Lessons from a Lifetime of Paying Attention: Rebbetzin Shoshana Schachter
From Behind the Bima: R Efrem Goldberg by R Efrem Goldberg.
- Published: Tue, 3 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000
- Duration: 01:23:18
- Audio: https://cdn.simplecast.com/audio/6bb88e3f-be82-49db-8030-4df7b1e067f4/episodes/093c97ba-7787-4df2-ae3c-9167a6610bdb/audio/b2c81466-d987-474e-ab4f-08ec34b8d27c/default_tc.mp3?aid=rss_feed&feed=dEQ6NxQT
- Page: https://behind-the-bima.simplecast.com/episodes/lessons-from-a-lifetime-of-paying-attention-rebbetzin-shoshana-schechter-rhw6UO2u
- TorahApp: https://torahapp.org/share/p/3P_r_efrem_goldberg_behind_the_bima/e/8565f8db-c246-427a-ae97-e2707a3b3258
What does paying attention over time teach you about people?
In this episode of Behind the Bima, Rabbi Efrem Goldberg and Rabbi Philip Moskowitz are joined by Rebbetzin Shoshana Schachter for a thoughtful conversation about dating, raising children, and the relationships that shape our lives.
Drawing from decades of lived experience, Rebbetzin Schachter reflects on how emotional awareness and restraint influence the way we approach dating and parenting. She speaks about the importance of watching people carefully, allowing relationships to unfold over time, and understanding that judgment is often formed not through answers, but through attention.
This season of Behind the Bima is sponsored by Julie Charlestein & Darryl Benjamin in honor of their grandparents, Morton & Malvina Charlestein, and their children, Ruby and Maccabi Benjamin.
This Episode Discusses:
- Dating and emotional awareness
- Paying attention as relationships develop
- Restraint in parenting and family dynamics
- Learning when to respond and when to hold back
- Watching people carefully over time
- How judgment is shaped through experience
- Why wisdom often comes from observation, not advice
This is not an episode about solutions or prescriptions. It’s about learning to notice, and what that noticing teaches you about people, family, and yourself.