת נִקְרָא כְזִיב, לְשׁוֹן "הָיֹה תִהְיֶה לִי כְּמוֹ אַכְזָב" (ירמיהו טו יח), שֶׁאִם כֵּן מָה בָּא לְלַמְּדֵנוּ. וְלֹא יָדַעְתִּי לָמָּה יִקָּרֵא שֵׁם הַמָּקוֹם עַל זֶה, וְאֵין בַּמְּאֹרָע הַהוּא כָּל חָדָשׁ, כִּי דַּי לָהּ שֶׁתֵּלֵד שְׁלֹשָׁה בָּנִים, וּבְעֵת לֵדָתָהּ לֹא נוֹדַע אִם פָּסְקָה אוֹ תּוֹלִיד אַחֲרֵי כֵן, רַק בְּעֵת מוֹתָהּ נוֹדַע הַדָּבָר. וְיֵשׁ אוֹמְרִים (הרד"ק ומהר"ם מרוטנברג), כִּי הָיָה דַּרְכָּם שֶׁיִּקְרָא הָאָב שֵׁם הַבְּכוֹר וְתִקְרָא הָאֵם שֵׁם הַשֵּׁנִי, עַל כֵּן הָרִאשׁוֹן "וַיִּקְרָא אֶת שְׁמוֹ" וְהַשֵּׁנִי "וַתִּקְרָא", וְאָמַר בַּשְּׁלִישִׁי "וַתִּקְרָא", כִּי יְהוּדָה הָיָה בִּכְזִיב בְּלִדְתָּהּ אוֹתוֹ, וְאֵינֶנּוּ שָׁם שֶׁיִּקְרָא לוֹ שֵׁם. וְאֵין בָּזֶה טַעַם אוֹ רֵיחַ. וְדַעַת רַבִּי אַבְרָהָם, שֶׁסִּפֵּר הַכָּתוּב אָנָה נוֹלְדוּ, וְאָמַר "בְּלִדְתָּהּ אוֹתוֹ", כְּאִלּוּ אָמַר בְּלִדְתָּהּ אוֹתָם, כִּי בְּמָקוֹם אֶחָד נוֹלְדוּ כֻּלָּם. וְעַל דַּעְתִּי שֵׁלָה לְשׁוֹן דָּבָר הַפּוֹסֵק וְהַכּוֹזֵב, וְכֵן "לֹא תַשְׁלֶה אוֹתִי" (מלכים ב ד כח), אָמַר בּוֹ הַתַּרְגּוּם "לָא תְכַדֵּב פִּתְגָמָךְ בְּאַמְתָּךְ", וְאוּלַי יִתְיַחֵס לִלְשׁוֹן שְׁגָגָה "שָׁלוּ", כִּי הַשּׁוֹגֵג כּוֹזֵב בְּמַחְשַׁבְתּוֹ. וְאָמַר הַכָּתוּב כִּי קְרָאַתּוּ שֵׁלָה עַל שֵׁם הַמָּקוֹם, כִּי הָיָה בִּכְזִיב בְּלִדְתָּהּ אוֹתוֹ, כְּדֶרֶךְ "וְהָיָה הַנַּעֲרָה" (בראשית כ"ד:י"ד). וְזֶה מַאֲמָרָם בִּבְרֵאשִׁית רַבָּה, פְּסַקַת:
AND SHE CALLED HIS NAME SHELAH, AND HE [Judah] WAS AT CHEZIB, WHEN SHE BORE HIM. Rashi wrote: “I am of the opinion that because it was there that she ceased bearing children, the place was called Chezib (deceit). It is similar in expression to the verse, Wilt thou indeed be unto me as a deceitful (‘achzav’) brook.¹³⁹ If this be not so, what is the verse teaching us by mentioning that Judah was in Chezib?” Now I do not know why a place should be named for that reason, [i.e., because there she ceased bearing children], there being nothing outstanding in such an event as three sons were sufficient for her.¹⁴⁰ Moreover, at the time she gave birth to the third son it was not yet known whether she had ceased bearing or would give birth afterwards. Only at the time of her demise did it become established [that she had ceased bearing with the third son].¹⁴¹ Now some scholars¹⁴² say that it was their custom for the father to name the firstborn, and the mother the second one. It is for this reason that Scripture states concerning the first son, And he called his name,¹⁴³ and concerning the second one, And she called.¹⁴⁴ Now concerning the third son, [the naming of whom was the father’s prerogative, Scripture nevertheless] says, And she called, explaining that this was because Judah was in Chezib when she gave birth to him, and he was not there to name him. This interpretation lacks rhyme or reason. In the opinion of Rabbi Abraham ibn Ezra Scripture relates where they were born; the statement, when she bore ‘him,’ is as if it had said ‘them,’ as all three sons were born in one place. In my opinion, the name Shelah is an expression meaning a thing which stops and deceives. Thus, do not ‘thashleh’ (deceive) me,¹⁴⁵ which the Targum there renders as, “Let not your word deceive your handmaid.” Perhaps it is related to the concept of error, for he who commits an error deceives his thinking. Thus Scripture is saying that she called him Shelah, [a word which is traceable to the root of the Hebrew word meaning ‘error,’] because of the name of the place, as he was in Chezib — [a word which means ‘deceive’] — when she bore him. And [the word v’hayah (and he was), although it should really be saying, v’haytha, (and she was), is identical with the expression ‘V’hayah hana’arah’ (And the damsel shall be).¹⁴⁶ in the feminine, except that the word v’haya does not refer to na’arah but to the event itself and is therefore to be understood as: “And it shall come to pass that the damsel, etc.” Here, likewise, it is to be so understood. This is the intent of the saying of the Rabbis in Bereshith Rabbah:¹³⁷ “Paskath was the name of the place.”¹⁴⁷
footnotes: ¹³⁹ Jeremiah 15:18. ¹⁴⁰ Had she been barren that would be a tragedy of some significance. ¹⁴¹ Why then would the place have been called Chezib at the time she gave birth to the third son? ¹⁴² R’dak in his commentary. Also in Da’ath Z’keinim ba’alei Tosafoth. ¹⁴³ Verse 3 here. ¹⁴⁴ Verse 4 here. ¹⁴⁵ II Kings 4:28. ¹⁴⁶ Above, 24:14. There, too, it should be saying, v’haytha hana’arah ¹³⁷ 85:5. ¹⁴⁷ This contradicts the opinion of Rashi, who maintains that it was the mother who named the place Chezib because she ceased bearing children.
וַיְהִי עֵר בְּכוֹר יְהוּדָה רַע בְּעֵינֵי ה' לֹא הִזְכִּיר הַכָּתוּב פִּשְׁעוֹ כַּאֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה בְּאָחִיו, אֲבָל אָמַר כִּי בְּחֶטְאוֹ מֵת, לְהוֹדִיעַ שֶׁלֹּא הָיָה זֶה בְּעֹנֶשׁ יְהוּדָה עַל מְכִירַת יוֹסֵף, כִּי הַהַצָּלָה עָמְדָה עַל הַמְּכִירָה, וְלֹא הָיָה בְּבֵית הָאָבוֹת שְׁכוֹל זוּלָתִי זֶה שֶׁהָיָה רַע בְּעֵינֵי הַשֵּׁם, כִּי זֶרַע צַדִּיקִים יְבֹרָךְ. וְעַל כֵּן הָיָה יַעֲקֹב מִתְאַבֵּל עַל בְּנוֹ יָמִים רַבִּים וַיְמָאֵן לְהִתְנַחֵם, שֶׁהָיָה הַדָּבָר בְּעֵינָיו עֹנֶשׁ גָּדוֹל לוֹ מִלְּבַד אַהֲבָתוֹ אוֹתוֹ:
AND ER, JUDAH’s FIRSTBORN, WAS WICKED IN THE SIGHT OF THE ETERNAL. Scripture does not specify the nature of his wickedness as it did in the case of his brother.¹⁴⁸ Instead, it simply states that he died for his own sin. It informs us that this was not by way of punishment of Judah for his role in the sale of Joseph, since the saving of Joseph’s life by Judah compensated for his role in the sale. There was no case of death of a child in the house of the patriarchs except this one who was wicked in the sight of the Eternal, since the race of the righteous is blessed. This is why Jacob mourned many days for his son Joseph, and he refused to comfort himself,¹⁴⁹ for he considered this to be a great punishment to himself, quite apart from his love for him.
footnotes: ¹⁴⁸ Verse 9 here. ¹⁴⁹ Above, 37:34-35.
וְיַבֵּם אֹתָהּ וְהָקֵם זֶרַע לְאָחִיךָ הַבֵּן יִקָּרֵא עַל שֵׁם הַמֵּת, לְשׁוֹן רַשִׁ"י (רש"י על בראשית ל"ח:ח'). וְאֵין זֶה אֱמֶת, כִּי בְּמִצְוַת הַתּוֹרָה נֶאֱמַר גַּם כֵּן (דברים כה ו) "יָקוּם עַל שֵׁם אָחִיו הַמֵּת וְלֹא יִמָּחֶה שְׁמוֹ מִיִּשְׂרָאֵל", וְאֵין הַיָּבָם מְצֻוֶּה לִקְרֹא לִבְנוֹ כְּשֵׁם אָחִיו הַמֵּת. וְאָמַר בְּבֹעַז "וְגַם אֶת רוּת הַמֹּאֲבִיָּה אֵשֶׁת מַחְלוֹן קָנִיתִי לִי לְאִשָּׁה לְהָקִים שֵׁם הַמֵּת עַל נַחֲלָתוֹ וְלֹא יִכָּרֵת שֵׁם הַמֵּת מֵעִם אֶחָיו וּמִשַּׁעַר מְקוֹמוֹ" וַתִּקְרֶאנָה אוֹתוֹ עוֹבֵד, לֹא מַחְלוֹן (רות ד י). וְעוֹד שֶׁאָמַר "וַיֵּדַע אוֹנָן כִּי לֹּא לוֹ יִהְיֶה הַזָּרַע", וּמָה הָרָעָה אֲשֶׁר תָּבֹא עָלָיו עַד כִּי הִשְׁחִית זַרְעוֹ מִפָּנֶיהָ אִם יִקָּרֵא שֵׁם בְּנוֹ כְּשֵׁם אָחִיו הַמֵּת, וְרֹב בְּנֵי הָאָדָם מִתְאַוִּים לַעֲשׂוֹת כֵּן, וְלֹא אָמַר הַכָּתוּב "וַיֹּאמֶר אוֹנָן" אֲבָל אָמַר "וַיֵּדַע אוֹנָן כִּי לֹּא לוֹ יִהְיֶה הַזָּרַע", כִּי יְדִיעָה בְּרוּרָה הָיְתָה לוֹ בָּזֶה שֶׁלֹּא יִהְיֶה לוֹ הַזֶּרַע. אֲבָל הָעִנְיָן סוֹד גָּדוֹל מִסּוֹדוֹת הַתּוֹרָה בְּתוֹלֶדֶת הָאָדָם, וְנִכָּר הוּא לְעֵינֵי רוֹאִים אֲשֶׁר נָתַן לָהֶם הַשֵּׁם עֵינַיִם לִרְאוֹת וְאָזְנַיִם לִשְׁמוֹעַ, וְהָיוּ הַחֲכָמִים הַקַּדְמוֹנִים קֹדֶם הַתּוֹרָה יוֹדְעִים כִּי יֵשׁ תּוֹעֶלֶת גְּדוֹלָה בְּיִבּוּם הָאָח, וְהוּא הָרָאוּי לִהְיוֹת קוֹדֵם בּוֹ וְאַחֲרָיו הַקָּרוֹב בַּמִּשְׁפָּחָה, כִּי כָל שְׁאֵרוֹ הַקָּרוֹב אֵלָיו מִמִּשְׁפַּחְתּוֹ אֲשֶׁר הוּא יוֹרֵשׁ נַחֲלָה יַגִּיעַ מִמֶּנּוּ תּוֹעֶלֶת, וְהָיוּ נוֹהֲגִים לִשָּׂא אֵשֶׁת הַמֵּת הָאָח אוֹ הָאָב אוֹ הַקָּרוֹב מִן הַמִּשְׁפָּחָה, וְלֹא יָדַעְנוּ אִם הָיָה הַמִּנְהָג קַדְמוֹן לִפְנֵי יְהוּדָה. וּבִבְרֵאשִׁית רַבָּה (בראשית רבה פ"ה:ה') אָמְרוּ, כִּי יְהוּדָה הִתְחִיל בְּמִצְוַת יִבּוּם תְּחִלָּה, כִּי כַּאֲשֶׁר קִבֵּל הַסּוֹד מֵאֲבוֹתָיו נִזְדָּרֵז לְהָקִים אוֹתוֹ, וְכַאֲשֶׁר בָּאֲתָה הַתּוֹרָה וְאָסְרָה אֵשֶׁת קְצָת הַקְּרוֹבִים, רָצָה הקב"ה לְהַתִּיר אִסּוּר אֵשֶׁת הָאָח מִפְּנֵי הַיִּבּוּם, וְלֹא רָצָה שֶׁיִּדָּחֶה מִפָּנָיו אִסּוּר אֵשֶׁת אֲחִי הָאָב וְהַבֵּן וְזוּלָתָם, כִּי בָּאָח הֻרְגַּל הַדָּבָר וְתוֹעֶלֶת קְרוֹבָה וְלֹא בָּהֶם, כְּמוֹ שֶׁהִזְכַּרְתִּי. וְהִנֵּה נֶחְשָׁב לְאַכְזָרִיּוּת גְּדוֹלָה בָּאָח כַּאֲשֶׁר לֹא יַחְפֹּץ לְיַבֵּם, וְקוֹרְאִים אוֹתוֹ "בֵּית חֲלוּץ הַנָּעַל" (דברים כה י), כִּי עַתָּה חָלַץ מֵהֶם, וְרָאוּי הוּא שֶׁתֵּעָשֶׂה הַמִּצְוָה זֹאת בַּחֲלִיצַת הַנַּעַל. וְחַכְמֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל הַקַּדְמוֹנִים מִדַּעְתָּם הָעִנְיָן הַנִּכְבָּד הַזֶּה הִנְהִיגוּ לְפָנִים בְּיִשְׂרָאֵל לַעֲשׂוֹת הַמַּעֲשֶׂה הַזֶּה בְּכָל יוֹרְשֵׁי הַנַּחֲלָה, בְּאוֹתָם שֶׁלֹּא יִהְיֶה בָּהֶם אִסּוּר הַשְּׁאֵר, וְקָרְאוּ אוֹתוֹ גְּאֻלָּה, וְזֶהוּ עִנְיַן בֹּעַז וְטַעַם נָעֳמִי וְהַשְּׁכֵנוֹת. וְהַמַּשְׂכִּיל יָבִין:
AND MARRY HER AS BROTHER-IN-LAW, AND RAISE SEED TO THY BROTHER. The son will be called by the name of the deceased. This is Rashi’s language. But this is not true, for in the same commandment of the Torah it likewise says, And it shall be, that the firstborn that she beareth shall succeed in the name of his brother that is dead, that his name be not blotted out of Israel,¹⁵⁰ and yet the brother-in-law is not commanded to call his son by the name of his dead brother.¹⁵¹ In the case of Boaz it says, Moreover Ruth the Moabitess, the wife of Machlon, have I acquired to be my wife, to raise up the name of the dead upon his inheritance, that the name of the dead be not cut off from among his brethren, and from the gate of his place,¹⁵² and yet she called him Obed,¹⁵³, Verse 21. not Machlon. Moreover, it says here, And Onan knew that the seed would not be his.¹⁵⁴ Now what misfortune would have befallen him — to the point that he wasted his seed from before her — if his son was to be called by the name of his dead brother? Most people even desire to do so. Again, Scripture does not say, “And Onan said,” but instead it says, And Onan ‘knew’ that the seed would not be his.¹⁵⁴ This would indicate that Onan had some definite kind of knowledge in this matter which made him certain that the seed would not be his.¹⁵⁴ The subject is indeed one of the great secrets of the Torah,¹⁵⁵ concerning human reproduction, and it is evident to those observers who have eyes to see, and ears to hear.¹⁵⁶ The ancient wise men who were prior to the Torah knew of the great benefit in marrying a childless dead brother’s wife, and that it was proper for the brother to take precedence in the matter, and upon his failure to do so, his next of kin would come after him, for any kinsman who was related to him, who would inherit his legacy, would derive a benefit from such a marriage. And it was customary for the dead man’s wife to be wed by the brother or father or the next of kin in the family. We do not know whether this was an ancient custom preceding Judah’s era. In Bereshith Rabbah¹⁵⁷ they say that Judah was the one who inaugurated the commandment of marrying a childless person’s widow, for since he had received the secret¹⁵⁵ from his ancestors he was quick to fulfill it. Now when the Torah came and prohibited marrying former wives of certain relatives, it was the will of the Holy One, blessed be He, to abrogate the prohibition against marrying a brother’s wife in case he dies childless, but it was not His will that the prohibition against marrying a father’s brother’s wife or a son’s wife or similar wives of relatives be set aside. It was only in the case of a brother that the custom had established itself,¹⁵⁸ and the benefit is likely with him and not with the others,¹⁵⁹ as I have mentioned. Now it was considered a matter of great cruelty when a brother did not want to marry his dead brother’s wife, and they would call it the house of him that had his shoe loosed,¹⁶⁰ for [after his dead brother’s wife had performed Chalitzah (the loosening of the shoe) of the brother-in-law], he¹⁶¹ was now removed from them, and it is fitting that this commandment be fulfilled through the loosening of the shoe. Now the ancient wise men of Israel, having knowledge of this important matter, established it as a custom to be practised among all those inheriting the legacy, providing there is no prohibition against the marriage, and they called it Ge’ulah (Redemption).¹⁶² This was the matter concerning Boaz, and the meaning of the words of Naomi and the women neighbors.¹⁶³ (Ruth 4:17), meaning that she was thereby given back the son Machlon whom she had lost. This explains why the women did not say, “There is a son born to Ruth or Boaz.” The man of insight¹⁶⁴ will understand.
footnotes: ¹⁵⁰ Deuteronomy 25:6. ¹⁵¹ Yebamoth 24a. ¹⁵² Ruth 4:10. ¹⁵³ Ibid. ¹⁵⁴ Verse 9 here. ¹⁵⁴ Verse 9 here. ¹⁵⁴ Verse 9 here. ¹⁵⁵ Ramban here hints to the mystic doctrine of the transmigration of souls. Onan “knew” that when he married his brother’s wife his brother’s soul would become incarnate in his son. Therefore Onan did not consider the child to be his own. See my Hebrew commentary, pp. 214-5. ¹⁵⁶ Deuteronomy 29:3. ¹⁵⁷ 85:6. ¹⁵⁵ Ramban here hints to the mystic doctrine of the transmigration of souls. Onan “knew” that when he married his brother’s wife his brother’s soul would become incarnate in his son. Therefore Onan did not consider the child to be his own. See my Hebrew commentary, pp. 214-5. ¹⁵⁸ Prior to the giving of the Torah. ¹⁵⁹ Ramban’s intent is that when two brothers come from one father, the soul of the dead one finds closer identification with the child that his brother will beget rather than with that of any of the other relatives. (Abarbanel; see my Hebrew commentary, p. 215). ¹⁶⁰ Deuteronomy 25:10. ¹⁶¹ The soul of the dead brother. The Cabala has considered the subject of Chalitzah, as one of profound mystery. ¹⁶² Ruth 4:7. ¹⁶³ Reference is to what the neighbors said; There is a son born to Naomi ¹⁶⁴ A term denoting the student of the Cabala, the mystic doctrine of the Torah.
וְטַעַם שְׁבִי אַלְמָנָה בֵית אָבִיךְ שֶׁתִּנְהֲגִי אַלְמְנוּתֵךְ שָׁם, "עַד יִגְדַּל שֵׁלָה", רָמַז לָהּ הִתְאַבְּלִי וְלִבְשִׁי בִגְדֵי אֵבֶל וְאַל תָּסוּכִי שֶׁמֶן, כְּאִשָּׁה חֲגֻרַת שַׂק עַל בַּעַל נְעוּרֶיהָ, עַד שֶׁיִּגְדַּל שֵׁלָה וִייַבֵּם אוֹתָךְ, כִּי כֵן הַמִּנְהָג בַּמִּתְיַבֶּמֶת, כִּי הַיּוֹצֵאת וְחֶפְצָהּ לְהִנָּשֵׂא לְאִישׁ זָר לוֹבֶשֶׁת בִּגְדֵי אֵבֶל יָמִים מְעַט כְּפִי הַמִּנְהָג, וּמִתְנַחֶמֶת וְלוֹבֶשֶׁת שָׁנִים וּתְכַס בַּצָּעִיף וְתִתְעַלָּף עַד שֶׁתִּנָּשֵׂא לָאִישׁ:
ABIDE A WIDOW AT THY FATHER’s HOUSE. The meaning thereof is that “you should conduct yourself there as a widow until Shelah be grown up.” He suggested to her: “Place yourself in mourning, put on mourning garments, do not anoint yourself with oil, as a woman girded with sack-cloth for the bridegroom of her youth,¹⁶⁵ until Shelah be grown up and he will marry you.” Such was the custom of a widow waiting to be married: she who desires to be married to a stranger wears mourning garments only for a short period as is the custom, and then feigning comfort arrays herself in scarlet. And she covered herself with a veil,¹⁶⁶, as an indication that she was no longer mourning. See Ramban further, Verse 16. until she be married to a man.
footnotes: ¹⁶⁵ Joel 1:8. ¹⁶⁶ Verse 14 here. Ramban thus interprets the verse; And she removed the garments of her widowhood, and covered herself with a veil
כִּי אָמַר כְּלוֹמַר הָיָה דּוֹחֶה אוֹתָהּ בְּקַשׁ, שֶׁלֹּא הָיָה בְּדַעְתּוֹ לְהַשִּׂיאָהּ לוֹ, "כִּי אָמַר פֶּן יָמוּת גַּם הוּא כְּאֶחָיו", כִּי מֻחְזֶקֶת הִיא זוֹ שֶׁיָּמוּתוּ אֲנָשֶׁיהָ, לְשׁוֹן רַשִׁ"י (רש"י על בראשית ל"ח:י"א). וְלֹא יָדַעְתִּי לָמָּה יִתְבַּיֵּשׁ יְהוּדָה הַמּוֹשֵׁל בְּדוֹרוֹ מִן הָאִשָּׁה הַזֹּאת וְלֹא יֹאמַר אֵלֶיהָ לְכִי לְשָׁלוֹם מִבֵּיתִי, וְלָמָּה יַטְעֶה אוֹתָהּ וְהִיא אֲסוּרָה לְשֵׁלָה, כְּמוֹ שֶׁאָמְרוּ (יבמות סד) בְּנִשּׂוּאִים בִּתְרֵי זִמְנֵי הָוְיָא חֲזָקָה. וְעוֹד כִּי בִּהְיוֹתוֹ מַקְפִּיד עַל זְנוּנֶיהָ לְחַיֵּב אוֹתָהּ שְׂרֵפָה, נִרְאֶה שֶׁהָיָה חָפֵץ בָּהּ לִהְיוֹתָהּ בְּבֵיתוֹ. וְרָחוֹק הוּא שֶׁלֹּא שָׁמַע יְהוּדָה כִּי בָּנָיו חָטְאוּ וַיְשַׁלְּחֵם בְּיַד פִּשְׁעָם וְאֵין לְתָמָר בָּהֶם חֵטְא. וְהַנָּכוֹן בְּעֵינַי שֶׁהָיָה שֵׁלָה רָאוּי לְיַבֵּם, אֲבָל לֹא רָצָה אָבִיו שֶׁיְּיַבֵּם אוֹתָהּ וְעוֹדֶנּוּ נַעַר פֶּן יֶחֱטָא בָּהּ כְּאֶחָיו אֲשֶׁר מֵתוּ בִּנְעוּרֵיהֶם, כִּי נְעָרִים הָיוּ אֵין לְאֶחָד מֵהֶם שְׁתֵּים עֶשְׂרֵה שָׁנָה, וְכַאֲשֶׁר יִגְדַּל וְיִשְׁמַע לְמוּסַר אָבִיו אָז יִתְּנֶנָּה לוֹ לְאִשָּׁה. וְכַאֲשֶׁר הִמְתִּינָה יָמִים רַבִּים וְרָאֲתָה כִּי גָדַל שֵׁלָה בְּעֵינֶיהָ, וְהוּא עוֹדֶנּוּ נַעַר לְאָבִיו כִּי אֵין לוֹ עֶשֶׂר שָׁנִים, וְהָיָה מַמְתִּין לוֹ עוֹד, אָז מִהֲרָה תָּמָר בְּרוֹב תַּאֲוָתָהּ לְהוֹלִיד מִזֶּרַע הַקֹּדֶשׁ וְעָשְׂתָה הַמַּעֲשֶׂה הַזֶּה:
FOR HE SAID, LEST HE ALSO DIE, LIKE HIS BRETHREN. That is to say, he dismissed her with a paltry reply because he never intended to give her to him in marriage. For he said, Lest he also die, like his brethren, for she has established herself as one whose husbands die young. This is Rashi’s Language. Now I do not know why Judah, a ruler of his generation, should be shy towards this woman and not tell her, “Go in peace from my house,” and why should he mislead her when she is even forbidden to Shelah, just as the Rabbis have said concerning a married woman:¹⁶⁷ “Twice establishes a presumption [that the woman is a katlanith — a woman whose husbands die].” However since Judah was angered by her harlotry to the extent of condemning her to be burned, it would appear that he originally did wish her to remain in his family. It is also unreasonable to say that Judah did not hear about how his children sinned against G-d, thus causing Him to deliver them into the hands of their fate, while Tamar was guiltless in their death.¹⁶⁸ The correct view appears to me to be that Shelah was fit for the marriage, but his father did not want him to marry Tamar while he was still a youth, lest he commit some sin with her as had his brothers who died young, for they were boys, none of them having attained twelve years¹⁶⁹ of age. His intention was that when he would mature and would listen to the instruction of his father, he would then give her to him as a wife. But when she had waited a long time and it appeared to her that Shelah had grown up — although in the eyes of his father he was still a boy as he was not yet ten years old and therefore his father was bent on waiting longer — then Tamar, in her craving to give birth from the sacred race, hastened and did this deed.
footnotes: ¹⁶⁷ Kethuboth 43:2. ¹⁶⁸ Ramban thus raises two questions against Rashi’s interpretation. It is obvious that Judah did care to have Tamar in the family, and as for her part in the death of Er and Onan, did not Judah hear how his sons had sinned against G-d, and that Tamar was guiltless? ¹⁶⁹ Seder Olam 2. See my Hebrew commentary, p. 216.
וַיַּעַל עַל גֹּזְזֵי צֹאנוֹ הָיָה עוֹלֶה שָׁם תָּמִיד לְהִתְנַחֵם, שֶׁיָּשִׂים לִבּוֹ בַּצֹּאן וְיִשְׁכַּח רִישׁוֹ, וְהֻגַּד לְתָמָר כִּי הוּא עוֹלֶה שָׁם בְּכָל יוֹם תָּמִיד, וְאָרְבָה לוֹ בְּאַחַד הַיָּמִים. אוֹ שֶׁהָיָה יְהוּדָה גָּדוֹל בָּאָרֶץ וְהָיוּ מִתְקַבְּצִים לוֹ שָׁם לַעֲשׂוֹת מִשְׁתֶּה בְּעֵת הַגִּזָּה כְּמִשְׁתֶּה הַמֶּלֶךְ, וְהָיוּ הָעֲנִיִּים הוֹלְכִים שָׁם, וְהֻגַּד לָהּ טֶרֶם עֲלוֹתוֹ:
AND JUDAH, WENT UP UNTO HIS SHEEP-SHEARERS. He would go there continually to console himself after his wife’s death so that he may turn his attention to the sheep and forget his poverty.¹⁷⁰ Now when it was told to Tamar that he goes up there daily without fail, she waited for him on one of those days. It may be that since Judah was prominent in the land, people would assemble there to make a feast at the time of the shearing, similar to a royal feast, and the poor would go there, and it was told to her before he went up there.
footnotes: ¹⁷⁰ Proverbs 31:7. [and remember his trouble no more.]
וַיַּחְשְׁבֶהָ לְזוֹנָה לְפִי שֶׁיּוֹשֶׁבֶת בְּפָרָשַׁת דְּרָכִים. "כִּי כִסְּתָה פָנֶיהָ" וְלֹא יָכוֹל לִרְאוֹתָהּ. וּמִדְרַשׁ רַבּוֹתֵינוּ "כִּי כִסְּתָה פָנֶיהָ", כְּשֶׁהָיְתָה בְּבֵיתוֹ הָיְתָה צְנוּעָה, לְפִיכָךְ לֹא חֲשָׁדָהּ, לְשׁוֹן רַשִׁ"י (רש"י על בראשית ל"ח:ט"ו). וּפְשׁוּטוֹ שֶׁל הָרַב יִתָּכֵן, כִּי דֶּרֶךְ הַזּוֹנָה לֵשֵׁב בְּפֶתַח עֵינַיִם, כְּדִכְתִיב (משלי ט יד טו) "וְיָשְׁבָה לְפֶתַח בֵּיתָהּ עַל כִּסֵּא מְרֹמֵי קָרֶת לִקְרֹא לְעוֹבְרֵי דָרֶךְ" וְגוֹ', וְאָמַר "כִּי כִסְּתָה פָנֶיהָ" וְלֹא הִכִּירָהּ, אֲבָל מִדְרָשׁ רַבּוֹתֵינוּ שֶׁכִּסְּתָה פָנֶיהָ בְּבֵית חָמִיהָ, לוֹמַר שֶׁהִצְנִיעָה עַצְמָהּ מִמֶּנּוּ בְּבֵיתוֹ וְלֹא רָאָה פָּנֶיהָ מֵעוֹלָם, וְאֵיךְ יַכִּירֶנָּה. וְהַנָּכוֹן בְּעֵינַי עוֹד לְפִי הַפְּשָׁט שֶׁיֹּאמַר שֶׁחֲשָׁבָהּ לְזוֹנָה בַּעֲבוּר שֶׁתְּכַסֶּה הַפָּנִים, כִּי אַחֲרֵי כֵן אָמַר "כִּי לֹא יָדַע כִּי כַלָּתוֹ הִיא", וְהַטַּעַם כִּי דֶּרֶךְ הַזּוֹנָה לָשֶׁבֶת בְּפֶתַח עֵינַיִם מְעֻלֶּפֶת הַצָּעִיף מְכַסֶּה קְצָת הַשֵּׂעָר וּקְצָת הַפָּנִים וּמְשַׂקֶּרֶת בְּעֵינַיִם וּשְׂפָתַיִם וּמְגַלָּה הַגָּרוֹן וְהַצַּוָּאר, כִּי בַּעֲבוּר שֶׁתָּעֵז פָּנֶיהָ וְתֹאמַר לוֹ וְתַחֲזֵק בּוֹ וְנָשְׁקָה לּוֹ תְּכַסֶּה קְצָת הַפָּנִים. וְעוֹד כִּי הַקְּדֵשׁוֹת הַיּוֹשְׁבוֹת עַל דֶּרֶךְ בַּעֲבוּר שֶׁתִּזְנֶנָּה גַּם עִם הַקְּרוֹבִים יְכַסּוּ פְּנֵיהֶן, וְכֵן יַעֲשׂוּ הַקְּדֵשִׁים גַּם הַיּוֹם בְּאַרְצֹתָם, וּבְשׁוּבָם לָעִיר לֹא נוֹדְעוּ. וְשָׁנִינוּ (כלים כד טז) שָׁלֹשׁ שְׂבָכוֹת הֵן, שֶׁל יַלְדָּה טְמֵאָה מִדְרָס וְשֶׁל זְקֵנָה טְמֵאָה טְמֵא מֵת וְשֶׁל יוֹצֵאת חוּץ טְהוֹרָה מִכְּלוּם, "יוֹצֵאת חוּץ" הִיא הַזּוֹנָה, "נָפְקַת בָּרָא", וְנוֹתֶנֶת שְׂבָכָה עַל קְצָת הָרֹאשׁ, לֹא שֶׁתִּשְׁכַּב עָלֶיהָ וְתִהְיֶה טְמֵאָה מִדְרָס, וְלֹא לְכַסּוֹת בָּהּ רֹאשָׁהּ וְתִטַּמֵּא טְמֵא מֵת, אֲבָל לְקִשּׁוּט קְוֻצּוֹתֶיהָ וְלִהְיוֹתָן מִתַּחַת הַשְּׂבָכָה נִרְאִין וְאֵינָן נִרְאִין, וּלְכָךְ טְהוֹרָה מִכְּלוּם:
AND HE THOUGHT HER TO BE A HARLOT. This was because she was sitting at the cross-roads. For she had covered her face, and he could not see her. A Midrash of our Rabbis explains: For she had covered her face, i.e., that when she stayed in Judah’s house, she had acted modestly, always covering her face, and therefore he did not suspect her. This is Rashi’s language. Now the Rabbi’s [Rashi’s]¹⁷¹. literal interpretation is feasible since it was the way of the harlot to sit at the cross-roads, just as it is written, And she sitteth at the door of her house, on a seat in the high places of the city, to call to them that pass by, etc.¹⁷² Accordingly, the verse states that because her face was veiled he did not recognize her. But according to the Midrasn of our Rabbis which states that she covered her face in her father-in-law’s house, meaning that she hid herself from him while being in his house and that he never saw her face, how would he recognize her even if she were not veiled? It further appears to me to be correct, in line with the literal sense of Scripture, that the verse is stating that he thought her to be a harlot because her face was veiled, since afterwards it states, For he knew not that she was his daughter-in-law.¹⁷³ The reason for the covering of the face is that it was the way of the harlot to sit at the cross-roads wrapped up in a veil, with part of the face and hair uncovered, gesticulating with the eyes and lips, and baring the front of the throat and neck. Now since she would speak to the by-passer in an impudent manner, catching him and kissing him,¹⁷⁴ she therefore veiled part of the face. Furthermore, harlots sitting by the roadside veil their faces because they commit harlotry even with relatives. Sodomites still do it to this day in our countries, and when they return to the city they remain anonymous. Thus we have learned in a Mishnah:¹⁷⁵ “There are three kinds of head-nets: that of a girl, which is susceptible to midras¹⁷⁶ or Zavah — (see Leviticus 15:2-6; 25-26) — to an object which is used as a seat. An object not so used, but which serves as a garment or a container, is susceptible only to corpse-uncleanness (see Numbers 19:14-17). If it serves none of these purposes, it is not susceptible to any uncleanness. uncleanness; that of an old woman, which is susceptible to the uncleanness of a corpse, while that of a yotza’ath chutz, [literally, ‘she who goes outside’], is not susceptible to any uncleanness.” Now a yotzath chutz refers to the harlot, the nafkat bro of Onkelos¹⁷⁷ (she who goes outside)., who places the head-net on part of the head. It does not serve her the purpose of lying on it, for in that case it would be susceptible to midras-uncleanness.¹⁷⁶ or Zavah — (see Leviticus 15:2-6; 25-26) — to an object which is used as a seat. An object not so used, but which serves as a garment or a container, is susceptible only to corpse-uncleanness (see Numbers 19:14-17). If it serves none of these purposes, it is not susceptible to any uncleanness. Nor does she cover her head with it, for in that case it would be susceptible to corpse-uncleanness. Instead, she uses it to dress up the ends of her hair, in order that it be partly visible from beneath the net, and this is why it is not susceptible to any uncleanness.
footnotes: ¹⁷¹ See Note 139, Seder Bereshith ¹⁷² Proverbs 9:14-15. ¹⁷³ Verse 16 here. This indicates that if her face were not veiled, he would have recognized her to be his daughter-in-law. This again is at odds with the Midrash which states that he never saw her face. ¹⁷⁴ See Proverbs 7:13. ¹⁷⁵ Keilim 24,16. ¹⁷⁶ A term applied to the uncleanness conveyed by a Zav ¹⁷⁷ Verse 15 here. This is the Aramaic form of the Hebrew term, yotza’ath chutz ¹⁷⁶ A term applied to the uncleanness conveyed by a Zav
חוֹתָמְךָ וּפְתִילֶךָ "עִזְקְתָךְ וְשׁוֹשִׁיפָּךְ", טַבַּעַת שֶׁאַתָּה חוֹתֵם בָּהּ וְשִׂמְלָתְךָ שֶׁאַתָּה מִתְכַּסֶּה בָהּ, לְשׁוֹן רַשִׁ"י (רש"י על בראשית ל"ח:י"ח). וְאֵינֶנּוּ נָכוֹן שֶׁיִּתֵּן שִׂמְלָתוֹ וְיֵלֵךְ עָרֹם מִמֶּנָּה, וְאֵיךְ תִּקָּרֵא הַשִּׂמְלָה פְּתִיל, וְאֵיךְ יֹאמַר הַכָּתוּב (בראשית ל"ח:כ"ה) "וְהַפְּתִילִים" בִּלְשׁוֹן רַבִּים, וְאִם תֹּאמַר כִּי עַל שֵׁם פְּתִילֵי הַצִּיצִית תִּקָּרֵא הַשִּׂמְלָה פְּתִיל, חָלִילָה שֶׁיְּקַיֵּם יְהוּדָה מִצְוַת צִיצִית וִיזַלְזֵל בּוֹ לָתֵת אוֹתוֹ בְּזִמָּה. וְאוּלַי הָיָה בְּיָדוֹ סוּדָר קָטָן אֲשֶׁר יַעֲטֹף בּוֹ קְצָת הָרֹאשׁ לִפְעָמִים, וְיִקָּרֵא פְּתִיל בַּעֲבוּר שֶׁהוּא קָצָר כִּפְתִיל, וְהוּא תַּרְגּוּם "שׁוֹשִׁיפָא", וְלֹא תִּמְצָא לְאוּנְקְלוֹס (תרגום אונקלוס על בראשית ל"ח:י"ח) בְּכָל שִׂמְלָה שֶׁבַּתּוֹרָה שֶׁיְּתַרְגֵּם אוֹתָהּ "שׁוֹשִׁיפָּא", אֲבָל לְשׁוֹן כְּסוּת וּמַלְבּוּשׁ תִּרְגֵּם בְּכֻלָּם, מִלְּבַד "וּפָרְשׂוּ הַשִּׂמְלָה" (דברים כב יז) שֶׁאוֹמֵר בּוֹ "וְיִפְרְשׂוּן שׁוֹשִׁיפָּא", לְפִי שֶׁהוּא הַסּוּדָר הַיָּדוּעַ בַּתַּלְמוּד (כתובות י) שֶׁיִּוָּדְעוּ בּוֹ הַבְּתוּלִים. וְכֵן תִּרְגֵּם יוֹנָתָן בֶּן עֻזִּיאֵל (ישעיהו ג כב) "הַמַּעֲטָפוֹת" – "שׁוֹשִׁיפָּא", שֶׁהֵם סוּדָרִים קְטַנִּים יַעַטְפוּ בָּהֶם הָרֹאשׁ וְיִפְרְשׂוּ אוֹתָם הַנִּכְבָּדִים עַל הַמִּגְבָּעוֹת וְהַפְּאֵרִים אֲשֶׁר עַל רֹאשָׁם. וְזֶה הַמִּנְהָג עוֹדֶנּוּ הַיּוֹם בְּאַרְצוֹת הַמִּזְרָח. וְיִתָּכֵן עוֹד כִּי הָיָה לִיהוּדָה חוֹתָם כְּצוּרַת אַרְיֵה אוֹ צוּרָה אַחֶרֶת יְדוּעָה כַּמּוֹשְׁלִים, וְהָיוּ בְּיָדוֹ פְּתִילִים שֶׁבָּהֶם כַּצּוּרָה הַהִיא לְתַיֵּר בָּהּ, וְהַמַּטֶּה הָיָה בְּיָדוֹ כְּמִשְׁפַּט שַׁלִּיט וְנוֹגֵשׂ, כְּעִנְיָן שֶׁכָּתוּב (יחזקאל יט יד) "מַטֵּה עֹז שֵׁבֶט לִמְשׁוֹל", וּכְתִיב (בראשית מ"ט:י') "לֹא יָסוּר שֵׁבֶט מִיהוּדָה", וְאֵלֶּה נָתַן בְּיָדָהּ:
THY SIGNET ‘UP’THILECHA.’ Onkelos renders it as “thy signet and thy cloak,” meaning “the ring which you use as a seal, and the cloak with which you cover yourself.” This is Rashi’s language. But it is not correct to say that he would give his cloak, and go away from her unclothed. And how is it that a cloak is called p’thil in the Hebrew language? And how can it be referred to later on as p’thilim,¹⁷⁸ in the plural? Now should you say that on account of its fringed strings (p’thilim), the garment was called p’thil, far be it that Judah should fulfill the Commandment of Tzitzith (Fringes),¹⁷⁹ yet treat it so lightly as to give it away in unchastity! Perhaps, he had with him a small scarf which he occasionally wound around part of the head, and which was called p’thil because it was short as a p’thil (fringe), and it is this which the Targum [Onkelos] rendered as shashifa, [which Rashi incorrectly took to mean “a cloak”]. Now you will not find that Onkelos will translate simlah (a garment) as shashifa wherever it is found in the Torah. Instead, he translates it throughout by a term denoting “cover” or “garment,” excepting the verse, And they shall spread the ‘simlah’ (garment),¹⁸⁰ concerning which he says, “And they shall spread the shashifa,” because this is the sudar referred to in the Talmud¹⁸¹.” See also Ramban to Deuteronomy 22:17. through which virginity is established. So did Jonathan ben Uziel translate hama’ataphoth¹⁸² (the mantlets) as shashifa, these being small scarfs which they wound around the head, and distinguished persons spread them over their bonnets and headbands. This custom still prevails in eastern countries. It is further possible that Judah possessed a seal impressed with the form of a lion or some other known figure, as rulers do, and he also had fringes in his hand, woven in the same design, with which to stroll about, as well as a rod in his hand, as becomes a ruler or lord, even as it is written, A strong rod, to be a sceptre to rule,¹⁸³ and it is further written, The sceptre shall not depart from Judah.¹⁸⁴ It was these that he gave into Tamar’s hand.
footnotes: ¹⁷⁸ Verse 25 here. ¹⁷⁹ See Numbers 15:38. ¹⁸⁰ Deuteronomy 22:17. ¹⁸¹ Kethuboth 10 a: “Bring me the sudar ¹⁸² Isaiah 3:22. ¹⁸³ Ezekiel 19:14. ¹⁸⁴ Further, 49:10.
וַיֹּאמֶר יְהוּדָה הוֹצִיאוּהָ וְתִשָּׂרֵף אָמַר אֶפְרַיִם מִקְשָׁאָה תַּלְמִידוֹ שֶׁל רַבִּי מֵאִיר מִשּׁוּם רַבִּי מֵאִיר, תָּמָר בִּתּוֹ שֶׁל שֵׁם הָיְתָה שֶׁהוּא כֹּהֵן, לְפִיכָךְ דָּנוּהָ בִּשְׂרֵפָה (ב"ר פה י), זֶה כָּתַב רַשִׁ"י (רש"י על בראשית ל"ח:כ"ד) וְלֹא פֵּרְשׁוֹ. וַאֲנִי לֹא יָדַעְתִּי הַדִּין הַזֶּה, שֶׁבַּת כֹּהֵן אֵינָהּ חַיֶּבֶת שְׂרֵפָה אֶלָּא בִּזְנוּת עִם זִיקַת הַבַּעַל, אֲרוּסָה אוֹ נְשׂוּאָה, כְּמוֹ שֶׁמְּפֹרָשׁ בַּגְּמָרָא בְּסַנְהֶדְרִין (נא), אֲבָל בַּת כֹּהֵן שׁוֹמֶרֶת יָבָם שֶׁזִּנְּתָה אֵינָהּ בְּמִיתָה כְּלָל, וּבֵין בַּת יִשְׂרָאֵל וּבֵין בַּת כֹּהֵן אֵינָהּ אֶלָּא בְּלָאו גְּרֵידָא. וְאִם תֹּאמַר שֶׁהָיָה הַיִּבּוּם נוֹהֵג בִּבְנֵי נֹחַ וְהִיא לָהֶם בִּכְלַל אֵשֶׁת אִישׁ, וְאַזְהָרָה שֶׁלָּהֶם זוֹ הִיא מִיתָתָם (שם נח), וַהֲלֹא הֵם אוֹמְרִים (ב"ר פה ה) שֶׁיְּהוּדָה הִתְחִיל בְּמִצְוַת יִבּוּם תְּחִלָּה. וְכֵן בַּגְּמָרָא סַנְהֶדְרִין (נז) מוֹכִיחַ שֶׁאֵין יְבָמָה בִּבְנֵי נֹחַ חַיֶּבֶת כְּלָל. וְנִרְאֶה לִי שֶׁהָיָה יְהוּדָה קָצִין שׁוֹטֵר וּמוֹשֵׁל בָּאָרֶץ, וְהַכַּלָּה אֲשֶׁר תִּזְנֶה עָלָיו אֵינֶנָּה נִדּוֹנֵת כְּמִשְׁפַּט שְׁאָר הָאֲנָשִׁים אַךְ כִּמְבַזָּה אֶת הַמַּלְכוּת, וְעַל כֵּן כָּתוּב "וַיֹּאמֶר יְהוּדָה הוֹצִיאוּהָ וְתִשָּׂרֵף", כִּי בָּאוּ לְפָנָיו לַעֲשׂוֹת בָּהּ כְּכָל אֲשֶׁר יְצַוֶּה, וְהוּא חִיֵּב אוֹתָהּ מִיתָה לְמַעֲלַת הַמַּלְכוּת, וְשָׁפַט אוֹתָהּ כִּמְחַלֶּלֶת אֶת אָבִיהָ לִכְבוֹד כְּהֻנָּתוֹ, לֹא שֶׁיִּהְיֶה דִּין הֶדְיוֹטוֹת כֵּן. וְעַל דֶּרֶךְ הַפְּשָׁט יִתָּכֵן שֶׁהָיָה מִשְׁפָּטָם כַּנָּהוּג הַיּוֹם בְּמִקְצָת אַרְצוֹת סְפָרַד, שֶׁהָאִשָּׁה אֲשֶׁר תִּזְנֶה תַּחַת אִישָׁהּ מוֹסְרִין אוֹתָהּ לְבַעֲלָהּ וְהוּא דָּן אוֹתָהּ לְמִיתָה אוֹ לְחַיִּים כִּרְצוֹנוֹ. וְהִנֵּה הָיְתָה מְיֹעֶדֶת לְשֵׁלָה בְּנוֹ, וְהִיא לָהֶם כְּאֵשֶׁת אִישׁ בְּנִימוּסֵיהֶם:
AND JUDAH SAID: BRING HER FORTH, AND LET HER BE BURNT! Ephraim Makshoah,¹⁸⁵); (b) he was a scholar famous for his great ability in debate (kasheh). See Commentaries to Bereshith Rabbah 84:11. a disciple of Rabbi Meir, said in the name of Rabbi Meir: “Tamar was the daughter of Shem who was a priest.¹⁸⁶ They therefore sentenced her to be burnt.”¹⁸⁷ Rashi quoted this Midrash but did not explain it. And I do not know this law, for a priest’s daughter is not liable to be burned except for harlotry in conjunction with a binding relation to a husband, either espoused or married, as is explained in the Gemara in Tractate Sanhedrin.¹⁸⁸ However, a priest’s daughter who is waiting to be married by a brother-in-law is not at all liable to death for harlotry. Whether she is an Israelite’s daughter or a priest’s daughter, her punishment is only that of having violated a simple negative precept.¹⁸⁹ And should you say that marrying a childless brother’s wife was customary among the Sons of Noah, and that she was regarded by them as having the status of a married woman, and that their prohibitions were punishable by death, it would not be correct. The Rabbis say in Bereshith Rabbah¹⁵⁷ that Judah was the one who first inaugurated the observance of the commandment that a brother marry a childless brother’s widow. And again, in the Gemara in Tractate Sanhedrin,¹⁹⁰ it is made clear that a childless brother’s widow of the Sons of Noah is not at all liable to any punishment for harlotry. It appears to me that since Judah was a chief, an officer, and a ruler of the land, his daughter-in-law who committed harlotry against him was not judged by the same law as other people, but as one who degraded royalty. It is for this reason that it is written, And Judah said: Bring her forth, and let her be burnt, for the people came before him to do unto her in accordance with his command, and he declared her guilty of a capital crime because of the superior rank of royalty. Thus he judged her as if she had profaned her father in respect of his priesthood, but this was not the judgment meted out to commoners. In line with the literal interpretation of Scripture, it is possible that their law was similar to that which is presently customary in some of the countries of Spain, i.e., that a married woman who commits a faithless act is turned over to her husband who decrees death or life for her, as he wishes. Now Tamar was designated for his son Shelah, and in the eyes of their laws she was considered as a married woman.
footnotes: ¹⁸⁵ There are two interpretations for the name ‘Makshoah’: (a) he was a watchman in a cucumber field (kishuim ¹⁸⁶ See Ramban above, 14:18. ¹⁸⁷ See Leviticus 21:9. ¹⁸⁸ Sanhedrin 51b. ¹⁸⁹ This would be stripes, but not the death penalty. ¹⁵⁷ 85:6. ¹⁹⁰ Sanhedrin 58a.
צָדְקָה מִמֶּנִּי צָדְקָה בִּדְבָרֶיהָ, מִמֶּנִּי הִיא מְעֻבֶּרֶת. וְרַבּוֹתֵינוּ דָּרְשׁוּ (סוטה י) שֶׁיָּצְאָה בַּת קוֹל וְאָמְרָה, מִמֶּנִּי וּמֵאִתִּי יָצְאוּ הַדְּבָרִים, לְשׁוֹן רַשִׁ"י (רש"י על בראשית ל"ח:כ"ו). וְהַנָּכוֹן שֶׁהוּא כְּמוֹ "צַדִּיקִים וְטוֹבִים מִמֶּנּוּ" (מלכים א ב לב), "וַיֹּאמֶר אֶל דָּוִד צַדִּיק אַתָּה מִמֶּנִּי כִּי אַתָּה גְּמַלְתַּנִי הַטּוֹבָה וַאֲנִי גְּמַלְתִּיךָ הָרָעָה" (שמואל א כד יז), צָדְקָה בְּמַעֲשֶׂיהָ יוֹתֵר מִמֶּנִּי, כִּי הִיא הַצַּדֶּקֶת וַאֲנִי הַחוֹטֵא אֵלֶיהָ שֶׁלֹּא נְתַתִּיהָ לְשֵׁלָה בְנִי. וְהַטַּעַם כִּי שֵׁלָה הוּא הַיָּבָם, וְאִם לֹא יַחְפֹּץ לָקַחַת אֶת יְבִמְתּוֹ אָבִיו הוּא הַגּוֹאֵל אַחֲרָיו, כַּאֲשֶׁר פֵּרַשְׁתִּי לְמַעְלָה (רמב"ן על בראשית ל"ח:ח') בְּדִין הַיִּבּוּם:
SHE IS RIGHTEOUS FROM ME. “She is righteous in her words. From me is she with child. Our Rabbis expounded that a bath kol (a Divine voice) came forth and said the word mimeni, i.e., ‘From Me and from My authority did these events unfold.’” This is Rashi’s language. The correct interpretation is that it is similar to the verses: *Men more righteous and better than he;*¹⁹¹ And he [Saul] said to David, Thou art more righteous than I; for thou hast rendered unto me good, whereas I have rendered unto thee evil.¹⁹² Here too the meaning is: “She is more righteous than I, for she acted righteously and I am the one who sinned against her by not giving her my son Shelah.” The purport of the statement is that Shelah was the brother-in-law, [hence he was the first designated to marry her], and if he did not wish to take her as his wife, his father is next in line to act as the redeemer, as I have explained above¹⁹³ when I discussed the law of marrying a childless brother’s widow.
footnotes: ¹⁹¹ I Kings 2:32. ¹⁹² I Samuel 24:18. ¹⁹³ In Verse 8 here.
וְלֹא יָסַף עוֹד לְדַעְתָּה אַחֲרֵי שֶׁהֵקִים זֶרַע לְבָנָיו לֹא רָצָה לִהְיוֹת עִמָּהּ עוֹד, אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁהָיָה בִּרְצוֹנוֹ, כִּי אֵינֶנָּה אֲסוּרָה עָלָיו וְהָיְתָה אִשְׁתּוֹ כְּמִשְׁפַּט הַיְּבָמִים. וְזֶה טַעַם הָאוֹמֵר (סוטה י) לֹא פָּסַק, כְּתִיב הָכָא "וְלֹא יָסַף", וּכְתִיב הָתָם (דברים ה יט) "קוֹל גָּדוֹל וְלֹא יָסָף":
AND HE KNEW HER AGAIN NO MORE (‘v’lo yasaph’). After having established progeny for his children, he did not wish to be with her again even though this was dependent upon his wish as she was not forbidden to him, being, in fact, considered as his wife, as is the law when the widow of a childless man has relations with a relative. This is the reason for the explanation given by a certain Sage,¹⁹⁴ who explains the verse as saying, “And he did not cease to know her,”¹⁹⁵ since here the expression used is, v’lo yasaph, and elsewhere it is written, A great voice ‘v’lo yasaph’.¹⁹⁶ [with a kamatz], meaning “and it did not cease,” or “it did not diminish in strength,” unlike the human voice which decreases and eventually stops completely. Here also the identical expression, v’lo yasaph [with a patach], means “and he did not cease.”
footnotes: ¹⁹⁴ Shmuel the Elder (Sotah 10 b). ¹⁹⁵ Since Tamar did in fact become his legitimate wife, as explained above, he did not cease living with her. ¹⁹⁶ Deuteronomy 5:19. Reference there is to the Divine Voice that came forth from Mount Sinai, concerning which Scripture says, v’lo yasaph
מַה פָּרַצְתָּ עָלֶיךָ פָּרֶץ חָזַקְתָּ עָלֶיךָ חֹזֶק, לְשׁוֹן רַשִׁ"י (רש"י על בראשית ל"ח:כ"ט). וְעִנְיַן פֶּרֶץ בְּכָל מָקוֹם נְתִיצַת הַגָּדֵר וְעָבְרוֹ, מִן "פָּרוֹץ גְּדֵרוֹ" (ישעיהו ה ה), "לָמָּה פָּרַצְתָּ גְדֵרֶיהָ" (תהלים פ יג) וּבִלְשׁוֹנָם (סוכה כו) פִּרְצָה קוֹרְאָה לַגַּנָּב. אֲבָל יֵאָמֵר בִּלְשׁוֹן הַקֹּדֶשׁ עַל כָּל עוֹבֵר גְּבוּל הַדָּבָר, "וּפָרַצְתָּ יָמָּה וָקֵדְמָה" (בראשית כ"ח:י"ד), "וַיִּפְרֹץ הָאִישׁ מְאֹד מְאֹד" (בראשית ל':מ"ג), וְלָכֵן אָמַר בְּכָאן בִּהְיוֹת הָרִאשׁוֹן כְּמֵשִׁיב יָדוֹ וְהוּא מִהֵר לָצֵאת, מָה פָּרַצְתָּ פֶּרֶץ גָּדוֹל בַּגָּדֵר לְמַהֵר לָצֵאת מִמֶּנּוּ. וְאָמַר "עָלֶיךָ", כִּי הָיָה הַגָּדֵר עָלָיו וְהוּא כָּלוּא בְּתוֹכוֹ, כְּלוֹמַר מַה פָּרַצְתָּ עָלֶיךָ פָּרֶץ גָּדוֹל בַּגָּדֵר וְיָצָאת מִמֶּנּוּ. וְרַבִּי אַבְרָהָם אָמַר (אבן עזרא על בראשית ל"ח:כ"ט), "מַה פָּרַצְתָּ" כְּאָדָם הַפּוֹרֵץ גָּדֵר וְיֵצֵא מִמֶּנּוּ, וְהִנֵּה יֵשׁ עָלֶיךָ מִשְׁפָּט זֶה הַפֶּרֶץ. וְאֵין בָּזֶה טַעַם. וּבְמִדְרָשׁוֹ שֶׁל רַבִּי נְחוּנְיָא בֶּן הַקָּנָה (ספר הבהיר קצו) יַזְכִּיר סוֹד בְּשֵׁם אֵלֶּה הַיִּלּוֹדִים, אָמְרוּ, אִקְּרִי זֶרַח עַל שֵׁם הַחַמָּה שֶׁהִיא זוֹרַחַת תָּמִיד, וּפֶרֶץ עַל שֵׁם הַלְּבָנָה הַנִּפְרֶצֶת לְעִתִּים וְנִבְנֵית לְעִתִּים. וַהֲרֵי פֶּרֶץ הוּא הַבְּכוֹר וְחַמָּה גְּדוֹלָה מִן הַלְּבָנָה, לָא קַשְׁיָא, דְּהָא כְתִיב "וַיִּתֶּן יָד", וּכְתִיב "וְאַחַר יָצָא אָחִיו". וְהִנֵּה לְדַעְתָּם הָיָה שֵׁם הַלְּבָנָה לְפֶרֶץ מִפְּנֵי מַלְכוּת בֵּית דָּוִד, וְהָיוּ תְּאוֹמִים כִּי הַלְּבָנָה מֻתְאֶמֶת בַּחַמָּה, וְהִנֵּה פֶּרֶץ תְּאוֹם לְזֶרַח הַנּוֹתֵן יָד, וְהוּא בְּכוֹר בְּכֹחַ עֶלְיוֹן, כְּמוֹ שֶׁאָמַר (תהלים פט כח) "אַף אָנִי בְּכוֹר אֶתְּנֵהוּ", וְזֶהוּ מַאֲמָרָם (ר"ה כה) בְּקִדּוּשׁ הַחֹדֶשׁ, דָּוִד מֶלֶךְ יִשְׂרָאֵל חַי וְקַיָּם. וְהַמַּשְׂכִּיל יָבִין:
HOW HAST THOU BURST FORTH? THIS BURSTING UPON THYSELF (‘PARATZTA ALECHA’). “What a strong effort you have made!” thus the language of Rashi. But the word paretz, wherever used, signifies the breaching of a fence and passing through, just as: *I will break down (‘p’rotz’) the fence thereof;*¹⁹⁷ *Why hast Thou broken down (‘paratzta’) her fences?*¹⁹⁸ And in the language of the Rabbis: “Pirtzah (a breach in a wall) calleth forth to the thief.”¹⁹⁹ Indeed, the Sacred Language²⁰⁰ uses the term p’rotz when referring to anything that oversteps its boundary: *And thou shalt break forth (‘upharatzta’) to the west, and to the east;*²⁰¹ And the man broke forth (‘vayiphrotz’) exceedingly.²⁰², 30:43. Here referring to an unusual increase in wealth. It is thus clear that the word p’rotz is used to refer to anything which breaks forth from its normal boundary. It is for this reason that the verse here is saying, at the time that the first child drew back his hand, and this one hurriedly came out, “What great breach hast thou made in the fence in order to hurry out before him?” The verse says, alecha (upon thee), to indicate that ‘the fence’ was upon him, and he was imprisoned in it. The sense of the verse is thus: “What great breach did you take upon yourself to make in the fence, with the result that you came out of it?” Rabbi Abraham ibn Ezra said in explanation of the verse: “Mah paratzta? What have you broken, in the manner of a man who makes a breach in a fence and exits through it, and now the responsibility for this breach is upon you.”²⁰³ There is no point to this interpretation. In the Midrash of Rabbi Nechunya ben Hakaneh²⁰⁴. there is mentioned a mystic principle in connection with the name of these children, Peretz and Zerach. Thus they said: “He was called Zerach (shining) on account of the sun which always shines, and Peretz (breaking) on account of the moon which is sometimes dismantled²⁰⁵ and sometimes whole. Now was not Peretz the firstborn, and yet the sun is greater than the moon?²⁰⁶ This presents no difficulty, for it does indeed say, And he [Zerach] put out his hand,²⁰⁷ and it is further written, And afterwards came out his brother.”²⁰⁸, thus indicating the importance of his having put out his hand first. Now according to their opinion, the moon is associated with the name Peretz on account of the kingdom of the House of David.²⁰⁹ Peretz and Zerach were born twins since the moon functions by means of the sun. Thus Peretz is the twin of Zerach who gives forth the hand, while he²¹⁰ is the firstborn by virtue of the power of the Supreme One, as is said, I also appoint him first-born.²¹¹ This is the purport of the saying of the Sages with respect to the Sanctification of the Moon: “David King of Israel lives and exists.”²¹² The man learned [in the mystic teachings of the Cabala] will understand.
footnotes: ¹⁹⁷ Isaiah 5:5. ¹⁹⁸ Psalms 80:13. ¹⁹⁹ Sotah 26a. ²⁰⁰ Hebrew. See Ramban on Exodus 30:13, as to why Hebrew is called “a sacred” language. ²⁰¹ Above, 28:14. Here referring to the conquest of land. ²⁰² Ibid. ²⁰³ That is, “if in the process of your hurried exit you would have caused harm or death to your brother, you would have been held responsible.” ²⁰⁴ Sefer Habahir, 196. See Note 42, Seder Bereshith ²⁰⁵ Referring to the days when the moonlight decreases, and to the end of the month when its light completely disapppears. ²⁰⁶ In which case Zerach, whose name is symbolic of the sun, should have been the first born. ²⁰⁷ Verse 28 here. Thus Zerach was indeed the firstborn. ²⁰⁸ Verse 30 here, referring to Zerach. And the verse concludes; that had the shining red thread upon his hand ²⁰⁹ Having gone through various periods of ascendancy and decline in its history, the kingdom of the House of David resembles the light of the moon which is constantly changing. ²¹⁰ That is, Peretz. In other words, by putting forth his hand, Zerach indicated that the birthright was to have been his, but Peretz, by coming out first, indicated the consent of the Supreme One to his being appointed the firstborn. ²¹¹ Psalms 89:28. ²¹² Rosh Hashanah 25a. Ramban’s meaning is that since the kingdom of David evolved from Peretz, and Peretz is symbolized by the moon, the Sages of the Talmud, when wishing to inform the Jews in other countries that the New Moon had appeared and been sanctified by the Great Court, would use this message: “David, king….” This they did in order to circumvent a prohibition by the Romans against transmitting news regarding the times set for the festivals. See Ramban above, 32:26.