6420 – The Living Memorial of a Departed Relative and Daily Conduct – המצבה החיה של קרוב שנפטר והנהגה יומיומית

From The Rebbe’s advice - Rabbi Chaim Wolosow by R Chaim Wolosow.

The Rebbe writes that the true memorial for a departed relative is not only the stone marker, but the ongoing daily conduct of their descendants. The inscription on the living memorial is shaped by their actions, not just by commemorating on the yahrzeit.

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