Or HaChaim on Genesis Chapter 31
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(ג) וַיַּרְא יַעֲקֹב וְגוֹ׳ וַיֹּאמֶר ה׳ אֶל יַעֲקֹב. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת מָה קֶשֶׁר וְשַׁיָּכוּת לִשְׁנֵי מִקְרָאוֹת הַלָּלוּ:
וירא יעקב…ויאמר ה׳ אל יעקב. Jacob saw, etc….G'd said to Jacob. We need to analyse how these two verses are connected to one another.
אָכֵן כַּוָּנַת הַכָּתוּב הִיא לְהַקְדִּים שְׁנֵי דְּבָרִים שֶׁמִּסִּבָּתָם עָשָׂה יַעֲקֹב מַה שֶׁעָשָׂה שֶׁבָּרַח בְּלֹא יְדִיעַת לָבָן, שֶׁזּוּלַת זֶה לֹא הָיָה הוֹלֵךְ בְּלֹא יְדִיעַת לָבָן, אוֹ עֲדַיִן הָיָה מִתְעַכֵּב שָׁם יָמִים. וְהוּא שֶׁאִם לֹא רָאָה פְּנֵי לָבָן וְדִבְרֵיהֶם שֶׁאָמְרוּ, הֲגַם שֶׁבָּאָה אֵלָיו הַנְּבוּאָה לָלֶכֶת, הָיָה הוֹלֵךְ בִּידִיעַת לָבָן כִּי לֹא נִמְכַּר יַעֲקֹב לְעֶבֶד לוֹ וְלִרְצוֹנוֹ הָיָה עִמּוֹ. אֶלָּא לְצַד דִּבְרֵי בָנָיו וּפְנֵי לָבָן מְשֻׁנּוֹת הָיָה חָשׁ שֶׁיִּגְזֹל מִמֶּנּוּ כָּל יְגִיעוֹ, וְהוּא שֶׁאָמַר לְבַסּוֹף (בראשית לא:לא) ״כִּי יָרֵאתִי פֶּן תִּגְזֹל״ וְגוֹ׳. וְאִם לֹא הָיְתָה בָּאָה אֵלָיו הַנְּבוּאָה לָלֶכֶת, הֲגַם שֶׁהָיָה שׁוֹמֵעַ דִּבְרֵי בְּנֵי לָבָן, לֹא הָיָה מְמַהֵר לָלֶכֶת בְּאוֹתוֹ זְמַן עַד שֶׁיִּתְחַכֵּם לָקַחַת רְצוֹנוֹ בְּאֹרֶךְ הַיָּמִים אָז יִפָּרֵד מִמֶּנּוּ, וְיֵשֵׁב שָׁם יָמִים. בְּאֹפֶן מֵאֶמְצָעוּת שְׁנֵי דְּבָרִים: דִּבְרֵי בְּנֵי לָבָן וְשִׁנּוּי פָּנָיו וְדִבְרֵי ה׳, לָזֶה עָשָׂה כָּל הָאָמוּר בָּעִנְיָן, לָזֶה סְמָכָם הַכָּתוּב יַחַד.
The intent of the verse is to explain the two separate considerations which preceded Jacob's flight from Laban. Unless both considerations had prompted him Jacob would not have departed without informing Laban about this first. Or, he might have waited a few days to see if Laban's attitude towards him would undergo a change for the better. After all, Jacob was a free man, he was not Laban's slave and the latter could not have prevented his departure by legal means. In view of what he heard Laban's sons say Jacob was afraid that Laban would steal all his wealth. Jacob himself said in 31,31 that he had feared that Laban would steal his daughters back from him. Had he not received a prophetic vision to leave he would not have been in a hurry to take such a step. He would have attempted to secure Laban's goodwill. We therefore need both these verses to explain Jacob's behaviour.
וַיֹּאמֶר לָהֶן רֹאֶה אָנֹכִי וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ, וְאִם תֹּאמַר שֶׁיֵּשׁ לוֹ טַעַם נָכוֹן כִּי הוּא רוֹאֶה כִּי שֶׁלְּךָ גָּדוֹל מִשֶּׁלּוֹ וּפָרַצְתָּ מְאוֹד, לָזֶה אָמַר וֵאלֹהֵי אָבִי הָיָה עִמָּדִי וְזוֹ בְּרָכָה מֵאֵת ה׳.
ויאמר להן ראה אני פני אביכם, He said to them: "I look upon the face of your father, etc." Jacob invited his wives to give him a reasonable sounding explanation for their father's recent hostility topwards him. In the event that his wives would justify their father's attitude by the fact that Jacob had become wealthier than their father, Jacob added "G'd was with me." He told them that his new wealth was a blessing by G'd not the result of competing with their father.
וַאֲבִיכֶן וְגוֹ׳. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת מַה הוּא הַהִתּוּל שֶׁהָיָה מְהַתֵּל בּוֹ, וְאִם עֲבָרַת הַדֶּרֶךְ, זֶה גַּזְלָן מִקְרֵי.
ואביכן התל בי, "and your father deceived me, etc." What precisely was the deception which Laban was guilty of? If it was עברת הדרך, this should be called robbery.
וְאוּלַי כִּי לָבָן הִרְגִּישׁ מִפַּעַם רִאשׁוֹנָה שֶׁרָאָה שֶׁיָּלְדוּ הַצֹּאן בְּרִבּוּי מִין הַנּוֹגֵעַ לְיַעֲקֹב בְּחֶלְקוֹ, לָזֶה נִתְחַכֵּם וְאָמַר: בְּוַדַּאי הֲלֹא דָבָר הוּא. לָזֶה הָיָה אוֹמֵר לוֹ מִין אֶחָד בִּתְחִלָּה, וְאַחַר שֶׁיֶּחֱמוּ הַצֹּאן הָיָה חוֹזֵר בּוֹ בֵּין עִבּוּר לְלֵידָה וְלוֹקֵחַ לְעַצְמוֹ מִין שֶׁאָמַר, וּמְיַחֵד לְיַעֲקֹב מִין אַחֵר, וְלָזֶה לֹא יִקָּרֵא אֶלָּא הִתּוּל שֶׁפְּעָמִים אוֹמֵר כָּךְ וּפְעָמִים וְכוּ׳.
Perhaps Laban noticed already the first time that it was unusual for most of the flocks to give birth to animals with the skin patterns which he had allocated to Jacob. As a result he tried to be clever and changed the designation of the animals which were to be Jacob's as soon as the animals were in heat, before they actually gave birth. If that is what happened the description of his trick as התול, deception, instead of as robbery would be accurate.
אִם כֹּה יֹאמַר. וַהֲגַם שֶׁתְּנַאי הָרִאשׁוֹן הָיָה שֶׁיִּטּוֹל נְקוּדִּים וּטְלוּאִים, לֹא עָמַד בַּדָּבָר אֶלָּא אַחַת מֵהֵנָּה הִסְכִּים לָתֵת לוֹ.
אם כה יאמר, "If he said thus, etc." Although the original condition had been that Jacob should take the spotted and speckled ones, he did not honour his word but agreed to give him only one of these two.
עוֹד טַעַם הַדָּבָר הוּא לְצַד כִּי מִין זֶה שֶׁל עֲקֻדִּים לֹא הוּזְכַּר בַּתְּנַאי הָרִאשׁוֹן, בָּא עָלָיו הָרָשָׁע בְּטַעֲנָה כִּי לֹא כְאֵלֶּה לְחֵלֶק יַעֲקֹב, וְלֹא הוֹדָה עַל הָאֱמֶת מֵהַהוֹכָחָה שֶׁנָּטַל מִין זֶה. וְלָזֶה בְּפַעַם רִאשׁוֹנָה הוֹצִיא מֵחֵלֶק יַעֲקֹב עֲקֻדִּים, וְאַחַר כָּךְ הָיָה מְתַוֵּךְ עִמּוֹ לִרְצוֹנוֹ לְהַחְלִיף מִין נְקוּדִּים שֶׁבְּחֵלֶק יַעֲקֹב בְּחֵלֶק עֲקוּדִים שֶׁהוּא שֶׁל לָבָן, וְחוֹזֵר חֲלִילָה עֲשֶׂרֶת מוֹנִים. וּלְעוֹלָם תְּנַאי הָרִאשׁוֹן שֶׁל נְקוּדִּים וּטְלוּאִים בַּכְּשָׂבִים וּבָעִזִּים עָמַד בִּמְקוֹמוֹ.
Another reason is that originally the ankle-striped ones had not been included in the agreement at all. Laban therefore argued that those certainly were not part of Jacob's share. The fact that Laban did not admit the truth can be seen from the fact that he had removed this category of animal, whereas later on he negotiated with him about exchanging them for animals with a different skin pattern. This kind of wheeling and dealing was repeated no fewer than ten times. All the while the original conditions remained legally valid.
וְאָמְרוֹ אִם כֹּה יֹאמַר. לְשׁוֹן עָתִיד, לְפִי מַה שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁתִּי בְּאָמְרוֹ ״הֵתֶל בִּי״, יְדֻיַּק עַל נָכוֹן, כִּי לֹא עַל אֲמִירָה שֶׁהָיָה אוֹמֵר בַּתְּחִלָּה הָיְתָה הַנְהָגַת הַלֵּדָה, אֶלָּא עַל מַה שֶׁעָתִיד לוֹמַר בָּאַחֲרוֹנָה אַחַר עִבּוּר הַצֹּאן. וְדָבָר זֶה לֹא הָיָה לְצַד הִשְׁתַּדְּלוּת יַעֲקֹב, אֶלָּא כִּי מֵה׳ הָיְתָה לוֹ, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁסִּפֵּר אַחַר כָּךְ שֶׁרָאָה בַּחֲלוֹם וְכוּ׳.
The reason the Torah describes this as in the future, i.e. ואם כה יאמר, instead of אם כה אמר, may be support for my theory that Laban hastened to change the terms of the agreement as soon as the animals were in heat and conceived, but before they actually gave birth again. Clearly Jacob's success was not due to his own machinations but only to G'd's intervention on his behalf.
הָעֲתֻּדִים וְגוֹ׳ עֲקֻדִּים נְקֻדִּים וּבְרֻדִּים. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת מַה הוּא פֵּרוּשׁ בְּרֻדִּים, וְלוּ יִהְיֶה שֶׁיִּהְיֶה מִין מִמִּין הַנּוֹלָדִים בַּצֹּאן, כֵּיוָן שֶׁאֵין לְיַעֲקֹב חֵלֶק בּוֹ כִּי לֹא הוּזְכַּר בַּתְּנָאִים, אִם כֵּן לָמָּה יַרְאוּהוּ אוֹתוֹ בַּחֲלוֹם?
העתודים…עקודים, נקודים וברודים. the ankle-striped ones, the spotted ones and the blotch-striped. We need to know what precisely was the category described as ברודים. Unless that category was also part of the original agreement between Laban and Jacob, why did the angel show Jacob that category in his dream?
וְרָאִיתִי לְהָרַב רַבִּי אִבְּן עֶזְרָא שֶׁכָּתַב כִּי בְּרוּדִים הֵם טְלוּאִים, וְלֹא הֵבִיא הָרַב הֶכְרֵחַ לַדָּבָר. עוֹד, לְפִי מַה שֶׁאָמַר ״אִם כֹּה יֹאמַר״ וְגוֹ׳ (בראשית לא:ח), הָרְאֵתָ לָדַעַת כִּי לֹא הָיָה נוֹטֵל יַעֲקֹב אֶלָּא אוֹ עֲקֻדִּים אוֹ נְקֻדִּים, וּמֵעַתָּה לָמָּה הָיוּ עוֹלִים עַל הַצֹּאן מִינִים שֶׁאֵינָם לְחֵלֶק יַעֲקֹב?
I have seen an explanation by Ibn Ezra (30,39) who identifies the ברודים with the טלואים. He does not offer any proof for his contention. Furthermore, from a close look at Jacob citing such examples as: אם כה יאמר עקודים יהיה שכרך, it is clear that Jacob took for himself only either עקודים or נקודים. Why would he have the ewes mounted by categories of rams which were not his share at all?
אָכֵן טַעַם הַדָּבָר הוּא לְצַד מַה שֶׁקָּדַם לָנוּ בִּידִיעַת לָבָן הָרַמַּאי, כִּי מִלְּבַד תַּחְבּוּלוֹתָיו וּמִרְמָיו גַּם הָיוּ לוֹ תְּרָפִים אֲשֶׁר יַגִּידוּ לוֹ כָּל דָּבָר, וּכְמַאֲמָרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (תנחומא), וּמִן הַסְּתָם שָׁאוֹל יִשְׁאַל בָּהֶם וְיֵדַע הָעֲצָמִים בְּבֶטֶן הַמְּלֵאָה וּמַרְאֵיהֶן. וּמֵעַתָּה בְּאֶמְצָעוּת דָּבָר זֶה אָפְסוּ כֹּחוֹת יַעֲקֹב בְּכָל מִין אֲשֶׁר יִתְחַכֵּם יַפְסִידוּהוּ הַתְּרָפִים, אֲשֶׁר עַל כֵּן הָעוֹנֶה בַּצַּר עָנָהוּ. וְיֵשׁ לְךָ לָדַעַת כִּי מִין מַרְאֶה אֲשֶׁר יִהְיֶה בַּנּוֹלָדִים יִתְהַוֶּה בְּעֵת יַחֵם וְאֵין מְצִיאוּת לְהָפְכוֹ אַחַר כָּךְ זוּלַת עַל יְדֵי נֵס עָצוּם לְהַפֵּךְ הַטֶּבַע הִפּוּךְ עָצוּם, וְדָבָר זֶה קָשֶׁה בְּעֵינֵי אֵל עֶלְיוֹן לַעֲשׂוֹתוֹ. וְצֵא וּלְמַד מִדִּבְרֵיהֶם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה בְּכַמָּה מְקוֹמוֹת (סוטה ב., שבת כג.), וְעָשָׂה ה׳ חָכְמָה שֶׁלֹּא לְהִצְטָרֵךְ לְהַפֵּךְ סֵדֶר טֶבַע הַבְּרִיאָה, וְהוּא שֶׁהָיוּ עוֹלִים שְׁלֹשָׁה מִינִים יַחַד וְהָיָה בְּכָל נוֹלָד וְנוֹלָד בְּכֹחַ הַהִיּוּלִי מֻטְבָּעִים שְׁלָשְׁתָּם יַחַד, וּבָזֶה סָפוּ תַמּוּ יְדִיעוֹת הַתְּרָפִים. וְעִם יְצִיאַת הַנּוֹלָדִים הָיָה נִגְלֶה בָּהֶם מִין אֲשֶׁר יַסְכִּימוּ יַחַד כִּי הוּא זֶה חֵלֶק יַעֲקֹב. וְלֹא יַרְחִיק דַּעְתְּךָ הַדָּבָר, כִּי יֵשׁ עוֹפוֹת שֶׁיַּהַפְכוּ גְּוָנֵיהֶם לְכַמָּה מַרְאוֹת וְזֶה הוּא לְצַד שֶׁהִטְבִּיעַ ה׳ בָּהֶם כֵּן, וּכְמוֹ כֵן עָשָׂה ה׳ בַּנּוֹלָדִים בְּצֹאן לָבָן לְהַצִּיל עָשׁוּק מִיַּד עוֹשֵׁק. וְאָמְרוֹ בְּרֻדִּים לְפִי מַה שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁנוּ מָצִינוּ רְאָיָה לְדִבְרֵי רַבִּי אַבְרָהָם בֶּן עֶזְרָא כִּי הוּא מִין טָלוּא, כִּי זוּלַת זֶה דִּלְמָא יֹאמַר לָבָן טָלוּא יִהְיֶה שְׂכָרְךָ, וְנִמְצָא הַנֵּס לְבַטָּלָה חַס וְשָׁלוֹם, אֶלָּא וַדַּאי כִּי בְּרֻדִּים הוּא מִין טָלוּא. וְאוּלַי לְצַד שֶׁלֹּבֶן שֶׁלּוֹ לָבָן הַרְבֵּה כַּבָּרָד נִקְרָא כֵן. וּמֵעַתָּה נִתְיַשֵּׁב הַכָּתוּב עַל נָכוֹן.
The reason therefore appears to be that Laban was not only a swindler but he also had תרפים, charms that supposedly revealed to him many hidden things. Midrash Tanchuma describes Laban as consulting these charms which would reveal to him what developed inside the animals' wombs and the appearance of the fetuses [much like what we learn nowadays through the ultrasound examinations Ed.]. In view of this Jacob was stymied every which way through these תרפים. This is why G'd had to interfere on Jacob's behalf. It is important to appreciate that the skin patterns of the animals to be born was determined at the time they were in heat; these skin patterns were not subject to change afterwards except through miraculous intervention by G'd. Such a miracle was one of upsetting natural laws in a very basic manner. G'd does not ligthly engage in the performance of this kind of miracle. We know this from statements of our sages in Sotah 2 and Shabbat 23. G'd therefore acted with particular adroitness so as not to have to upset the laws of nature unduly. He did this by causing three categories of rams to mount the ewes when they were in heat. As a result each of the female animals contained the sperm of three different types of rams, each potentially fertilising the ewes they had mounted and causing them to have its particular skin pattern. This stymied the power of the charms. The charms could not then reveal to Laban which skin pattern would ultimately result at the time these ewes gave birth. Since Laban and Jacob had agreed that the skin pattern of the animals to be born would determine which belonged to Jacob, Laban did not know in advance what skin pattern would emerge. This matter is not as far-fetched as you may think since we know of certain birds that can change colour in order to adapt themselves to their environment so that it helps camouflage them against predators. G'd simply employed a natural process such as the birds employ for themselves and made it operate with these sheep and goats. When the Torah speaks about ברודים, it refers to a kind of טלוא as stated by Rabbi Eleazar ben Azaryah. Perhaps this particular variety of טלוא contained more white speckles, similar to white pellets of hail (ברד).
כִּי רָאִיתִי אֵת כָּל אֲשֶׁר לָבָן וְגוֹ׳. הַמַּלְאָךְ הִגִּיד טַעַם הַנֵּס, כִּי רָאָה ה׳ כָּל מַעֲשָׂיו וְעַרְמוּתָיו שֶׁל לָבָן, וּמַה שֶׁהָיָה מִתְחַכֵּם וְשׁוֹאֵל בִּתְרָפָיו, וְלֹא הָיָה מְצִיאוּת לְהַצִּילוֹ מִמֶּנּוּ זוּלַת מַעֲשֶׂה אֲשֶׁר הֶרְאָהוּ עוֹלִים עַל הַצֹּאן, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁפֵּרַשְׁנוּ.
כי ראיתי את בל אשר לבן עשה לך. "For I have seen all that Laban is doing to you." The angel explained to Jacob the reason G'd performed this miracle, that G'd had observed the evil machinations of Laban and how the latter had employed the idols (תרפים) to help him cheat Jacob. There had been no other way to save Jacob from Laban's trickery except by miracle.
גַּם רָמַז לוֹ כִּי כָל מַעֲשֵׂה שֶׁל לָבָן אֵלָיו הֵם נְתוּנִים, וְלָזֶה לֹא אָמַר ״כָּל אֲשֶׁר עוֹשֶׂה לְךָ לָבָן״ לִרְמֹז גַּם כֵּן כִּי כָל הַנּוֹלָדִים יִהְיוּ לְחֵלֶק יַעֲקֹב, וְאֵין בָּזֶה מִשּׁוּם גֶּזֶל כִּי ה׳ שׁוֹפֵט צֶדֶק וְיָדַע כָּל אֲשֶׁר רִמָּהוּ וְאוֹנָהוּ, וְהוֹצִיא מִזֶּה וְנָתַן לָזֶה, וְהוּא יִשְׁפֹּט בְּצֶדֶק.
The angel also hinted to Jacob that the result of all of Laban's machinations were meant for Jacob to retain. This is why the Torah did not write: כל אשר עשה לך, "all that he is doing to you." The verse may be read thus: "all that Laban is doing--is yours." You are not a thief by keeping all these animals that are born with these skin patterns; the G'd who judges fairly has taken from the one and given to the other (the victim).
הַעוֹד לָנוּ וְגוֹ׳. כָּפְלוּ לוֹמַר חֵלֶק וְנַחֲלָה, לִרְמֹז שְׁנֵי דְּבָרִים: הָאֶחָד הוּא חֵלֶק הַנּוֹגֵעַ לָהֶם בִּירֻשַּׁת אִמָּם שֶׁכְּבָר מֵתָה, וְהַשֵּׁנִי נַחֲלַת אֲבִיהֶם. וְהֶחְלִיטוּ שֶׁאֵין לָהֶם תּוֹחֶלֶת מִשְּׁנֵיהֶם, וְהָרְאָיָה – ״הֲלֹא נָכְרִיּוֹת נֶחְשַׁבְנוּ לוֹ״, כְּבָר שֶׁמְּכָרָנוּ, זֶה לְךָ הָאוֹת שֶׁאֵין אָנוּ אֶצְלוֹ בְּמַדְרֵגַת בָּנִים, וּמִמֵּילָא יְצַו עֲלֵיהֶן לְבַל יִרְשׁוּ בּוֹ. הֲגַם שֶׁבְּמִשְׁפְּטֵי הַגּוֹיִם אֶפְשָׁר שֶׁהַבָּנוֹת יִרְשׁוּ, וְאוֹן יוֹכִיחַ, וּכְמַעֲשֵׂה רַבָּן שִׁמְעוֹן בֶּן גַּמְלִיאֵל וַאֲחוֹתוֹ (שבת קטז:).
העוד לנו חלק ונחלה, "Do we still have a share or an inheritance in our father's house?" When Rachel and Leah mentioned both חלק and נחלה they referred to two things. They referred to their maternal inheritance seeing that their mother had already died; they also referred to a potential inheritance from their father and concluded that they had no prospect of either. They cited as proof the fact that their father had considered them as strangers already at the time he had sold them. Their father had not considered them as his children for some time already. As a result, even though according to the laws of the Gentiles daughters stand to share in the inheritance, they felt they did not have such a chance.
וְאָמְרוֹ וַיֹּאכַל גַּם אָכוֹל – שְׁתֵּי אֲכִילוֹת: אַחַת יְרֻשַּׁת כְּתֻבַּת אִמָּם, וְהַשְּׁנִיָּה מַה שֶׁעָבַד יַעֲקֹב אַרְבַּע עֶשְׂרֵה שָׁנָה בַּעֲדָם.
When Rachel and Leah added: ויאכל גם אכול את כספנו, "he also consumed our wages," this refers to both the money of the marriage settlement of their mother and the value of the labour Jacob performed for fourteen years in order to marry them.
אֲשֶׁר הִצִּיל וְגוֹ׳ לָנוּ וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ: ה׳ הִצִּיל מָמוֹנֵנוּ שֶׁהוּא חַיָּב לָנוּ מִיָּדוֹ, שֶׁלְּשׁוֹן הַצָּלָה יֵאָמֵר עַל גְּזֵלָה מִגַּזְלָן, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ לָנוּ פֵּרוּשׁ: מִשֶּׁלָּנוּ שֶׁגָּזַל.
אשר הציל, who has saved, etc. They viewed G'd as having saved the money that their father had stolen from them. The expression הצלה is appropriate when used about saving stolen goods from the robber. When the Torah quotes Leah and Rachel as saying לנו, ours, they meant משלנו, "he stole it from us."
וַיִּגְנֹב וְגוֹ׳ עַל בְּלִי וְגוֹ׳. קָשֶׁה אֵיךְ יֻצְדַּק לוֹמַר אֵלָיו שֶׁהוּא בּוֹרֵחַ, שֶׁאוֹמֵר ״עַל בְּלִי הִגִּיד לוֹ כִּי בֹרֵחַ״. וְאוּלַי שֶׁהַכַּוָּנָה הִיא שֶׁנִּתְחַכֵּם יַעֲקֹב כְּשֶׁסִּפֵּר לְלָבָן כָּל מַעֲשָׂיו וְהַנְהָגוֹתָיו, הֶעְלִים מִמֶּנּוּ עָרְמַת הַבְּרִיחָה, וְהוֹסִיף לִשְׁלֹל אוֹתָהּ מִמֶּנּוּ בְּמַה שֶׁהָיָה שׁוֹאֵל מִמֶּנּוּ לְשַׁלְּחוֹ. בָּזֶה הָיָה מַצְדִּיק לָבָן כִּי לֹא יִבְרַח כְּלָל, שֶׁאִם לֹא כֵן לָמָּה הָיָה שׁוֹאֵל מִמֶּנּוּ שֶׁיְּשַׁלְּחֵהוּ, וּבָזֶה גָּנַב לִבּוֹ. וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וַיִּגְנֹב וְגוֹ׳, וּבַמֶּה גָּנַב? עַל סִבַּת שֶׁלֹּא הִגִּיד לוֹ בְּסִפּוּר מַעֲשָׂיו כִּי יַעֲרִים לִבְרֹחַ כְּשֶׁיִּצְטָרֵךְ לִבְרֹחַ. וּבָזֶה מָצִינוּ טַעַם בְּעִקַּר הוֹדָעַת כָּתוּב זֶה, שֶׁבָּא לוֹמַר טַעַם שֶׁבּוֹ הִשִּׂיג הַבְּרִיחָה, כִּי זוּלַת זֶה הָיָה נוֹתֵן לֵב לָבָן לִשְׁמֹר אוֹתוֹ מִלִּבְרֹחַ בְּאֵיזֶה אֹפֶן שֶׁיִּהְיֶה, אֶלָּא שֶׁגָּנַב לִבּוֹ וּבָזֶה מָצָא הֲכָנָה לֶאֱסֹף כָּל אֲשֶׁר יֶשׁ לוֹ וּבָרַח וְאֵין יוֹדֵעַ, וְהוּא שֶׁאָמַר סָמוּךְ לָזֶה ״וַיִּבְרַח הוּא וְכָל אֲשֶׁר לוֹ״ וְגוֹ׳, וְהָבֵן:
ויגנב יעקב את לב לבן הארמי, Jacob deceived Laban the Aramite, etc. It is difficult to justify the expression "fled" which is applied here to a departure without previous good-byes. Perhaps what is meant is that when Jacob gave Laban an accounting about all that he had done, etc., he concealed the fact that he intended to leave him. He presumably asked Laban to dismiss him, thus in effect telling Laban that he had no intention of leaving without a proper ceremony. Had Laban had the slightest notion that Jacob intended to take his family and leave without a send-off, he would have had him watched day and night. The successful flight was possible only because Jacob "stole" Laban's heart. Basically, our verse wanted to explain how it was that Jacob succeeded to depart unnoticed with all his family, herds and flocks.
דֶּרֶךְ שִׁבְעַת יָמִים. יֵשׁ לַחְקוֹר לָמָּה נִשְׁתַּנָּה יַעֲקֹב בַּהֲלִיכָה זוֹ שֶׁלֹּא קָפְצָה לוֹ הָאָרֶץ כְּמִשְׁפָּט לְאוֹהֲבֵי שְׁמוֹ, וּמָצִינוּ שֶׁאֲפִלּוּ לֶאֱלִיעֶזֶר עֶבֶד אָבִיו קָפְצָה לוֹ הָאָרֶץ (בראשית רבה נט,יא), וּמִן הַנָּכוֹן אֵלָיו יֵאוֹת עֲשׂוֹת גַּם לְהַצִּילוֹ מֵהָרוֹדֵף וְלֹא הָיָה מַשִּׂיגוֹ לָבָן. וְאוּלַי כִּי הִגִּיד לוֹ הָאָדוֹן בָּרוּךְ הוּא בָּזֶה שֶׁאֵין צָרִיךְ לִבְרֹחַ, כִּי הֲגַם שֶׁהִדְבִּיקוֹ לָבָן הֲיוּכַל דַּבֵּר דָּבָר אֵלָיו אֲפִלּוּ דִּבּוּר, וְזוּלַת זֶה הָיָה מַרְאֶה חָס וְשָׁלוֹם כִּי לֹא יָכוֹל הַצִּילוֹ מִיַּד לָבָן, וְגָדוֹל הַנֵּס הַזֶּה שֶׁהֲגַם שֶׁהוּא בַּעַל בְּחִירָה יִמָּנַע מֵעֲשׂוֹת בְּחִירָתוֹ בְּיַעֲקֹב.
דרך שבעת ימים. a distance of seven days. We must examine why the earth did not "fold" under Jacob on this occasion to facilitate his journey (in response to the urging of the angel) as it had done when he was on the way to Charan at the beginning of our פרשה. If the earth even "folded" for Eliezer, Abraham's servant at the time (as we know from Bereshit Rabbah 59,11), it would certainly have seemed appropriate that the same should happen to the righteous Jacob, especially since he then would have been out of danger of pursuit. Perhaps the failure of the earth to "fold" was a way of G'd telling Jacob that he did not need to flee, that even if Laban were to catch up with him he would not even be able to speak to him offensively or threateningly. Had G'd made the earth "fold" for him, Jacob might have thought that G'd had no other means of putting him out of Laban's reach. If G'd had not spoken to Laban even קפיצת הדרך would not have sufficed to allow Jacob to escape Laban and his sons. The greatness of the miracle was that although Laban possessed freedom of choice he was prevented from exercising it against Jacob.
גַּם בָּזֶה ה׳ סִבֵּב כַּמָּה סִבּוּבִין כְּרִיתַת בְּרִית עִמּוֹ לְבַל יַזִּיק, שֶׁבְּאֶמְצָעוּת הַדָּבָר נִתְגַּבְּרוּ עָלָיו יִשְׂרָאֵל בִּימֵי הַשּׁוֹפְטִים כְּשֶׁבָּא עֲלֵיהֶם וְהוּא כּוּשַׁן רִשְׁעָתַיִם כְּמַאֲמָרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (סנהדרין קה.). גַּם מִזֶּה נִמְשַׁךְ קְבוּרַת רָחֵל בַּמָּקוֹם הַהוּא כְּדֵי שֶׁתִּהְיֶה לְטוֹבָה אוֹת בְּגָלוּת בָּנֶיהָ, כְּאָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה כא) בְּטַעַם קְבוּרָתָהּ שָׁמָּה:
The fact that G'd chose not to let the earth "fold" for Jacob on this occasion also became important historically. It led to Rachel being buried in a place where her prayers would intercede on behalf of the Jewish people going into exile, Midrash Hagadol Vayishlach 35,18; according to Sanhedrin 105 Laban is identical with Bileam and Cushan Rishotayim who attacked the Israelites in the time of Othniel. If the Israelites defeated him (Judges 3,10) it may have been because he breached the covenant that Jacob and Laban concluded at Galed. Had the encounter of Laban and Jacob not taken place at that time, there would not have been a breach of an agreement not to attack the descendants of Jacob in their own country.
וְעַתָּה הָלוֹךְ וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ, לֶהֱיוֹת שֶׁמִּקּוֹדֶם קִבֵּל עָלָיו לָמָּה נֶחְבָּא לִבְרוֹחַ שֶׁמַּחֲזִיקוֹ כְּבוֹרֵחַ, וְאַחַר כָּךְ חָזַר לוֹמַר ״וְעַתָּה״, פֵּרוּשׁ, לְשׁוֹן תְּשׁוּבָה, כְּאָמְרָם זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה כא), וְהַכַּוָּנָה: וְאִם תְּשִׁיבֵנִי דָּבָר כִּי לֹא בָרַחְתָּ אֶלָּא ״הָלוֹךְ״ כְּדֶרֶךְ הֲלִיכָה הָלַכְתָּ, כִּי נִכְסוֹף נִכְסַפְתָּה וְגוֹ׳, וְלֹא כְּמוֹ שֶׁאָמַרְתִּי לְךָ בְּדֶרֶךְ בְּרִיחָה, אִם כֵּן לָמָּה גָנַבְתָּ אֶת אֱלֹהָי? אֶלָּא וַדַּאי כִּי לְצַד שֶׁהוּא הַמַּגִּיד, לְחַשְׁשַׁת שֶׁמָּא יוֹדִיעֵנִי וְיַגִּיד לִי שֶׁהָלַכְתָּ, גָּנַבְתָּ אוֹתוֹ, וְזֶה לְךָ הָאוֹת שֶׁבָּרַחְתָּ.
ועתה הלוך הלכת, "When you left now, etc." Laban said: "since you have previously expressed your longing to see your father again, why did you choose to leave now in such a way that it looked like a flight?" Laban was leading up to what he expected Jacob's defence to be, namely that he was anxious to see his father. If so, he argued, why did you have to steal my תרפים, charms? Surely this makes your entire departure appear like a flight! You must have been afraid that the תרפים would reveal your where-abouts to me!
וַיַּעַן יַעֲקֹב וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ, אֵין אֲנִי מַכְחִישׁ שֶׁבָּרַחְתִּי, וּמַה שֶׁאָמַרְתָּ ״לָמָּה״ וְגוֹ׳, כִּי יָרֵאתִי מִמְּךָ שֶׁמָּא תִּגְזֹל וְגוֹ׳, וּמַה שֶׁהִתְבּוֹנַנְתָּ לוֹמַר כִּי לְסִבָּה זוֹ גָּנַבְתִּי אֱלֹהֶיךָ לְבַל יַגִּיד, לָזֶה עָנָה ״עִם אֲשֶׁר״ וְגוֹ׳, כִּי טַעֲנָה זוֹ שֶׁל גְּנֵבַת הַתְּרָפִים כִּי זֶה יַגִּיד שֶׁבּוֹרֵחַ הוּא הִיא טַעֲנָה הַנִּשְׁמַעַת, לָזֶה נִשְׁבַּע לוֹ עָלֶיהָ בִּקְלָלָה כְּדִין הַמַּחֲרִים עַל הַסָּפֵק.
ויען יעקב, Jacob replied, etc. Jacob said: "I do not deny that I fled. As to the reason why, 'I was afraid you would steal your daughters from me by force. As to your argument that I stole the תרפים so that they could not reveal my whereabouts to you, I swear that whoever has taken them shall not live.'" Jacob committed the fatal error of uttering a curse based on partial information.
לֹא יִחְיֶה. כְּדִין בֶּן נֹחַ, וְאִם תֹּאמַר אֵין צָרִיךְ לְאָמְרָהּ הֲלֹא מִשְׁפָּטוֹ חָרוּץ, נִתְכַּוֵּן לוֹמַר שֶׁאֵין לוֹ טַעֲנָה לוֹמַר כִּי נְתוּנִים הֵמָּה לוֹ אוֹ שְׁכוּחִים הֵמָּה אֶצְלוֹ:
לא יחיה, "he shall not live!" Jacob applied the legal yardsticks applicable to all Gentiles, i.e. the death penalty. Should you argue that there was no need to spell out the penalty seeing everybody knew what the penalty for stealing was, Jacob wanted to emphasise that he would not plead that he had received these תרפים as a gift or had simply forgotten to return them.
וַיִּחַר לְיַעֲקֹב וַיָּרֶב. פֵּרוּשׁ, לְצַד שֶׁבָּא לִכְלַל כַּעַס בָּא לִכְלַל מְרִיבָה, וְזוּלַת זֶה לֹא הָיָה מֵרִיב.
ויחר ליעקב וירב, Jacob then grew angry and argued, etc. The Torah stresses that Jacob's quarrelling was the direct result of his becoming angry. Otherwise he would not have started a quarrel.
וַיָּרֶב בְּלָבָן. פֵּרוּשׁ, בְּעֵרֶךְ לָבָן הָיָה הַדָּבָר נִכָּר שֶׁהוּא מְרִיבָה, אֲבָל אִם הָיוּ הַדְּבָרִים לְאָדָם אַחֵר לֹא תִקָּרֵא מְרִיבָה. וְכֵן תִּמְצָא שֶׁאָמְרוּ זִכְרוֹנָם לִבְרָכָה (בראשית רבה ע״ד) וְזֶה לְשׁוֹנָם: קַפְדָנוּתָם שֶׁל אָבוֹת וְלֹא עַנְוְתָנוּתָן שֶׁל בָּנִים וְכוּ׳ פִּיּוּסִים יַעֲקֹב מְפַיֵּס לְחָמִיו״ וְכוּ׳ עַד כָּאן. וְזֶה מְכֻוָּן לִדְבָרֵינוּ. וְאוּלַי יְכַוֵּן עוֹד שֶׁלֹּא רָב עִמּוֹ בִּכְנוּפְיַת אֲנָשִׁים אֶלָּא בְּיִחוּד עִמּוֹ, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ וַיָּרֶב בְּלָבָן פֵּרוּשׁ: בְּיִחוּד עִמּוֹ שֶׁלֹּא יִכָּלֵם בְּתוֹכַחְתּוֹ.
וירב בלבן. He quarrelled with Laban. The meaning of the word בלבן is to show that this argument was considered as a quarrel only in the eyes of Laban. Anyone else would not have considered Jacob's justified argument a quarrel. In Bereshit Rabbah 74,10 Rabbi Azaryah describes this irritability of the patriarchs as preferable to the humility of subsequent generations of their descendants. He describes Jacob's conduct as conciliatory. Jacob pointed out that it was no more than fair that a son-in-law makes use of his father-in-law's utensils once in a while, etc. The approach by Rabbi Azaryah closely reflects what we have said. Perhaps the Torah also had in mind to tell us that Jacob quarrelled "with Laban," i.e. when the two were not overheard, were in the privacy of his tent. He did not humiliate Laban by complaining to him in public.
מַה פִּשְׁעִי וְגוֹ׳. פֵּירוּשׁ: בִּשְׁלָמָא אִם מִיָּמֶיךָ מָצָאתָ בִּי עָוֶל שֶׁפָּשַׁעְתִּי לְךָ, כִּיעוּר זֶה שֶׁל הַגְּנֵיבָה בְּפֶשַׁע, וְלֹא לְבַד בְּפֶשַׁע אֶלָּא אֲפִילוּ בְּשׁוֹגֵג, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ מַה חַטָּאתִי שֶׁתַּחְשְׁדֵנִי בְּגַנָּב. וְגִלָּה דַּעְתּוֹ יַעֲקֹב כִּי טַעַם הַקְפָּדָתוֹ הָיְתָה שֶׁרָאָהוּ מְמַשֵּׁשׁ כָּל נְכָסָיו וְכֵלָיו, וּלְצַד הֶעְדֵּר יְדִיעָתוֹ בִּגְנֵיבַת הַתְּרָפִים יַחְשׁוֹב כִּי לֹא הָיָה מְחַפֵּשׂ חִיפּוּשׁ מְחוּפָּשׂ אֶלָּא לִרְאוֹת אִם לָקַח דְּבַר מָה מִשֶּׁלּוֹ, וְהֶעֱרִים לוֹמַר שֶׁגָּנְבוּ לוֹ תְּרָפָיו שֶׁיִּהְיֶה לוֹ סִבָּה לְחַפֵּשׂ בְּכָל הַמְּקוֹמוֹת. לָזֶה הוֹכִיחוֹ מִנַּיִן נִכְנַס לוֹ צַד הַסָּפֵק בּוֹ שֶׁהוּצְרַךְ לְחַפֵּשׂ.
מה פשעי, מה חטאתי, "what intentional or even unintentional sin against you am I guilty of?" Jacob meant that if during the last twenty years Laban ever had occasion to fault him for an intentional or even an unintentional trespass against him, he could understand why Laban was suspicious of him now. Seeing that he had never given Laban any reason to suspect him of wrong-doing why would he do so now? Jacob also alluded to Laban's manner of searching his belongings. The way Laban had examined every last one of Jacob's belongings clearly indicated that he hoped to find not only his Teraphim but other triviae that Jacob might have stolen from him. Laban had used the disappearance of his Teraphim only as a pretext to conduct a thorough search of all of Jacob's belongings. Jacob challenged Laban's right to have done so.
מִשַּׁשְׁתָּ אֶת כָּל וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ, אֲפִלּוּ כֵּלִים שֶׁאֵין בָּהֶם מֵחוּשׁ תְּרָפִים, כְּמוֹ שֶׁתֹּאמַר כֵּלִים שֶׁהֵם קְטַנִּים מֵהַתְּרָפִים, אוֹ הַמָּשָׁל שֶׁהָיָה מְחַפֵּשׂ בִּכְרִיכוֹת שֶׁיָּכוֹל לְהַכִּיר מִבַּחוּץ שֶׁאֵין בָּהֶם תְּרָפִים, הָא לָמַדְתָּ שֶׁחֲשָׁדוֹ בִּלְקִיחַת כֵּלִים.
מששת את כל כלי, "you have handled all my utensils." You have examined items that could not be remotely capable of concealing your Teraphim, such as utensils which are much smaller than your Teraphim.
מַה מָּצָאתָ מִכֹּל וְגוֹ׳. פֵּרוּשׁ, מִכָּל מִינֵי כְּלֵי בֵיתְךָ בְּדוֹמִים שֶׁיִּכָּנֵס לְךָ בּוֹ הַסָּפֵק לוֹמַר כִּי הוּא שֶׁלְּךָ.
מה מצאת מכל כלי ביתך, "which, if any of your own utensils did you find?" Did you even find a single utensil that could arouse the doubt that it was one of yours?
שִׂים כֹּה נֶגֶד וְגוֹ׳. הַכַּוָּנָה בָּזֶה לֶהֱיוֹת שֶׁמִּקּוֹדֶם כְּשֶׁטָּעַן שֶׁבָּא לְבַקֵּשׁ הַתְּרָפִים אָמַר אֵלָיו ״הַכֶּר לְךָ מָה עִמָּדִי וְקַח לָךְ״, לְחָשְׁבוֹ כִּי אֵין מְבֻקָּשׁוֹ אֶלָּא תְּרָפָיו, וּכְשֶׁרָאָהוּ שֶׁהָיָה מְחַפֵּשׂ וּמְדַקְדֵּק בְּכָל דָּבָר וְדָבָר, אָמַר: הָא וַדַּאי שֶׁזֶּה חוֹשְׁדֵנִי, וּכְמוֹ שֶׁכָּתַבְתִּי לְמַעְלָה, וְכָל הַפּוֹסֵל בְּמוּמוֹ הוּא פּוֹסֵל, וְהִנֵּה הוּא נוֹתֵן עֵינָיו לָבֹא בַּעֲלִילָה. לָזֶה אָמַר אֵלָיו: שִׂים כֹּה נֶגֶד אַחַי וְאַחֶיךָ וְיוֹכִיחוּ, פֵּרוּשׁ, לֵאמֹר סִימָנִים יַצְדִּיקוּ, וְלֹא הֶאֱמִין בַּאֲחֵי לָבָן לְבַדָּם כִּי כֻלָּם כַּיּוֹצֵא בוֹ.
שים כה נגד אחי, "place it here in the presence of my brothers, etc." Jacob referred to his having invited Laban in verse 32 to "identify anything of his that he would find." At that time Jacob had still believed that Laban was only interested in locating his Teraphim. This is why he had given him permission to search. In the meantime he found out that Laban had indeed suspected him of thievery. We have written earlier that villains have a tendency of suspecting others of being guilty of the same crimes they themselves are guilty of. Since Laban was a thief, it was natural for him to think of others as thieves also. Jacob now had reason to believe that Laban would claim as his what was really Jacob's. This is why he demanded that Laban display all such items and then proceed to identify them by describing them in minute detail while not looking at them. He was not willing to accept the opinion of Laban's brothers as corroboration of any of his claims, but wanted his own people to be present.
זֶה עֶשְׂרִים וְגוֹ׳. טַעַם אָמְרוֹ עֶשְׂרִים שָׁנָה, כִּי לְצַד זְמַן מוּעָט יִשְׁתַּמֵּר הַגַּנָּב וְהָרַמַּאי מֵעֲשׂוֹת רַע, אֲבָל לֹא לְאֹרֶךְ הַזְּמַן, לָזֶה אָמַר זֶה עֶשְׂרִים שָׁנָה וְכֻלָּם שָׁוִים לְטוֹבָה. וְדָבָר זֶה אֵין לָקַחַת מִמֶּנּוּ הוֹכָחָה אִם הָיָה יַעֲקֹב עִם אָדָם בִּלְתִּי מַרְגִּישׁ בְּרַמָּאוּת, לָזֶה אָמַר עִמָּךְ – הֲרָאִיתָ בִּי מִיָּמֶיךָ עָוֶל, וְהוֹכִיחַ הוֹכָחוֹת מוֹכִיחוֹת כַּאֲשֶׁר אֲבָאֵר בְּסִיַּעְתָּא דִשְׁמַיָּא:
זה עשרים שנה, וג׳ "These twenty years, etc." The reason Jacob mentioned "twenty years" was that a thief or swindler would be on guard for a relatively short time not to commit any crimes. It is not in the nature of thieves to control their natural inclination for a long period of time. Jacob therefore wanted to show that the fact he had not stolen anything for such a long period should have made it plain that he was not a thief by nature. He underlined this by the word עמך, with you; He meant you have had plenty of opportunity to observe me commit a misdemeanour. When did I ever do so?
רְחֵלֶיךָ וְעִזֶּיךָ וְגוֹ׳. צָרִיךְ לָדַעַת כַּוָּנַת יַעֲקֹב בָּזֶה, אִם לוֹמַר פְּרָטֵי הַהַצְלָחָה – אֵין זֶה מְקוֹמָן שֶׁל דְּבָרִים אֵלּוּ. גַּם אָמְרוֹ וְאֵילֵי צֹאנְךָ וְגוֹ׳ מִי יַנִּיחֵהוּ לְאָכְלָן, וְאִם לֹא יָדַע אָדָם וְעַד עַתָּה מִי יָעִיד עַל הַדָּבָר?
רחליך ועזיך, "your ewes and your she-goats did not miscarry." We have to explore what Jacob meant by citing this detail. If he merely wanted to call attention to his success in managing Laban's flock, this is not the appropriate place for such a comment. He also referred to אילי צאנך, וג׳, "the rams of your flocks, etc." Who would have suspected Jacob of eating those? Moreover, if no one had knowledge of Jacob doing any such thing previously, who would step forward after all these years to testify against him?
אָכֵן כַּוָּנַת יַעֲקֹב הִיא לֶהֱיוֹת כִּי דֶּרֶךְ רוֹעֶה גַּנָּב יִתְחַכֵּם לִגְנוֹב בְּאָמְרוֹ כִּי לֹא כָּל הַצֹּאן יָלְדוּ, מֵהֶם יָלְדוּ וּמֵהֶם שִׁכְּלוּ, וְלוֹקְחִים לְעַצְמָם. וּמֵעַתָּה הוֹכָחָה גְּדוֹלָה אָמְרוֹ יַעֲקֹב רְחֵלֶיךָ וְעִזֶּיךָ לֹא שִׁכֵּלוּ, וּבָזֶה אֵין מָקוֹם לַחֲשָׁד שֶׁאָכַלְתִּי וְכוּ׳, שֶׁאִם הָיָה חָפֵץ לֶאֱכוֹל מִשֶּׁלּוֹ הָיָה לוֹ מָקוֹם לוֹמַר לוֹ כָּךְ וְכָךְ שִׁכְּלוּ מֵהַצֹּאן. וּמֵה׳ הָיָה הַדָּבָר לִשְׁמוֹר חֲסִידוֹ מֵחֲשָׁד, וְלֹא שִׁכְּלָה אַחַת מִצֹּאנוֹ כְּדֵי שֶׁלֹּא יַחְשְׁדֶנּוּ שֶׁאֲכָלוֹ.
Jacob contrasted his own behaviour with that common amongst other shepherds. They all steal and account for the missing numbers by attributing them to animals miscarrying, whereas in reality they appropriated such lambs for themselves. Jacob now cited the fact that he had never even claimed that any of Laban's ewes or she-goats had miscarried as proof that he could not have stolen any of these animals. He could therefore not be accused of having eaten any of these animals himself. All his success had been due to G'd who had not allowed a single miscarriage to occur in order that Jacob could not be suspected of dishonesty.
וְטַעַם אָמְרוֹ אֵילֵי צֹאנְךָ, הַתּוֹרָה הוֹצִיאָה גְּדִי בִּלְשׁוֹן אַיִל לִלְמֹד מִכָּאן גְּדִי בֶּן יוֹמוֹ קָרוּי אַיִל. וְאוּלַי יְכַוֵּן עַל פִּי מַה שֶׁכָּתַב הָרַמְבָּ״ם בְּהִלְכוֹת גְּזֵלָה (הלכות גזלה ואבידה ב:יד) וְזֶה לְשׁוֹנוֹ: הַגּוֹזֵל טָלֶה וְנַעֲשָׂה אַיִל וְכוּ׳ הֲוֵי שִׁנּוּי בְּיָדוֹ וּקְנָאוֹ אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁלֹּא נִתְיָאֲשׁוּ הַבְּעָלִים, עַד כָּאן. לָזֶה נִתְכַּוֵּן לוֹמַר שֶׁאֲפִלּוּ בְּדֶרֶךְ שֶׁאֵין יָכוֹל לְהוֹצִיאוֹ מִיָּדוֹ כְּפִי הַדִּין לֹא עָשָׂה, פֵּרוּשׁ שֶׁלֹּא גָּזַל מִמֶּנּוּ גְּדִי וְגָדַל אֶצְלוֹ וְנַעֲשָׂה אַיִל, וּכְשֶׁהֶחְזִיר לוֹ הֶחְזִיר גְּדִי, וְנִמְצָא אָכַל מַה שֶׁגָּדַל וְנַעֲשָׂה אַיִל.
The reason that he mentioned "the rams of your flocks" is to teach us that the Torah considers a male baby lamb already as a ram when it has only just been born. Perhaps Jacob referred to a legal point mentioned by Maimonides Hilchot Gezeylah chapter 2, according to which if someone stole a lamb and it developed into a ram (grew up while in the thief's care) the thief has acquired it [legally speaking, this means primarily that he is responsible for its wellbeing. Ed.], the original owners not being able to reclaim the same animal as compensation. This rule applies even when the owners had not given up hope of retrieving the same animal. Jacob told Laban that even when the circumstances would have been such that he could have legally kept an animal for himself, he did not avail himself of the legality of the matter but acted strictly according to what his conscience dictated to him as being correct moral behaviour. He could have returned lambs to Laban instead of fully grown animals; however he returned fully grown ones if perchance an accident had happened to one of the young animals under his care. He did not even "consume" the difference in value between a lamb and a fully grown ram.
טְרֵפָה לֹא וְגוֹ׳. קָשֶׁה אֵיךְ יֻצְדַּק לוֹמַר בְּדָבָר שֶׁנִּטְרַף לְשׁוֹן הֲבָאָה? עוֹד לָמָּה כָּפַל לוֹמַר אָנֹכִי אֲחַטֶּנָּה מִיָּדִי תְּבַקְשֶׁנָּה אִם הוּא הָיָה מְשַׁלְּמָהּ, מַה מָקוֹם לְבַקְּשָׁהּ מִיָּדוֹ?
טרפה לא הבאתי אליך, "I did not bring you those torn by wild animals, etc." How does the expression הבאה, bringing, fit the situation of an animal torn by wild beasts? Also, why did he repeat: "They were my loss, you collected from me?"
אָכֵן כַּוָּנַת יַעֲקֹב הִיא לוֹמַר, בֵּין דָּבָר שֶׁהוּא חַיָּב בּוֹ כְּפִי הַדִּין בֵּין דָּבָר שֶׁהוּא פָּטוּר לָקַח מִמֶּנּוּ לָבָן, וְדִקְדֵּק לוֹמַר ״טְרֵפָה״ כְּנֶגֶד זְאֵב, וְדִקְדֵּק לוֹמַר ״לֹא הֵבֵאתִי״ כְּנֶגֶד דְּרוּסַת אֲרִי, וּכְמוֹ כֵן תִּמְצָא בִּלְשׁוֹן חֲכָמִים בְּמַסֶּכֶת מְצִיעָא (בבא מציעא צג.) וְזֶה לְשׁוֹנָם: תָּנוּ רַבָּנָן: שׁוֹמֵר שֶׁהִנִּיחַ עֶדְרוֹ וּבָא לָעִיר, וּבָא אֲרִי וְדָרַס זְאֵב וְטָרַף, עַד כָּאן, אָמְרוּ לְשׁוֹן טְרֵפָה בִּזְאֵב כִּי טוֹרֵף וּבוֹרֵחַ לְצַד שֶׁמְּפַחֵד, מַה שֶׁאֵין כֵּן הָאֲרִי שֶׁבִּמְקוֹם שֶׁמּוֹצְאָהּ דּוֹרְסָהּ שָׁם וְאוֹכְלָהּ וּמַנִּיחַ שָׁם עוֹר וּפֶרֶשׁ. וּכְמוֹ כֵן רָמַז יַעֲקֹב שְׁנֵי עִנְיָנִים בְּאָמְרוֹ ״טְרֵפָה״ כְּנֶגֶד זְאֵב, ״לֹא הֵבֵאתִי״ כְּנֶגֶד אֲרִי שֶׁמַּנִּיחַ עוֹר וּפֶרֶשׁ שֶׁמַּנִּיחַ בִּדְרִיסָה. וְאָמַר אָנֹכִי אֲחַטֶּנָּה כְּנֶגֶד גָּדֵר שֶׁהוּא חַיָּב בּוֹ, שֶׁהוּא טְרֵפַת זְאֵב, כְּגוֹן זְאֵב אֶחָד שֶׁאֵינוֹ אוֹנֶס וְחַיָּב שׁוֹמֵר שָׂכָר (בבא מציעא עב.). וְאָמַר מִיָּדִי תְּבַקְשֶׁנָּה כְּנֶגֶד גָּדֵר שֵׁנִי שֶׁהוּא דְּרוּסַת אֲרִי, שֶׁאֵין חִיּוּב עַל יַעֲקֹב לְשַׁלֵּם שֶׁהוּא אוֹנֶס וּפָטוּר, אֶלָּא שֶׁהָרָשָׁע הָיָה מִתְאַלֵּם עָלָיו וּמְבַקֵּשׁ גַּם אֶת זֹאת מִיַּעֲקֹב. וּכְפִי זֶה נִזְרְקָה רוּחַ הַקֹּדֶשׁ בְּדִבְרֵי רַשִׁ״י זִכְרוֹנוֹ לִבְרָכָה שֶׁכָּתַב וְזֶה לְשׁוֹנוֹ: טְרֵפָה וְכוּ׳ עַל יְדֵי אֲרִי וּזְאֵב, עַד כָּאן, וִיכַוֵּן לִדְבָרֵינוּ וְנָכוֹן.
Jacob pointed out to Laban that he took compensation from him for something that he was legally liable for as well as for losses for which Jacob was not legally liable at all. He spelled out טרפה as an example of losses due to wolves, and: "I did not bring you," as examples of losses due to attacks by a lion. We find the following statement in Baba Metzia 93: "When a shepherd or trustee abandons the animals under his care by making a trip to the city, and a lion came and trampled an animal to death, or a wolf came and tore an animal, etc." We see that different animals cause death by different methods. A wolf leaves the scene of where he caused harm immediately, whereas the lion kills his prey and remains at that site until he has devoured it. He leaves only the skin and the dung. Similarly, Jacob alluded to these two kinds of predators. He added: אנכי אחטנה, concerning the fence for which he was responsible. Had there been a single wolf, proper fencing in of the animals would have prevented such an attack; therefore the paid keeper is responsible for such damage (Baba Metzia 72). Jacob referred to the other kind of fence, i.e. one that is trampled on by the lion, something for which the shepherd is not responsible. Laban took no notice of these distinctions and insisted on compensation from Jacob regardless of the cause of the damage he suffered. Rashi must been inspired by the Holy Spirit when he gave this explanation. He had the same thing in mind as we have have just elaborated on.
וְאָמְרוֹ גְּנֻבְתִי יוֹם וְגוֹ׳, נִתְכַּוֵּן גַּם כֵּן בְּעִנְיַן נִזְקֵי בְּנֵי אָדָם, שֶׁהָיָה מְשַׁלֵּם בֵּין מַה שֶׁהוּא חַיָּב הַשּׁוֹמֵר שָׂכָר בֵּין מַה שֶׁאֵינוֹ חַיָּב, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ גְּנֻבְתִי יוֹם וּגְנֻבְתִי לָיְלָה, פֵּרוּשׁ גְּנֻבְתִי – הַגְּנֵבָה לִי הָיְתָה מַגַּעַת גַּם בְּצַד הַפְּטוּר.
When Jacob added: גנובתי יום וגנובתי לילה, "regardless of whether it was stolen from me by day or by night," he referred to damage incurred through hostile humans; in either case Jacob paid, whether he was legally responsible or not, such as when it was stolen at night.
לוּלֵי אֱלֹהֵי אָבִי וְגוֹ׳. טַעַם שֶׁלֹּא הִסְפִּיק לוֹמַר ״אֱלֹהֵי אָבִי אַבְרָהָם״, נִתְכַּוֵּן לוֹמַר שְׁנֵי עִנְיָנִים: אֶחָד, לִהְיוֹתוֹ אֱלֹהֵי אָבִי עָמַד לִי וְהִצִּילַנִי מִיָּדְךָ בִּזְכוּת אָבִי. וְהַשֵּׁנִי, לִהְיוֹתוֹ בַּעַל הַיְּכֹלֶת וּמַשְׁגִּיחַ וְשׁוֹפֵט בְּצֶדֶק וּמַצִּיל עָשׁוּק, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ אֱלֹהֵי אַבְרָהָם, פֵּרוּשׁ: אֱלֹהֵי שֶׁפִּרְסֵם אֱלֹהוּתוֹ וַאֲמִתָּתוֹ אַבְרָהָם וְהוֹדִיעַ בָּעוֹלָם נוֹרְאוֹתָיו, אֲשֶׁר הוּא הַבּוֹרֵא הוּא הַמַּשְׁפִּיעַ וְשׁוֹפֵט בְּצֶדֶק, וְזוּלַת זֶה אִם הָיָה לְאָבִי אֱלֹהִים אַחֵר לֹא הָיָה מַצִּיל מִיָּדְךָ, כִּי כַּמָּה אֱלֹהוֹת יֵשׁ שֶׁלֹּא יוֹעִילוּ לְעוֹבְדֵיהֶם, אֵין כֵּאלֹהֵינוּ בָּרוּךְ הוּא.
31.42. לולי אלוקי אבי…היה לי, "Were it not for the fact that my father's G'd the G'd of Abraham helped me, etc." The reason Jacob did not merely say "the G'd of my father Abraham," and chose to repeat the word G'd, was twofold. 1) He meant to say "firstly my father's G'd stood by me because of my father's merits." 2) It was due to the unlimited power of G'd who supervised my fate personally so that I was able to salvage my earnings. When Jacob said: אלוקי אברהם, he meant that it had been Abraham who had spread the fame of that G'd and acquainted mankind with His truth. He demonstrated to the world that G'd judges fairly. Jacob implied that if his father had worshiped a different god such a god could not have saved him.
עוֹד יְכַוֵּן לוֹמַר עַל זֶה הַדֶּרֶךְ אֱלֹהֵי אָבִי כְּנֶגֶד זְכוּת אָבוֹת, וְאַחַר כָּךְ הִזְכִּיר שְׁתֵּי מִדּוֹת שֶׁהָיוּ לוֹ שֶׁעָמְדוּ לוֹ, שֶׁהֵם מִדַּת הַחֶסֶד וּמִדַּת הַדִּין. כְּנֶגֶד מִדַּת הַחֶסֶד אָמַר אֱלֹהֵי אַבְרָהָם, כְּאָמְרוֹ (מיכה ז:כ) ״חֶסֶד לְאַבְרָהָם״, וּכְנֶגֶד מִדַּת הַדִּין אָמַר וּפַחַד יִצְחָק. וְלָזֶה לֹא אָמַר אֱלֹהֵי יִצְחָק, לִרְמֹז עַל הַמִּדָּה שֶׁנִּתְכַּוֵּן לָהּ, וְזוּלַת זֶה הָיָה אוֹמֵר אֱלֹהֵי יִצְחָק, שֶׁהֲרֵי מָצִינוּ שֶׁה׳ אָמַר לוֹ (בראשית כח:יג) ״אֱלֹהֵי יִצְחָק״. וְטַעַם שֶׁהִזְכִּיר שְׁתֵּי מִדּוֹת אֵלּוּ לוֹמַר כִּי הִפְלִיא חַסְדּוֹ עִמּוֹ, וְגַם עָשָׂה לוֹ מִשְׁפָּט עִם לָבָן, שֶׁהֵם שְׁתֵּי מִדּוֹת, וְזוּלַת אֶחָד מֵהֶם לֹא הָיָה מַגִּיעוֹ הַטּוֹב לְיַעֲקֹב.
Jacob had an additional thought when he spoke about "אלוקי אבי" (in addition to אלוקי אברהם). First he spoke about the "G'd of my father," i.e. the merit of his fathers, which assisted him. In the case of Abraham this was the merit of חסד, Abraham's outstanding virtue (compare Micha 7,20). In the case of his father Isaac it was the virtue of justice referred to by Jacob as פחד יצחק, "the One whom Isaac stood in awe of." Jacob refrained from saying אלוקי יצחק in order to be able to allude to his father's outstanding virtue. We find G'd Himself referring to אלוקי יצחק in Genesis 28,14. Jacob mentioned both attributes to illustrate the fact that G'd had done outstanding kindness for him and had also helped him to obtain justice from Laban. Unless G'd had employed both these attributes Jacob would not have attained all that he had.
אֶת עָנְיִי וגו׳. פֵּירוּשׁ, שֶׁאִם לֹא הָיָה לוֹ הָעֹנִי, הֲגַם שֶׁהָיָה הָאֱמֶת אִתּוֹ, הָיָה ה׳ מַאֲרִיךְ אַפּוֹ וְלָתֵת לוֹ שְׂכָרוֹ לָעוֹלָם הָעֶלְיוֹן, וּלְצַד עָנְיוֹ קִיֵּם לוֹ ה׳ (דברים כד:טו) ״בְּיוֹמוֹ תִתֵּן שְׂכָרוֹ״ וְנָתַן לוֹ יְגִיעַ כַּפּוֹ.
את עניי ואת יגיע כפי, "my misery and my handiwork." Jacob meant that had it not been for the misery he had suffered G'd would have paid him his reward only in the Hereafter even though he was entitled to it here and now. It was only because of the anguish Jacob experienced that G'd paid him his deserts already now and paid him what was due to him for the labour he had performed (compare Deut. 24,15).
וַיַּעַן לָבָן וְגוֹ׳. אָמְרוֹ ״וַיַּעַן״ תְּשׁוּבָה לְאָמְרוֹ ״שִׂים כֹּה נֶגֶד וְגוֹ׳ וְיוֹכִיחוּ״, לָזֶה עָנָה כִּי אֵינוֹ חָפֵץ לְהַכְלִים בָּנָיו וּבְנוֹתָיו וְלֹא יַעֲמֹד לְמִשְׁפָּט עִמָּהֶם, וְהֵן הֵן רַמָּאוּתָיו לוֹמַר כִּי יוֹכִיחַ שֶׁהָאֱמֶת אִתּוֹ אֶלָּא שֶׁאֵינוֹ עוֹשֶׂה לְצַד כְּבוֹד בָּנָיו וּבְנוֹתָיו.
ויען לבן, Laban replied, etc. The word ויען is meant as the answer to Jacob's challenge to display and identify items Laban considered that Jacob had stolen from him. He said that he did not want to embarass his sons and daughters and would not conduct legal proceedings. His own children could testify to Jacob's trickery; however he did not think it seemly to involve his children in testifying against their husbands and father.
עוֹד רָמַז שֶׁאֵיךְ יִצְטַדֵּק בְּטַעֲנָתוֹ כְּשֶׁיֹּאמַר כְּלֵי בֵיתִי הֵם אֵלּוּ, פְּשִׁיטָא שֶׁיּוֹתֵר יָדַע יַעֲקֹב בְּסִימָנֵי כְּלֵי לָבָן מִמֶּנּוּ, וְהַטַּעַם כִּי הַבָּנוֹת בְּנוֹתַי וְהֵם בְּקִיאִים בְּסִימָנֵי הַכֵּלִים וְכַדּוֹמֶה יוֹתֵר מִמֶּנִּי לֶהֱיוֹתָם תָּמִיד מִשְׁתַּמְּשִׁים בָּהֶם.
He also hinted that the challenge of identifying household goods by mentioning specific details placed him at a disadvantage versus Jacob; the latter would certainly be far more familiar with them and be able to identify any special marks seeing the users were his own daughters who by virtue of using them knew more about them than he, Laban did.
עוֹד יִרְצֶה לְהָשִׁיב עַל שֶׁמִּשֵּׁשׁ כָּל כֵּלָיו, כִּי לְצַד שֶׁהַכֹּל הוּא מַחְשִׁיבוֹ כְּאִלּוּ שֶׁלּוֹ, לְצַד שֶׁהַבָּנוֹת בְּנוֹתָיו וְגוֹ׳, וְהַכֹּל שֶׁלּוֹ, הָיָה עוֹשֶׂה כְּאָדָם הָעוֹשֶׂה בְּשֶׁלּוֹ, כִּי אִלּוּ הָיָה מַחְשִׁיב אוֹתוֹ לְאִישׁ נָכְרִי לֹא הָיָה עוֹשֶׂה כֵן.
As to Jacob's charging that the manner of the search was demeaning, all that he Laban had done was examine things which were possessions of his own daughters, i.e. he felt at home in the tents of his daughters. Jacob had no reason to get upset about this.
וְלִבְנוֹתַי וְגוֹ׳ לָאֵלֶּה וְגוֹ׳. תֵּיבַת ״לָאֵלֶּה״ אֵין לָהּ מַשְׁמָעוּת. וְאוּלַי שֶׁחוֹזֵר אֶל ״כָּל אֲשֶׁר אַתָּה רוֹאֶה״, וְשִׁעוּר הַכָּתוּב הוּא עַל זֶה הַדֶּרֶךְ: וְלִבְנוֹתַי, פֵּרוּשׁ וּלְצַד בְּנוֹתַי, מָה אֲנִי יָכוֹל לַעֲשׂוֹת לְאֵלֶּה הַנְּכָסִים גַּם לְצַד בְּנֵיהֶם. אוֹ יִרְצֶה עַל זֶה הַדֶּרֶךְ, וְלִבְנוֹתַי מָה אֶעֱשֶׂה מֵהָרַע, וַהֲגַם שֶׁהֵן הַיּוֹם חוֹשְׁבִים עַצְמָן לְנָכְרִים וְעוֹקְרִים מֵהֶם שֵׁם בְּנוֹתַי, וְהוּא אָמְרוֹ לָאֵלֶּה הַיּוֹם, פֵּירוּשׁ שֶׁהַיּוֹם נִקְרָאִים אֶצְלִי ״אֵלֶּה״ לְצַד מַעֲשֵׂיהֶן, אַף עַל פִּי כֵן בְּנוֹתַי הֵם.
ולבנותי מה אעשה לאלה, "As to my daughters, what can I do to these?" The word לאלה appears to have no meaning. Perhaps it refers to the words: "all that you behold?" The verse then would mean this: "Since they are my daughters, what can I do to these possessions seeing they are also their children's?" Or, Laban may have meant that though my daughters describe themselves as strangers today, the fact is that I still consider them as my daughters. "What can I do about the way they feel?" We would have to read the words לאלה היום, as belonging together; "today they are called "these" in view of the actions they have committed against me although nominally they are still my daughters."
לִבְנֵיהֶן אֲשֶׁר יָלָדוּ. דִּקְדֵּק לוֹמַר ״אֲשֶׁר יָלָדוּ״, שֶׁלֹּא לְיַחֵס הַבָּנִים אַחַר אִמָּם, לָזֶה אָמַר ״אֲשֶׁר יָלָדוּ״, לוֹמַר כִּי מַה שֶׁקּוֹרֵא אוֹתָם בְּנֵיהֶם לֹא לְיַחֲסָם אַחֲרֵיהֶם, כִּי לְמִשְׁפְּחוֹתָם לְבֵית אֲבוֹתָם, אֶלָּא לְצַד שֶׁיָּלְדוּ אוֹתָם קָרָא לָהֶם שֵׁם בְּנֵיהֶם. וַהֲגַם שֶׁהֵם דִּבְרֵי לָבָן, עִם כָּל זֶה הַתּוֹרָה תְּלַמֵּד דִּינִים בְּאֶמְצָעוּת הַסִּפּוּרִים, כְּמוֹ שֶׁתִּמְצָא שֶׁלָּמְדוּ (ירושלמי מועד קטן א:ז:ג) מִנַּיִן שֶׁאֵין מְעָרְבִין שִׂמְחָה בְּשִׂמְחָה, דִּכְתִיב ״מַלֵּא שְׁבֻעַ זֹאת״ וְגוֹ׳, הֲגַם שֶׁהֵם דִּבְרֵי לָבָן.
לבניהם אשר ילדו, to their sons whom they bore. He made a point of saying: "whom they bore," in order not to identify the children with their mother. He only called them their sons since they were biologically their mothers' children. He hoped that they did not share their mothers' character traits. Although the Torah puts these words in the mouth of the wicked Laban, the Torah teaches us something of legal significance at the same time. This is the lesson that in Jewish law the term "family" is determined by the father and not by the mother. We find a similar lesson that the Torah teaches by using Laban as an illustration when the latter espoused the principle of אין מערבים שמחה בשמחה, that one does not celebrate two joyful events simultaneoulsy. Laban had used this rule when he delayed Jacob's and Rachel's wedding by a week so that Leah could have a full week of wedding celebrations with her husband (compare Jerusalem Talmud Moed Katan chapter 1).