Sefer HaMiddot, A Widower, Part II
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א עַל־יְדֵי שֶׁקֶר דְּבָרָיו אֵינָם נִשְׁמָעִים, גַּם עַל־יְדֵי שֶׁקֶר מְאַלְמֵן, חַס וְשָׁלוֹם, כַּמָּה נָשִׁים
People do not listen to someone who speaks falsely. Lying also causes a person to be widowed from a number of wives, God forbid.
ב. כְּשֶׁמֵּתָה אִשְׁתּוֹ שֶׁל אָדָם, אֲזַי כְּאִלּוּ נֶחְסָר לוֹ עֶצֶם מֵעֲצָמָיו, אֲבָל הַצַּדִּיק, אַף־עַל־פִּי שֶׁאִשְׁתּוֹ מֵתָה, אֵינוֹ נֶחְסָר לוֹ עֶצֶם וְזֶהוּ: אַלְמָן – אוֹתִיּוֹת אַ'חַת מֵ'הֵנָּה ל'א נִ'שְׁבָּרָה
When a man’s wife dies, it is like losing one of his bones. But this is not so for the Tzaddik when his wife dies, as hinted by the word ALMan (widower), whose letters stand for “Achat Mehaynah Lo Nishbarah (not one of them [the bones] was broken)” (Psalms 34:21).