The Koren Shalem Siddur; Ashkenaz, The Cycle of Life, Funeral Service
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עֲקַבְיָא בֶּן מַהֲלַלְאֵל אוֹמֵר: הִסְתַּכֵּל בִּשְׁלֹשָׁה דְבָרִים, וְאֵין אַתָּה בָא לִידֵי עֲבֵרָה. דַּע מֵאַֽיִן בָּֽאתָ, וּלְאָן אַתָּה הוֹלֵךְ, וְלִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָתִיד לִתֵּן דִּין וְחֶשְׁבּוֹן. מֵאַֽיִן בָּֽאתָ, מִטִּפָּה סְרוּחָה. וּלְאָן אַתָּה הוֹלֵךְ, לִמְקוֹם עָפָר, רִמָּה וְתוֹלֵעָה. וְלִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָתִיד לִתֵּן דִּין וְחֶשְׁבּוֹן, לִפְנֵי מֶֽלֶךְ מַלְכֵי הַמְּלָכִים, הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא.
עֲקַבְיָא Akavya ben Mahalalel said: Reflect on three things and you will avoid transgression: Know where you came from, where you are going, and before whom you will have to give an account and reckoning. “Where you came from” – from a putrid drop. “Where you are going” – to a place of dust, worms and maggots. “And before whom you will have to give an account and reckoning” – before the Supreme King of kings, the Holy One, blessed be He.
יֹשֵׁב בְּסֵֽתֶר עֶלְיוֹן, בְּצֵל שַׁדַּי יִתְלוֹנָן׃ אֹמַר לַיהוה מַחְסִי וּמְצוּדָתִי, אֱלֹהַי אֶבְטַח־בּוֹ׃ כִּי הוּא יַצִּילְךָ מִפַּח יָקוּשׁ, מִדֶּֽבֶר הַוּוֹת׃ בְּאֶבְרָתוֹ יָֽסֶךְ לָךְ, וְתַֽחַת־כְּנָפָיו תֶּחְסֶה, צִנָּה וְסֹחֵרָה אֲמִתּוֹ׃ לֹא־תִירָא מִפַּֽחַד לָֽיְלָה, מֵחֵץ יָעוּף יוֹמָם׃ מִדֶּֽבֶר בָּאֹֽפֶל יַהֲלֹךְ, מִקֶּֽטֶב יָשׁוּד צָהֳרָֽיִם׃ יִפֹּל מִצִּדְּךָ אֶֽלֶף, וּרְבָבָה מִימִינֶֽךָ, אֵלֶֽיךָ לֹא יִגָּשׁ׃ רַק בְּעֵינֶֽיךָ תַבִּיט, וְשִׁלֻּמַת רְשָׁעִים תִּרְאֶה׃ כִּי־אַתָּה יהוה מַחְסִי, עֶלְיוֹן שַֽׂמְתָּ מְעוֹנֶֽךָ׃ לֹא־תְאֻנֶּה אֵלֶֽיךָ רָעָה, וְנֶֽגַע לֹא־יִקְרַב בְּאָהֳלֶֽךָ׃ כִּי מַלְאָכָיו יְצַוֶּה־לָּךְ, לִשְׁמָרְךָ בְּכָל־דְּרָכֶֽיךָ׃ עַל־כַּפַּֽיִם יִשָּׂאֽוּנְךָ, פֶּן־תִּגֹּף בָּאֶֽבֶן רַגְלֶֽךָ׃ עַל־שַֽׁחַל וָפֶֽתֶן תִּדְרֹךְ, תִּרְמֹס כְּפִיר וְתַנִּין׃ כִּי בִי חָשַׁק וַאֲפַלְּטֵֽהוּ, אֲשַׂגְּבֵֽהוּ כִּי־יָדַע שְׁמִי׃ יִקְרָאֵֽנִי וְאֶעֱנֵֽהוּ, עִמּוֹ אָנֹכִי בְצָרָה, אֲחַלְּצֵֽהוּ וַאֲכַבְּדֵֽהוּ׃ אֹֽרֶךְ יָמִים אַשְׂבִּיעֵֽהוּ, וְאַרְאֵֽהוּ בִּישׁוּעָתִי׃ אֹֽרֶךְ יָמִים אַשְׂבִּיעֵֽהוּ, וְאַרְאֵֽהוּ בִּישׁוּעָתִי׃
יֹשֵׁב בְּסֵֽתֶר He who lives in the shelter of the Most High dwells in the shadow of the Almighty. I say of the LORD, my Refuge and Stronghold, my God in whom I trust, that He will save you from the fowler’s snare and the deadly pestilence. With His pinions He will cover you, and beneath His wings you will find shelter; His faithfulness is an encircling shield. You need not fear terror by night, nor the arrow that flies by day; not the pestilence that stalks in darkness, nor the plague that ravages at noon. A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you. You will only look with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked. Because you [have said:] “The LORD is my Refuge,” taking the Most High as your shelter, no harm will befall you, no plague will come near your tent, for He will command His angels about you, to guard you in all your ways. They will lift you in their hands, lest your foot stumble on a stone. You will tread on lions and vipers, you will trample on young lions and snakes. [God says] “Because he loves Me, I will rescue him; I will protect him, because he acknowledges My name. When he calls on Me, I will answer him, I will be with him in distress, I will deliver him and bring him honor. With long life I will satisfy him, and show him My salvation. With long life I will satisfy him, and show him My salvation.”
צדוק הדין
THE ACCEPTANCE OF JUDGMENT
הַצּוּר תָּמִים פָּעֳלוֹ, כִּי כָל־דְּרָכָיו מִשְׁפָּט אֵל אֱמוּנָה וְאֵין עָֽוֶל, צַדִּיק וְיָשָׁר הוּא:
הַצּוּר The Rock, His work is perfect, for all His ways are just; A faithful God who does no wrong, righteous and fair is He.
הַצּוּר תָּמִים בְּכָל פֹּֽעַל, מִי יֹאמַר לוֹ מַה תִּפְעַל הַשַּׁלִּיט בְּמַֽטָּה וּבְמַֽעַל. מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה, מוֹרִיד שְׁאוֹל וַיָּֽעַל:
The Rock, perfect in every deed: Who can say to Him, “What have You done?” He rules below and above. He brings death and gives life, bringing down to the grave and raising up again.
הַצּוּר תָּמִים בְּכָל מַעֲשֶׂה, מִי יֹאמַר לוֹ מַה תַּעֲשֶׂה הָאוֹמֵר וְעוֹשֶׂה, חֶֽסֶד חִנָּם לָֽנוּ תַעֲשֶׂה וּבִזְכוּת הַנֶּעֱקַד כְּשֶׂה, הַקְשִֽׁיבָה וַעֲשֵׂה.
The Rock, perfect in every act: Who can say to Him, “Why do You so act?” You who speak and act: show us kindness we do not deserve, and in the merit of the one who was bound like a lamb, hear us and act.
צַדִּיק בְּכָל דְּרָכָיו הַצּוּר תָּמִים, אֶֽרֶךְ אַפַּֽיִם וּמָלֵא רַחֲמִים חֲמָל נָא וְחוּס נָא עַל אָבוֹת וּבָנִים כִּי לְךָ אָדוֹן הַסְּלִיחוֹת וְהָרַחֲמִים.
Righteous in all His ways, the Rock who is perfect, slow to anger and full of compassion, please have pity and spare parents and children, for Yours, LORD, are forgiveness and compassion.
צַדִּיק אַתָּה יהוה לְהָמִית וּלְהַחֲיוֹת אֲשֶׁר בְּיָדְךָ פִּקְדוֹן כָּל רוּחוֹת, חָלִֽילָה לְּךָ זִכְרוֹנֵֽנוּ לִמְחוֹת וְיִהְיוּ נָא עֵינֶֽיךָ בְּרַחֲמִים עָלֵֽינוּ פְקוּחוֹת כִּי לְךָ אָדוֹן הָרַחֲמִים וְהַסְּלִיחוֹת.
You are righteous, LORD, in bringing death and giving life. In Your hand is the safekeeping of all spirits. Far be it from You to erase our remembrance. May Your eyes be open to us in compassion, for Yours, LORD, are compassion and forgiveness.
אָדָם אִם בֶּן שָׁנָה יִהְיֶה, אוֹ אֶֽלֶף שָׁנִים יִחְיֶה מַה יִּתְרוֹן לּוֹ, כְּלֹא הָיָה יִהְיֶה בָּרוּךְ דַּיַּן הָאֱמֶת, מֵמִית וּמְחַיֶּה.
If one lives for a year or a thousand years, what does it profit him? He shall be as if he had never been. Blessed is the true Judge who brings death and gives life.
בָּרוּךְ הוּא כִּי אֱמֶת דִּינוֹ, וּמְשׁוֹטֵט הַכֹּל בְּעֵינוֹ וּמְשַׁלֵּם לְאָדָם חֶשְׁבּוֹנוֹ וְדִינוֹ, וְהַכֹּל לִשְׁמוֹ הוֹדָיָה יִתֵּֽנוּ.
Blessed is He for His judgment is true, and in His sight He surveys all. He repays man in accord with his account and just desert, and all must render acknowledgment to His name.
יָדַֽעְנוּ יהוה כִּי צֶֽדֶק מִשְׁפָּטֶֽךָ, תִּצְדַּק בְּדָבְרֶֽךָ וְתִזְכֶּה בְשָׁפְטֶֽךָ וְאֵין לְהַרְהֵר אַחַר מִדַּת שָׁפְטֶֽךָ. צַדִּיק אַתָּה יהוה, וְיָשָׁר מִשְׁפָּטֶֽיךָ:
We know, LORD, that Your judgment is just. You are just when You speak and fair when You judge. It is not for us to criticize Your manner of judgment. You are righteous, LORD, and Your judgments are fair.
דַּיַּן אֱמֶת, שׁוֹפֵט צֶֽדֶק וֶאֱמֶת בָּרוּךְ דַּיַּן הָאֱמֶת, שֶׁכָּל מִשְׁפָּטָיו צֶֽדֶק וֶאֱמֶת.
True Judge, Judge of righteousness and truth: Blessed is the true Judge for all His judgments are righteous and true.
נֶֽפֶשׁ כָּל חַי בְּיָדֶֽךָ, צֶֽדֶק מָלְאָה יְמִינְךָ וְיָדֶֽךָ רַחֵם עַל פְּלֵטַת צֹאן עֲבָדֶֽיךָ, וְתֹאמַר לַמַּלְאַךְ הֶֽרֶף יָדֶֽךָ.
In Your hand is the soul of every living thing. Your right hand and power are full of righteousness. Have compassion on the remnant of the flock of those who serve You, and say to the angel [of death], “Stay your hand.”
גְּדֹל הָעֵצָה וְרַב הָעֲלִילִיָּה אֲשֶׁר־עֵינֶֽיךָ פְקֻחוֹת עַל־כָּל־דַּרְכֵי בְּנֵי אָדָם לָתֵת לְאִישׁ כִּדְרָכָיו, וְכִפְרִי מַעֲלָלָיו:
Great in counsel and mighty in deed, Your eyes are open to all the ways of men, giving each according to his ways and the fruit of his deeds:
לְהַגִּיד כִּי־יָשָׁר יהוה, צוּרִי וְלֹא־עַוְלָֽתָה בּוֹ:
to proclaim that the LORD is upright; He is my Rock, in whom there is no wrong.
יהוה נָתַן וַיהוה לָקָח, יְהִי שֵׁם יהוה מְבֹרָךְ:
The LORD has given and the LORD has taken away: blessed be the name of the LORD.
וְהוּא רַחוּם, יְכַפֵּר עָוֹן וְלֹא־יַשְׁחִית וְהִרְבָּה לְהָשִׁיב אַפּוֹ, וְלֹא־יָעִיר כָּל־חֲמָתוֹ:
He is compassionate; He forgives iniquity and does not destroy. Repeatedly He suppresses His anger, not rousing His full wrath.
אבל: יִתְגַּדַּל וְיִתְקַדַּשׁ שְׁמֵהּ רַבָּא (אָמֵן) בְּעָלְמָא דְהוּא עָתִיד לְאִתְחַדָּתָא וּלְאַחְיָאָה מֵתַיָּא, וּלְאַסָּקָא יָתְהוֹן לְחַיֵּי עָלְמָא וּלְמִבְנֵא קַרְתָּא דִירוּשְׁלֵם, וּלְשַׁכְלָלָא הֵיכְלֵהּ בְּגַוַהּ וּלְמֶעְקַר פָּלְחָנָא נֻכְרָאָה מֵאַרְעָא וְלַאֲתָבָא פָּלְחָנָא דִשְׁמַיָּא לְאַתְרֵהּ וְיַמְלִיךְ קֻדְשָׁא בְּרִיךְ הוּא בְּמַלְכוּתֵהּ וִיקָרֵהּ בְּחַיֵּיכוֹן וּבְיוֹמֵיכוֹן וּבְחַיֵּי דְּכָל בֵּית יִשְׂרָאֵל בַּעֲגָלָא וּבִזְמַן קָרִיב, וְאִמְרוּ אָמֵן. (אָמֵן)
Mourner: Magnified and sanctified may His great name be, in the world that will in future be renewed, reviving the dead and raising them up to eternal life. He will rebuild the city of Jerusalem and in it reestablish His Temple. He will remove alien worship from the earth and restore to its place the worship of Heaven. Then the Holy One, blessed be He, will reign in His sovereignty and splendor. May it be in your lifetime and in your days, and in the lifetime of all the house of Israel, swiftly and soon – and say: Amen.
קהל ואבל: יְהֵא שְׁמֵהּ רַבָּא מְבָרַךְ לְעָלַם וּלְעָלְמֵי עָלְמַיָּא.
All: May His great name be blessed for ever and all time.
אבל: יִתְבָּרַךְ וְיִשְׁתַּבַּח וְיִתְפָּאַר וְיִתְרוֹמַם וְיִתְנַשֵּׂא וְיִתְהַדָּר וְיִתְעַלֶּה וְיִתְהַלָּל שְׁמֵהּ דְּקֻדְשָׁא בְּרִיךְ הוּא (בְּרִיךְ הוּא) לְעֵֽלָּא מִן כָּל בִּרְכָתָאבעשרת ימי תשובה: לְעֵֽלָּא לְעֵֽלָּא מִכָּל בִּרְכָתָא/ וְשִׁירָתָא, תֻּשְׁבְּחָתָא וְנֶחֱמָתָא דַּאֲמִירָן בְּעָלְמָא, וְאִמְרוּ אָמֵן. (אָמֵן)
Mourner: Blessed and praised, glorified and exalted, raised and honored, uplifted and lauded be the name of the Holy One, blessed be He, beyond any blessing, song, praise and consolation uttered in the world – and say: Amen.
יְהֵא שְׁלָמָא רַבָּא מִן שְׁמַיָּא וְחַיִּים, עָלֵֽינוּ וְעַל כָּל יִשְׂרָאֵל, וְאִמְרוּ אָמֵן. (אָמֵן)
May there be great peace from heaven, and life for us and all Israel – and say: Amen.
קהל: עֹשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם/בעשרת ימי תשובה: הַשָּׁלוֹם/ בִּמְרוֹמָיו הוּא יַעֲשֶׂה שָׁלוֹם, עָלֵֽינוּ וְעַל כָּל יִשְׂרָאֵל וְאִמְרוּ אָמֵן. (אָמֵן)
May He who makes peace in His high places, make peace for us and all Israel – and say: Amen.
הַמָּקוֹם יְנַחֵם אוֹתְךָ/אוֹתָךְ/אֶתְכֶם בְּתוֹךְ שְׁאָר אֲבֵלֵי צִיּוֹן וִירוּשָׁלָֽיִם.
May the Almighty comfort you among the other mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
וְלֹא תוֹסִֽיפוּ לְדַאֲבָה עוֹד.
May you have no further grief.
וְיָצִֽיצוּ מֵעִיר כְּעֵֽשֶׂב הָאָֽרֶץ:
May they of the city grow like the grass of the earth.
זָכוּר כִּי־עָפָר אֲנָֽחְנוּ:
Remember that we are dust.
בִּלַּע הַמָּֽוֶת לָנֶֽצַח, וּמָחָה אֲדֹנָי יֱהֹוִה דִּמְעָה מֵעַל כָּל־פָּנִים, וְחֶרְפַּת עַמּוֹ יָסִיר מֵעַל כָּל־הָאָֽרֶץ, כִּי יהוה דִּבֵּר:
He will destroy death for ever, and the LORD God will wipe away the tears from all faces and remove the reproach of His people from the whole earth, for the LORD has spoken.